Ngezantsi libali lenkwenkwe yaseMelika eyayidandathekile kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Wayengoyena mntwana wenziwa intlekisa esikolweni, kodwa usibonisa indlela ngayo umzamo y nya mezela izinto zinokutshintsha. Obu bungqina buxhaswa ngu eminye imizekelo yokwenyani yabantu abathi, xa bejongene nemiqobo emikhulu, bafumana indlela yokuqhubela phambili, bexhomekeke kwindawo yabo nakwizicwangciso ezibambekayo zokugcina inkuthazo.
Ibali lokwenyani lotshintsho lomntu
Mna nabantakwethu eItali. (ukufikisa, iminyaka eyi-13)
“Bendisoloko ndisilwa nalo ukukhuluphala, ne ukuzijongela phantsi kunye ne ukuxinezelekaEsikolweni ndandingcungcuthekiswa yaye ndandigculelwa eklasini. Ngelo xesha ndayeka isikolo ndaza ndaqalisa ukufunda ekhaya ndizama ukubaleka yonke loo nto. Ukuxhatshazwa kwayeka, kodwa kungekhona ukudandatheka, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ndatyeba ngokukhawuleza.
Inqanaba le-15 iminyaka, i-108 kilos
Uxolo ngomgangatho ombi wefoto, kodwa kuphela kwenyani endinokuyifumana kwela xesha. Ndandizimela kwiikhamera yaye ndandidla ngokucela abazali bam ukuba bacime imifanekiso ababendifotile. Ukuba bebengandifuni, bendiza kwenza konke okusemandleni am ukufumana ikhompyutha okanye ikhamera ndize ndiyicime. Nakuloo minyaka ndandizele ukuzithiya«.
Inqanaba le-16 iminyaka, i-118 kilos
“Ngelo hlobo ndaya kwinkampu eyayiququzelelwe yicawa yam ukuzithemba"Ndandingomnye wamakhulu abakwishumi elivisayo ababezimase iminyhadala eyayibanjelwe elunxwemeni lolwandle. Ndiyakuthanda ukuqubha kunye nolwandle, ngoko ndandichulumancile. Uchulumanco lwakhawuleza lwajika lwaba luloyiko xa ndaqonda ukuba kwakuthetha ukuba kunye nabanye abadlali bezemidlalo, abantwana ababhityileyo. Kwaye ndandingumntwana otyebileyo odadayo kunye nokuhlamba kwi-T-shirt yam, ndineentloni zokubonisa umzimba wam."
Ngexesha elifanayo, iminyaka eyi-16
Uhambo kunye nomkhuluwa wam ukuya eGrisi: 121 kilos
"Ngumntakwethu kunye nam eAthene, kwakhona ngee-degrees ezingaphezu kwe-40 kwaye ndandisazifihla umfanekiso wam nge sweatshi emnyama. Apha bendisindwa ngamandla. Ndandiqala ngqa ebomini bam ukuba nesipili egumbini lam, kwaye rhoqo kusasa ndandivuka, ndijonge umzimba wam kwaye ndizicaphukele. Ndade ndavuka ngenye imini ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiya utshintsho«.
Ndikunye nomkhuluwa wam eTshayina: 80 kilos
"Ngonyaka omnye kunye nokungenasiphelo inkxaso evela kusapho lwam, ndalahlekelwa yi-40 kilos kwaye ubomi bam batshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Ndiye ndasuka ekutyeni endikufunayo ukutya "Ndandinokutya okungqongqo okusekelwe kwintlanzi, amaqanda, irayisi, iziqhamo kunye nemifuno. Ndaqalisa ukuphakamisa iintsimbi zemizuzu ye-40 ngosuku, ngaphezu kokusebenzisa umatshini we-elliptical imizuzu ye-20."
iTshayina
Ndikunye nabantakwethu kunye nabazala bam (ndingowesine ukusuka ekhohlo)
«Ndifuna ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kwe usapho kunye nabahlobo…Uzakufuna inkxaso yabo, kuba kuya kuba nzima ukoyisa ezinye izinto, kuyakuthatha ixesha, kwaye akukho nto yenzeka ngobusuku. Ekuphela kwento onokuyitshintsha ngoku yinkqubo yakho yokucinga kunye uzibona njani wena sele iinjongo zakho. Awunakuze ulufikelele usukelo lwakho ngaphandle kokuba ulusukele kwaye ulunike yonke into onayo. Kulungile ukuba uloyiko lokungaphumeleli, kodwa hayi ukuba ungazami.
