Usuku luza kuphela. Ibiyimini egcwele amava, iimvakalelo kunye nokufunda. Iintsuku, njengezahluko zembali yethu, zidlula ngamahla-ndinyuka, amanye amaxesha azele luvuyo kunye namanye okuzicingela. Ekupheleni kwayo nganye kuzo, sinikwa ithuba elikhethekileyo nelingenakubuyiselwa: sicamngce ngento esiyiphilayo, oko sikufundileyo kunye nendlela esinokuyiphucula ngayo ukuze siqhubeke sihambela phambili endleleni yethu.
Mhlawumbi olu suku lukushiye unencasa entle emlonyeni wakho kunye nemvakalelo yokwaneliseka koko ukuzuzileyo. Okanye mhlawumbi uye wajamelana nocelomngeni olushiye inkxalabo ethile engqondweni yakho. Nangona kunjalo, inyani enye ayinakuguqulwa: imini iya ekupheleni. Ujongene nomzuzu ofanelekileyo wokuma, ujonge ngaphakathi kwaye ucinge ukuba olu suku luthetha ntoni kuwe.
Ukubaluleka kokucingisisa ekupheleni kosuku
Ukucamngca ekupheleni kosuku luphawu lokuzithanda ngokunzulu kunye nokuzazi. Lithuba lokunxibelelana nathi, sivavanye izenzo zethu kwaye sicinge ngendlela esinokujongana ngayo nengomso ngamandla amakhulu. Ngaphaya koko, lo msebenzi wokuhlola usenza sikwazi ukuchonga iipatheni zokuziphatha, siqonde iimvakalelo zethu kwaye sifumane ukucaca ngamaxesha okungaqiniseki.
Esi senzo asivelisi uxolo lwangaphakathi kuphela, kodwa sikwakhuthaza ukukhula komntu kunye neemvakalelo.. Ngokuma ucinge ngezinto oye wajamelana nazo, unako fumana izifundo ezifihliweyo Kwezona ziganeko zilula, qaphela impumelelo yakho, wamkele iimpazamo zakho kwaye uzinike indawo yokufunda kuzo.
Ixabiso lexesha lokuzihlola
La Ukungeniswa Isinxibelelanisa neyona nto yethu ibalulekileyo. Kuloo nzolo yangaphakathi apho sinokuthi sivavanye indlela esilichithe ngayo ixesha lethu, indlela esiye sabaphatha ngayo abanye kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, indlela esizikhathalele ngayo. Emini, sithanda ukuntywiliselwa kwiinkqubo zesiqhelo, uxanduva kunye nokuzibophelela okuhlala kusisahlukanisa kule ndawo yobudlelane.
Suku ngalunye oluphelayo luza nethuba lokuphinda uzalwe ngokweemvakalelo, ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzibuza: yintoni le mini indishiye? Ndifunde ntoni? Ziziphi iimvakalelo ezazikho? Ezi ntlobo zemibuzo zizixhobo ezinamandla zokugcina ubomi obulungeleleneyo kunye nokuqonda.
Imibuzo ephambili yokuziqhelanisa nokucamngca imihla ngemihla
Ikhuthazwe ziindlela zokufundisa ezifana nezo zicetyiswe ngamanani anjengoFrank Ostaseski, utitshala owaziwayo wamaBhuda, nantsi eminye imibuzo enokukhokela imbonakalo yakho yasebusuku:
- Yintoni endikhuthazileyo namhlanje? Mhlawumbi yayiyincoko enentsingiselo, ububele, okanye into nje elula njengokubukela ukutshona kwelanga.
- Ziziphi iingxaki endijongene nazo namhlanje? Camngca ngendlela owenze ngayo xa ujongene nobunzima: yintoni onokuyiphucula? Ufunde ntoni kolu celomngeni?
- Ndothuswe yintoni namhlanje? Okothusayo kusenokuba kwezona nkcukacha zincinci, njengokufumanisa into entsha ngawe okanye ngehlabathi elikungqongileyo.
- Ndifunde ntoni ngothando namhlanje? Hayi nje kwimeko yothando, kodwa kwindlela obonise ngayo uvelwano, ububele, novelwano kwabanye okanye kuwe.
Indlela yokubulela kunye nefuthe layo lokuguqula
Ukongezelela ekucingeni ngamava akho, kuquka umbulelo njengenxalenye yokusondela kwakho kwimini kunokuba nempembelelo ebalulekileyo kwintlalontle yakho yeemvakalelo. Ukuba nombulelo ngezinto ezincinane—ukususela kwincoko eyakhayo ukusa ekubeni sempilweni entle—kuyasinceda gcina imbono eyakhayo nokuxabisa ubuhle bobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Ukubulela, njengento eqhubekayo, inamandla oku ukomeleza ubudlelwane bethu, siphucule ukuzithemba kwethu kwaye siguqule umbono wethu wehlabathi. Ekupheleni kosuku, yenza umthambo wokuchonga ubuncinane izinto ezintathu onombulelo ngazo. Uya kubona ukuba le ndlela ilula ingatshintsha njani indlela obubona ngayo ubomi bakho.
Ukulungiselela umhlaba wosuku olutsha
Ukuphela kosuku ikwalixesha elifanelekileyo lokucwangcisa indlela oza kujongana ngayo ngomso. Khumbula ukuba usuku ngalunye luza nalo ithuba lokuba qala kwakhona, ukulungisa iimpazamo nokusukela usukelo lwakho ngenzondelelo entsha.
Thatha imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokulala ukuze ubeke iinjongo ezicacileyo. Cinga ngendlela ongathanda ukuziva ngayo ekupheleni kosuku olulandelayo kwaye zeziphi izenzo eziphathekayo onokuzenza ukuze usondele kuloo mvakalelo.
Ubomi ngokwabo kukulandelelana kweentsuku eziqala neziphela. Njengomlambo kaHeraclitus, usuku ngalunye lwahlukile kumandla alo, lubonelela ngamathuba amatsha, imingeni kunye nokufunda. Ngokucingisisa, umbulelo kunye nenjongo, singaphila suku ngalunye sinentsingiselo enkulu, sinxibelelana nzulu nemo yethu kunye nehlabathi elisingqongileyo.
Njengoko uvala amehlo akho namhlanje, khumbula ukuba ngomso yiseyile engenanto elinde ukuqanjwa ngamaphupha kunye nezenzo zakho.