Yeyiphi eyona nto ixabisekileyo esinayo thina bantu? Mhlawumbi kukukwazi ukucinga ngobomi obusingqongileyo, ukumamela isandi sengoma okanye umntu othethayo, ukonwabela uyolo lwehlabathi lokwenyama? Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba singcamle kwaye siqonde ivumba, ubuhle, kunye nobutyebi bendalo?
UDavid Schwartz Iyaqonda ukuba eyona nto ixabisekileyo izivamvo zethu ngu "Ukuqonda kwengqondo"Oko kukuthi, ukukwazi ukuqonda umxholo wobomi bethu ngendlela eyanelisayo.
Kodwa Le mbono yengqondo idlulela ngaphaya kwesibakala nje sokubona ubomi bomntu ngokuzeleyo; yenza isimo sengqondo esibalulekileyo, isicwangciso sokwenza. Imalunga nephupha kunye nokukwazi ukulenza lizaliseke.
Bambalwa kuthi abayaziyo into esiyifunayo. Kwaye, nangaphantsi, siphuhlise isicwangciso sokukufezekisa.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwe-a icebo lokusikhokelaUbomi bethu abunamdla kangako, sifumana inzaliseko encinci kakhulu, kwaye sifumana a mpu melelo ngaphantsi kakhulu kunokuba besinokukufumana.
Ukwaneliseka komntu kukhokelela empumelelweni
Njengoko uGqirha Schwartz esixelela, impumelelo yomntu kunye nolwaneliseko lomntu yinto enye.
Oko umntu akubonayo ngaye, umsebenzi wakhe, ubudlelwane bomntu kunye nehlabathi ngokubanzi Kuyanceda okanye kuyamenzakalisa ekuzuzeni impumelelo yabo yobuqu.
Umbhali uveza abantu abaphumelele ngokwenene njenge abantu abajongana nosuku ngalunye ngenzondelelo, ukuzithemba kunye nethemba. Aba bantu bayangqinelana nesiqu sabo, banelisekile bubomi abakhethe ukubuphila.
Bayazi ukuba ukuze ube nayo yonke into ebomini kufuneka uzinikele ngokupheleleyo kuyo. Kunokuthiwa njalo "Bathanda uthando kwaye bayawuthanda umsebenzi". Aba bantu bathanda ukuhambisa abanye kwaye bonwabe kakhulu Ukwabelana ngovuyo oluziswa yimpumelelo yabo.
Bayakhathala kwaye bayazinikela Babaphatha kakuhle abanye, yaye ngenxa yoko, abanye babaphatha kakuhle.
Enkosi ngokuqonda kwabo kwengqondo bayayazi loo nto umsebenzi, imiceli mngeni kunye nokuzincama ziyinxalenye yobomi, kwaye banesakhono sokuguqula iinkxwaleko eziza ngendlela yabo kumathuba ophuhliso lomntu.
Abantu abaphumeleleyo baloyisa uloyiko ngokujamelana nalo. Bazoyisa iintlungu ngokuziva. Banesipho sokuzalisa ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla ngolonwabo kwaye basasaze olo lonwabo kwabo banethamsanqa lokuba nabo. Uncumo lwabo oluhlala lukhona bubungqina bamandla abo angaphakathi kunye nesimo sengqondo esilungileyo ngobomi.
Yintoni imbono efanelekileyo yengqondo kwaye kutheni iqhuba impumelelo?
La ingqiqo eyakhayo Bubuchule bokutolika iziganeko ngokufuna okunokwenzeka, ukufunda nentsingiselo. Idibanisa amaxabiso anje ubunyani, ingqibelelo y khuthazo ukulungelelanisa oko ukucingayo, ukuziva, kunye nokwenza. Esi simo sengqondo asibukhanyeli ubunzima; izenza zibe ngathi imingeni elawulekayo oko kunokukuguqula.
Ukongeza ekukhuliseni iiprojekthi zakho, umbono olungileyo uyakunceda ukuba sempilweni ngokomzimba nangokweemvakaleloUphando malunga nethemba kunye nolawulo loxinzelelo lucebisa iingenelo ezifana nezi:
- ixesha elide lokuphila kunye nempilo engcono iyonke.
- Ukudakumba okuncinci kunye nokubandezeleka okuncinci ngokweemvakalelo.
- Ukomelela ngakumbi phezu kokugula kunye neemeko ezinzima.
- Ukuphucula impilo ye-cardiovascular kunye nomngcipheko ophantsi weziganeko ezinzulu.
- Ukumelana ngcono noxinzelelo enkosi kwindlela eyakhayo.
Enye ingcaciso ebambekayo kukuba ukucinga kakuhle kwenza kube lula imikhwa esempilweni (umsebenzi womzimba, ukutya okunesondlo, ukuphumla) kunye nokusabela okuzolileyo ngokweemvakalelo kuxinzelelo.
