Umahluko omangalisayo phakathi kwabantwana kunye nabantu abadala: Amandla, ingqondo kunye neemvakalelo

  • Abantwana babonisa amandla angenamda kunye nomdla wemvelo wokuphanda ihlabathi elibangqongileyo.
  • Ingqondo yomntwana inamandla ngakumbi kwaye iplastiki, evumela ukufunda ngokukhawuleza kunye nokubuyisela emva kokulimala.
  • Ukuziqhelanisa nemikhwa yobuntwana efana nokuyila, ukuzenzela, kunye nokujolisa ngoku kunokuphucula ubomi babantu abadala.

Umahluko phakathi kwabantwana nabantu abadala

Uyazikhumbula iintsuku zokudlala okungapheliyo nabahlobo bakho? Ubuntwana linqanaba elimangalisayo apho ukufun' ukwazi, ukucinga kunye nokuzenzekelayo kulawula. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa sibadala? Eli nqaku lihlolisisa umdla umahluko Entre bantwana y abadala, ukusuka kwindlela yabo yokuziphatha ukuya kwindlela yabo yokuqonda ihlabathi.

Ihlabathi ngokwembono yomntwana

Abantwana babona ihlabathi kunye amehlo azele ukumangaliswa kunye nemfihlelo. Kubo, yonke into intsha kwaye inika umdla. Ukuba ubukela iqela labantwana elidlala epakini, uya kuqaphela indlela ababaleka ngayo, batsibe kwaye bahleke ngokukhululeka ngokupheleleyo, ukuleqa amabhabhathane okanye ukuqamba imidlalo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngexesha. Oku amandla, ephantse ibe ngumlingo, iphuma ekugxininiseni kwayo kwixesha langoku, uphawu oludla ngokuphela xa umntu emdala.

Isicatshulwa esishwankathela le ngcamango sisuka UTom Wargo: «Ukuba mdala kunyanzelekile, ukukhula kukuzikhethela«. Abantwana basifundisa ukuba siphile ngokupheleleyo, sibe namava umzuzu ngamnye ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukuzikhathaza ngento ecingwa ngabanye.

Amanqanaba obomi

Ukuziphatha kunye nemikhwa: Abantwana vs. Abantu abadala

Omnye umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwabantwana nabantu abadala ulele kwindlela ababalawula ngayo amandla kunye zabo iimvakalelo:

  • Amandla angayekiyo: Abantwana abawathinteli amandla abo, bawavumela ukuba ahambe. Le nkululeko inamandla ivumela ukuba banandiphe ngokupheleleyo kwaye, emva koko, baphumle ngokunzulu, nto leyo ebabonelela ngemeko impilo epheleleyo yomzimba neyengqondo.
  • Unxibelelwano loluntu: Xa kuthelekiswa, abantu abadala bahlala benenkxalabo malunga nendlela izenzo kunye namazwi abo abonwa ngayo ngabanye, nto leyo enokuthi ithintele ukuzenzela kwabo kwaye ibangele Uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi.
  • Ubudlelwane nokulala: Abantwana balala ngokunzulu kwaye ngokwemvelo, ngenxa yokukhokela ubomi obusebenzayo nobunempilo. Kwelinye icala, abantu abadala, ukoyiswa yi uxinzelelo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezinto ezifana nekofu, kudla ngokuba nobuthongo obukhaphukhaphu kwaye obungaphumliyo.

Undoqo ekubuyiseleni loo mvakalelo yenkululeko nokuba namandla kukwamkela abanye imikhwa yobuntwana. Ukulinganisa ukutya kwakho okunokulinganisela kunye nendlela esebenzayo yobomi kunokuba ne impembelelo elungileyo kwimpilo yethu yomzimba neyengqondo. Kukwabalulekile ukuba siyiyeke inkxalabo ngendlela izenzo zethu ezijongwa ngayo ngabanye.

I-Brain Evolution: Iiyantlukwano zengqondo

Ubuchopho bomntwana buhlala bukhula, nto leyo eyenza ukuba buguquguquke kwaye bubumbeke ngakumbi kunengqondo yabantu abadala. Oku kubizwa iplastiki yengqondo, isakhono esinciphayo xa sikhula kodwa asipheli ngokupheleleyo.

  • Umdla wangaphakathi: Abantwana bahlola ihlabathi juego kunye nokulinga, ngelixa abantu abadala bakholisa ukukhokelwa ngakumbi ngengqiqo kunye namava afunyenweyo.
  • Ukungxama: Abantwana abanayo iifayile iingqondo ezinengqondo eziphuhliswe ngokupheleleyo, nto leyo ezenza zibe zizityhuthutyhuthu ngakumbi. Kubantu abadala, i ukukhula kwengqondo Ibavumela ukuba bazilawule ngokweemvakalelo.
  • Ixesha lenkonzo: Abantwana banesakhono esincitshisiweyo sokugcina ingqalelo ezinzileyo ngenxa yabo ikortex yangaphambili Isaphuhla. Oku kuchaza ukutyekela kwakhe ukuhamba rhoqo kunye nobunzima bakhe bokugxila ixesha elide.

Ukukhula komntu

Lo neuroplasticity Kukwathetha ukuba abantwana banokuchacha ngokulula ngakumbi kukwenzakala kwengqondo, nangona ingqondo yabo isesichengeni utshintsho ngenxa yokungabikho kozinziso lwemisebenzi yokuqonda.

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Izifundo kubantwana abadala

Abantwana basifundisa izifundo ezibalulekileyo ezinokuphucula umgangatho wobomi bethu njengabantu abadala:

  1. Buyela kwiziseko: Abantwana bafumana uvuyo kwezona zinto zilula. Ukudlala ngaphandle, ukucula okanye ukudanisa imisebenzi ezingafuni teknoloji okanye iindleko, kwaye zivelisa ulonwabo.
  2. Hlakulela ubuchule: Ingcamango yabantwana ayinamida. Abantu abadala banokuzuza ngokubandakanya imisebenzi yokuyila efana nokupeyinta, umculo okanye ukubhala kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.
  3. Yahlukana nokugweba kwezentlalo: Abantwana abafane bazikhathalele iimbono zabanye. Le ndlela yasimahla inokusinceda siphelise uxinezeleko olungeyomfuneko kwaye sinandiphe ubomi ngakumbi.

Ngaphezu koko, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane bezizukulwana. Olu qhagamshelo alutyebisi ubomi bethu kuphela, kodwa lukwasivumela ukuba sibone ihlabathi ngokwembono entsha kwaye someleze amaqhina eemvakalelo.

Ubuntwana kunye nobudala azikho iimeko ezichasene ngokupheleleyo. Ziindlela ezahlukeneyo zokunxibelelana nobomi. Ngokudibanisa ezinye ze imikhwa kunye neembono zabantwana kwindlela yethu yemihla ngemihla, sinokuziva sifezeke ngakumbi, sibalulekile kwaye siseluxolweni nathi.


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