Xa siqalisa ubomi bethu, asinayo incwadi yemiyalelo. Akukho mntu usifundisa kanye ukuba sibe njani mpu melelo okanye indlela yokuwoyisa imiceli mngeni ezibonakala endleleni. Nangona kunjalo, zikho buchule enokukunceda umelane nobomi isigqibo kwaye ufikelele kwi mpu melelo ukuba ufuna ngokwenene.
Ibali elikhuthazayo likaSylvester Stallone
Ibali eliyinyani nelikhuthazayo lelo lelo USyvester Stallone. Ekubeni wayesemncinci, wayephupha phumelela eHollywood. Nangona kunjalo, indlela yakhe yayizele ukwaliwa y imiqobo: Ilizwi lakhe elirhabaxa kunye nenkangeleko yomzimba yayingahambelani nemigangatho yemiboniso bhanyabhanya yelo xesha, kwaye waliwa ngaphezu koku. 1500 maxesha ngamagosa aseNew York.
Ngesinye isihlandlo, emva kokulinda intsasa yonke ukuze lithethe nelinye ipolisa, eli polisa lemka lingakhange lithethe nalo. Esikhundleni sokuyeka, uStallone wagqiba ekubeni ahlale ngaphandle kweofisi ubusuku bonke. Ekugqibeleni, i-arhente yamvumela ukuba angene, kodwa wala kwakhona.
Ngaphandle kwemali, wafikelela kwinqanaba thengisa inja yakho yi IRandi ye25 kuba ndandingakwazi ukumondla. Kodwa ke, xa ebukele umdlalo wamanqindi kumabonwakude, waphefumlelwa waza wabhala eyedwa ngolunye usuku umbhalo we namatye. Xa wayezama ukuyithengisa, wakhatywa izihlandlo ezininzi de wanikelwa IRandi ye120,000, nangona imeko yokungabonisi inkwenkwezi kwifilimu. UStallone wala unikezelo, nangona lwaluphakanyiselwe ukuba IRandi ye320,000. Wavuma kuphela xa enikelwe IRandi ye35,000 kunye nendima ephambili.
namatye Yaphela ixabisa isigidi seerandi kwaye yenza ingeniso engaphezulu 200 izigidi. Eli bali libonisa ukuba ukuphikelela kunye isigqibo ingenza naliphi na iphupha libe nokwenzeka.
1. Thatha inyathelo kwaye uphucule inyathelo ngenyathelo
Inyathelo lokuqala ukuya mpu melelo es ukuthatha inyathelo. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba abo baphumeleleyo baphumelela ngomlingo, ngaphandle komzamo. Nangona kunjalo, isitshixo sikwi ukuphuculwa rhoqo. Nabani na oye wafumana impumelelo kuye kwafuneka ukuba ahambe kwinkqubo kufunda, ukukhula y ukulwa.
Ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa injongo, qala ngamanyathelo zincinci. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukubaleka i-marathon, qala ngokubaleka. Imizuzu eli-10 ngosuku, wandule ukwandisa ngokuthe ngcembe de ulufikelele usukelo lwakho.
2. Yenza ingqondo yakho ikusebenzele
Indlela yakho yokucinga ichaza ubunyani bakho. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awunokwazi fezekisa into, iya kuba yinyaniso yakho. Kodwa ukuba unayo isigwebo ukuba ngokunyamezela nangomgudu ungakoyisa nawuphi na umqobo, nako kuya kuba yinyani.
Ingqondo i umncedisi onamandla okanye utshaba olukhulu. Sebenzisa iingcinga zakho ukukhulisa ingqondo yakho mpu melelo, ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wosukelo lwakho uze uzixelele ukuba unako ukulufikelela.