Ukuphumelela kwengqondo: iimpawu kunye nemikhwa eyomelezayo
Isimo sengqondo esiphumelelayo asiyomfuzo; iphuhliswa ngoqeqesho. Isekelwe kwi... ukuzithemba, melela, ingqeqesho, gxininisa kwizisombululo, ukufunda okuqhubekayo, imbonakalo y proactivityUkuyidibanisa, yomeleze yonke imihla:
- Ukucwangcisa ngokutsha kwengqondo: ithatha indawo yeenkolelo ezisikelwe umda ngotoliko oluluncedo nolwenyani.
- Indawo entleZingqonge nabantu abakukhuthazayo kwaye bakunike umbono wokukhula.
- Sula iinjongo (SMART)Chaza iinjongo ezithe ngqo, ezinokulinganiseka, ezinokufezekiswa, ezifanelekileyo kunye nexesha elimiselwe.
- Ulawulo lwexesha y ukuzimela: beka phambili okubalulekileyo nangaphandle kwenkuthazo yethutyana.
- Ukuziqhelanisa neqhingaLungisa isicwangciso xa iimeko zitshintsha.
Chonga kwaye uguqule ingxoxo yangaphakathi
Utshintsho luqala ngokujonga kwakho ukuzithethaIindlela zokucinga eziqhelekileyo ezithintela impumelelo:
- Uluhlu Gxininisa kwizinto ezingakhiyo kwaye ungahoyi okulungileyo.
- Yenza ngokwezifiso ugxeka abanye ngokungathi ngabakho.
- Yenza umdlalo ukulindela okubi ngaphandle kobungqina.
- Ukutyola ukuphepha uxanduva lomntu.
- Kufuneke u ubulukhuni okwandisa ubutyala.
- Yibaxe iingxaki ezincinci.
- Ukugqibelela oko kuthintela isenzo.
- Ipholarize kumnyama namhlophe ngaphandle kwama-nuances.
Ukutshintsha okuluncedo kwebinzana kwintetho yangaphakathi: “Andizange ndiyenze ngaphambili” → “Lithuba lokufunda”; “Andinazibonelelo” → “Ndiyakwazi ukulawula”; “Intsonkothile kakhulu” → “Ndiza kuyilungisa ngokwamacandelo”; "Ayizukusebenza" → "Ndiza kuzama ukuphindaphinda".
Inkqubo esebenzayo kunye nezinzileyo
Qala usuku nge injongoUkucamngca okufutshane, umthambo wokuphefumla, okanye iseshoni yejenali ukucacisa izinto eziphambili. Sebenzisa Iingxelo ezinokwenyani ezikubethelela kumaxabiso akho. Imini yonke, khumbula igama lakho injongo ephambili kwaye wenze isenzo sokuqala sempembelelo ephezulu.
Yomeleza amaqhina ngokubonisa umdla wokwenene kwabanye: ukumamela, ukubulela kunye nokusebenzisana kwandisa amathuba kunye nentlalontle yoluntu.
Ibandakanya izenzo ngaphandle kwendawo yokuthuthuzela (imingeni emincinci, elawulwayo). Zilolonge ebusuku. Imizuzu eli-10 yokubulelaIzinto ezintathu eziphunyeziweyo okanye izifundo ezifundwayo suku ngalunye, nokuba zibonakala zincinci kangakanani na. Kwaye yamkela i ukungaqiniseki njengenxalenye yenkqubo; akuyiyo yonke into iya kuxhomekeka kuwe, kodwa impendulo yakho iya kuxhomekeka.
Impumelelo ngeenjongo kunye nokuziphatha
Impumelelo buqu kunye nomxholoKwabanye, inokuba kukugcina umsebenzi wabo; kwabanye, ukuphucula impilo yabo, ukudibanisa usapho lwabo, ukugqiba uphando, ukudala impembelelo yoluntu, okanye ukukhokela iqela ngemfesane. Kukho kwakhona iinjongo ze ilizwe, uluntu okanye iziko apho okuphumelela kuthetha ukwakha izisombululoAkukho ngxaki.
Kubalulekile ukuyigxininisa loo nto Ayizizo zonke iimpumelelo ezisesikweniUkwandisa ingeniso ngokwenzakalisa abanye okanye ukwaphula umthetho asiyompumelelo ezinzileyo. Ukuzijonga okuqinisekileyo okuqinisekileyo kuyadibanisa... xabiso (ubunyani, imfezeko, uxanduva) kwaye ujongise amabhongo ngaku inzuzo efanayo.
Ubunzima bunokuza "kwipakethi": impilo, umsebenzi, iimvakalelo. Ngaloo maxesha, amandla eemvakalelo, nethemba y isigqibo Benza wonke umahluko. Umlingiswa, njengentsimbi, yenziwe kubushushu bemingeni; ukuba uyazingisa ngenjongo kunye nesenzo, uphuma womelele.
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Khetha ingqiqo eyakhayo Ayikokukhanyela ubunyani, kumalunga nokukhetha indlela yakho. Ukusuka apho, ucacisa iinjongo zakho, unakekele impilo yakho, uphucule ubudlelwane bakho, kwaye uzivulele amathuba. Ngokuziqhelanisa rhoqo, ingqondo yakho iba yeyakho injini yangaphakathi kwimpumelelo ezinzileyo nenenjongo.