Ngaphambi kokuba ndixoxe ngezi mpawu zi-7 ziqhelekileyo zabantu abazithembileyo, Makhe ndikubonise le ntengiso evela kwihobe apho uhlobo olunomdla kakhulu lwenziwe, Ukuqaqambisa ukunganqabiseki kwabasetyhini abaninzi ngokubhekisele kwimizimba yabo.
Kule vidiyo, ingcali kwimifanekiso yeerobhothi yenze imizobo yabasetyhini abathile ngokusekwe kwinkcazo yomzimba abayinike bona. Ukutyhila kakhulu:
[imephu]Abantu abanokuzithemba okuphezulu banoluhlu lweempawu ezibenza bazive benokuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye bezimisele xa kufikwa ekufezekiseni iinjongo zabo. Kule nqaku sidibanise ezisi-7 ukuze sikwazi ukuqonda indlela abenza ngayo kunye nendlela abazi-odola ngayo iingqondo zabo ukufezekisa oko bakucebisayo.
1. Ziyacaca malunga nenjongo yazo
Ukususela kumzuzu wokuqala bayayazi into abayifunayo kwaye bazi amandla abo kunye nobuthathaka babo. Ngale ndlela banokwenza ibhalansi encinci ukubona ukuba bayakwazi ukufikelela esiphelweni sendlela abayiphawulileyo. Bayaziqonda iimpazamo zabo kunye nokusikelwa umda, kwaye babenze babe namava amatsha okufunda.
2. Bayazi indlela yokwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho
Ngawo loo maxesha esona sidingo sikhulu (xa beziva ngathi ukuzithemba kwabo kuyehla okanye baziva bengalunganga ngenxa yeemeko ezithile), bayakwazi ukuzinika intetho encinci yengqondo ebanceda ukuba baqhubeke. Bayayiqonda into yokuba ngamanye amaxesha banokufuna "ikhefu" elincinci, kodwa bakube belithathile, babuyela kwiprojekthi yabo kunye ziibhetri ezihlawulisiweyo.
3. Bayakonwabela ukuchitha ixesha bodwa.
Bafuna ukuchitha ixesha lokuba bodwa imini yonke. Ngale ndlela banokuphumla kwaye bazive bekhululekile kwimbophelelo abanokuba nayo. Ezi ntlobo zabantu ziyabaxabisa abahlobo kunye nosapho, ayisiyiyo into yokuba bashiywe belahliwe, bafuna nje ukuba nexesha labo kwaye ngenxa yoko baqokelele iingcinga zabo kancinci ukuze bazi ukuba bazakwenza ntoni ngokulandelayo.
4. Abavumeli ukuba amajelo osasazo okanye intlalo ibakhokele ngendlela abamele ukuba yiyo
Bayayazi indlela yokuchonga intengiso elahlekisayo, ke ababayeki babalawule ngendlela amabanxibe ngayo okanye bacinge ngayo. Umzekelo, bathatha isigqibo sokuba bayafuna ukutshata okanye ukuba nosapho ngaphandle kokuba nabani na abe nefuthe kwisigqibo sabo.
5. Bayayazi indlela yokufumana ukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela
Bayazi ukuba bazakuphila amaxesha anzima kwaye aboyiki ngenxa yoko. Bayazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba amaxesha obumnyama aya kuza kodwa inqaku liya kuza apho banokukubona khona ukukhanya ekugqibeleni.
Aba bantu banako ukulawula iimvakalelo; hayi eyabo kuphela, kodwa neyabanye abantu ababangqongileyo. Olo lawulo lokusingqongileyo lubalulekile ukuze uzive ukhuselekile.
6. Imibuzo ibuzwa malunga nabo nokusingqongileyo
Bayeka ukuhlalutya abanako kwaye bazibuze ukuba bakufumene njani. Ukongeza, babuza nombuzo Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyenzile ukuze ndonwabe ngakumbi ebomini bam ukusukela ngoku? kwaye bayakwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngokwabo impendulo.
7. Bayazibuza ukuba mabenze ntoni na ukuphucula ihlabathi
Bayazibuza ukuba bangawasebenzisa njani amandla abo ukuphucula ilizwe abahlala kulo. Bajonge indlela yokwabelana ngeetalente zabo nabanye.
Inqaku elilunge kakhulu lindincedile ukuba ndicace kancinane.