"Akufuneki ukuba ulunge kakhulu qalisa Kodwa kufuneka uqale ukuba ngcono kakhulu.
Iindaba
Usacinga ukuba unjalo? likhoboka leemeko zakhoNdishiye uluvo lwakho kwaye undixelele ngamava akho ngotshintsho.
Imizekelo emininzi eqinisekisa amandla okunyamezela
UMichelle Ocampo, ibhinqa eliselula elingaboniyo, lijongene nengxaki yezempilo emva kwendibano yolonwabo eyamshiya ekwikoma, ene ukulahleka kombono kakhulu, ukushukumiseka kunye neengxaki zolwimi. Ngonyango kunye nokunyamezela, wayibuyisela ngokuyinxenye le misebenzi kwaye wagqiba izifundo zakhe Umzimba wonyango. Iyunivesiti yakhe imdibanise ne inkqubo yokukhapha kunye nokubandakanywa enika inkxaso ye-psychoeducational kunye ulungelelwaniso lwekharityhulam, iququzelelwa yiNtlalontle yaBafundi kunye nefakhalthi yakho. Kwiziko lakho, iindlela zononophelo kunye nenkxaso (ukuya kuthi ga kwiisekethe ezichaziweyo ezili-18) eziqinisekisa indawo efikelelekayo. UMichelle ugxininisa ukuba amava akhe ayamvumela ukuvelana nezigulana ehamba ngeenkqubo ezifanayo.
Kwihlabathi lezolonwabo nenzululwazi, sifumana abantu abaguqula ubunzima baba yinto ephambili. UMichael J. Fox kwafunyaniswa ukuba unalo Parkinson kwiminyaka engama-29; kwiminyaka kamva waya esidlangalaleni, waqhubeka edlala, kwaye wenza isiseko esikhuthaza uphando. Frida Kahlo ujike iintlungu zomzimba ezibangelwe yingozi embi ubugcisa oko kugqithela kwizizukulwana. UAndrea Bocelli, nge-congenital glaucoma kunye nokulahleka kokubona ngokupheleleyo kwi-preadolescence, wavelisa umsebenzi ongaqhelekanga womculo kunye nokuxhasa izizathu ezinxulumene noku. ukukhubazeka okubonakalayo. UStephen Hawking, kwafunyaniswa ukuba unaso Yena Ebutsheni bakhe, waqhubeka nomsebenzi wakhe ngoncedo lwetekhnoloji, enikela ngeethiyori malunga imingxunya emnyama kunye nobume bexesha. UHelen Keller, abangaboniyo nabangevayo ukususela ebuntwaneni, bafunda ukunxibelelana nenkxaso ye U-Anne Sullivan, waphumelela eyunivesithi waza waba ireferensi kwi ubutshutshisi ukubandakanywa.
Kukho namabali abantu abane ITI abafezekisa iinjongo zabo zemfundo kunye neengcali, babonisa ukuba, ngenkxaso eyaneleyo kunye nokunyamezela, akukho phupha elingenakufezekiswa. Olu hambo lomeleza umyalezo onqamlezileyo: Ukukhubazeka akuchazi ukubanakho; okusingqongileyo, izibonelelo, kunye nendlela yokucinga yenza umahluko.
Le seti yamabali ibonisa ukuba ukoyisa yinkqubo enamahla-ndinyuka: ifuna nomonde, ukukwazi ukucela uncedo, uhlengahlengiso kwi i siqhelo kunye nombono ocacileyo wenjongo. Xa iinzame zihambelana nenkxaso efanelekileyo kunye nokusingqongileyo okubandakanyayo, inguqu iyenzeka kwaye ishiya umkhondo okhuthaza abanye ukuba bazame.
