Iingcebiso ezili-10 zokunyusa ukuzithemba kwakho kwinqanaba lokufikisa

Ixesha lokufikisa lixesha elinzima, isiphithiphithi kumntwana oyekayo ukuba anjalo ukuqala kwihlabathi eliqolileyo. Lixesha elinobuzaza kakhulu apho abazali kufuneka babekhona ukukhokela abantwana bethu kule ndlela ijikelezayo. Ukuseta imida kunye nokomeleza ukuzithemba kwabantwana zizinto ezi-2 ezilungileyo esinokuzenza.

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Kule nqaku siza kugxila kuyo komeleza ukuzithemba kwakho kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Ndishiya ezinye iingcebiso ezinokunceda iintsapho kulo msebenzi.

1) Unxibelelwano olunyanisekileyo.

Kukunxibelelana nabantwana bethu apho siza kunika inkxaso yethu. Funda ngaphezulu kwako konke ukumamela, ukuba nomonde kunye nokwazi ukunika iingcebiso abantwana bakho ukuba beve.

Unxibelelwano olulungileyo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana ngundoqo kule nkqubo yokuzama ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Abakwishumi elivisayo bahlala "bebajongela phantsi" abazali babo. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ukwazi ukuba bangayifumana njani intembeko umntu omtsha ebonakele ekhayeni lakho.

2) Kufuneka kusekwe imida emitsha.

Umntu ofikisayo ongenamida, ngaphandle kwemigaqo okanye imigaqo yokuthotyelwa, ngumntwana ofikisayo olahlekileyo oya kuthi ekugqibeleni aphele kukudana nokuzithemba kwakhe emhlabeni.

3) Imidlalo yeqela ikhuthaza ukuzithemba.

Ukudlala ibhola ekhatywayo okanye isingqi sokuzivocavoca yimizekelo emibini nje yezemidlalo apho unxibelelana noontanga bakho ngendlela esempilweni.

4) Nikezela ngemiceli mngeni kunye nemingeni.

Ngaba uyakuthanda ukuchitha yonke imini kwikhompyuter? Cebisa ukuba babhloxe kwaye uya kuvuzwa ngokusekwe kwiziphumo.

Ngaba uyathanda ukuchitha imini yonke udlala imidlalo yevidiyo? Cebisa ngomdlalo wevidiyo ovuselela ubuchule babo. Ayiyiyo yonke into eza kudubula  Inxalenye yexesha abazinikezelayo kwikhonsoli kuya kufuneka inikezelwe ekuqhubeleni phambili kulo mdlalo wevidiyo wokudala.

5) Ukwazi indlela yokuthoba isantya.

Uninzi lwabazali ludla ngokuqinisa amandongomane ngaphambi kotshintsho olwenzeka ngesiquphe kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Oku kunokuba kukuchaphazela.

Umntwana ofikisayo uziva ukuba ufuna inkululeko enkulu yokuqonda ilizwe liphela ngamathuba avulekileyo kuye. Kwelinye icala, abazali, bathambekele ekuyithinteleni ngokungqongqo inkululeko abayifumeneyo. Oku kunokuba semngciphekweni wokuzithemba komntwana ofikisayo. Sitshilo ukuba kufuneka ubeke imida kodwa ungafuthaniseki. Umbindi wezinto ulungile.

6) Lumka nabahlobo.

Ngeli xesha, abahlobo zezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kulutsha, kodwa lumka. Ngamanye amaxesha ulutsha luye "lubanjwe" kwisangqa sabahlobo esingela phantsi ukuzithemba kwabo. Ukubanika lonke inkxaso yethu kunye nokutshintsha kwemeko, ukwenza imisebenzi emitsha ukuze badibane nabantwana abatsha kunokuba sisisombululo.

7) Unonophelo ezikolweni okanye kumaziko.

Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna okona kulungileyo kubantwana bakho, ukuba bakhulele kwindawo efanelekileyo eyandisa ukuzithemba kwabo, eyona nto ibalaseleyo kubo. Khetha isikolo esifanelekileyo esihlangabezana nezi njongo.

Indlu kufuneka ibe yindawo ekhuselekileyo.

Ukhuseleko yinto ekufuneka eyivile umntwana ofikisayo. Yazi ukuba ukhona umntu okuthandayo ngaphandle kwemiqathango. Ikhaya kufuneka linike olu khuseleko ukuze umntwana ofikisayo azive exhaswa kwaye ekhuselekile.

9) Chitha ixesha nabantwana bakho.

Into yokuba sele bekwishumi elivisayo ayithethi ukuba asinakho ukwenza imisebenzi kunye: ukudlala imidlalo, ukuhamba okanye ukuya kudla isidlo kunye nosapho lonke. Ukubeka amaxhala ethu kunye nezibophelelo zethu ecaleni kokuchitha ixesha nabantwana bethu yinto abanokuyibulela ngayo ukuzithemba kwabo.

10) Kuphephe ukuba wedwa ekhaya.

Indlu yindawo enokwabelana ngayo: uvuyo, usizi, impumelelo, iimvakalelo. Isidlo sasemini nesangokuhlwa zingcwele. Bamele ukuba baziqhelanise kwaye ngaphandle komabonwakude ngasemva. Luxanduva lwabazali ukwenza imeko efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana okumnandi, okutyibilikayo, okumnandi, okunyanisekileyo nokuzola.

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