3. Ukubaluleka kokuziphatha kunye nemikhwa
La ingqeqesho sisiseko sempumelelo. I imikhwa qinisekisa uninzi lweziphumo zethu. Ukuvuka ngaphandle kolwalathiso, ngaphandle kwesicwangciso, ngaphandle kokuthatha ixesha kukhokelela Ukuma. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza inkqubela, kufuneka ube nemikhwa eya kukusondeza kwiinjongo zakho.
Ngokomzekelo, Vuka kwangoko kunye nokuziqhelanisa ukusetyenziswa inokukunceda uphucule impilo yakho yomzimba nengqondo. UWill Smith uyishwankathela kakuhle ngebinzana lakhe: "Izakhono ziphuhliswa ngeeyure kunye neeyure zokusebenza".
4. Loyisa uloyiko
Uloyiko yenye yezona zinto ziphambili iibhloko ngokweemvakalelo ezithintela inkqubela kwindlela esa empumelelweni. Soyika ukungaphumeleli, ukwaliwa, ukugculelwa. Nangona kunjalo, Awunakuze ulususe ngokupheleleyo uloyiko, kodwa unokufunda ukuwulawula nokujamelana nawo.
Esikhundleni sokuzikhubaza, sebenzisa uloyiko njengento ekhuthazayo ukuze uzilungiselele ngcono. Ukuba uyoyika uviwo, funda ngakumbi. Ukuba uyoyika ukusilela kwishishini, zilungiselele kwaye utyale imali kulwazi olunciphisa umngcipheko.
5. Funda kwiintsilelo
Abantu abaninzi bayakoyika ukungaphumeleli, kodwa ukungaphumeleli kuyinto engaphaya kwe isifundo. Ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle, hlalutya oko unokuphucula uze uqhubeke.
UThomas Edison, umqambi weglowubhu yesibane, wazama ngaphezu koko 10,000 maxesha ngaphambi kokuyizuza. Xa ebuzwa ngale malinge engaphumelelanga, waphendula wathi: "Andizange ndiphumelele, ndifumene iindlela ezili-10,000 ezingasebenziyo".
6. Chaza ukuba impumelelo ithetha ntoni kuwe
Impumelelo ayifani kumntu wonke. Kwabanye, isenokuba zizinto eziphathekayo; kwabanye, ulonwabo okanye uxolo lwengqondo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba unqume ukuba yintoni na mpu melelo for ti kwaye ugxininise ekuphumezeni oko.
7. Cwangcisa suku ngalunye
Ukuqala usuku ngesicwangciso kubalulekile. Chaza imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla, beka phambili okubalulekileyo kwaye uphephe iziphazamiso. Ukucwangcisa kuya kukunceda ukuba ube ngaphezulu ngempumelelo kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uye kwiinjongo zakho.
Impumelelo asiyondawo ekuyiwa kuyo, kodwa a indlela yokufunda rhoqo. Ukuthatha inyathelo, ukukholelwa kuwe, ukuphucula yonke imihla, ukujongana noloyiko lwakho kunye nokufunda ekungaphumeleli kuya kukusondeza kwiinjongo zakho. Ngaba unayo nayiphi na ibali lomgudu kunye nempumelelo ukuba ufuna ukwabelana? Singathanda ukudibana nawe!
Ayikuko ukuba ndisilele, kodwa andikaze ndenze ngendlela ebendifanele ukwenza ngayo, kuba bandenze ndaziva ndingento yanto, kwaye ngekhe ndifumane nto Ke, ndayeka ukufunda kwam kungagqitywanga kwaye ndandinemvukelo. Kodwa ndiye ndasebenza, bendisoloko ndifuna ukuba ngumchebi weenwele kwaye abandivumeli, kodwa ke ndazama ndaza ndayifumana. kwaye ndilungile kakhulu, nokuba ayilunganga ukuyitsho. Ndithi ndihambile kuba kufike amaxesha amabi kuye kwafuneka ndimshiye. Kodwa ndaqhubeka ndisebenza, andizange ndiphoswe ngumsebenzi. Ekugqibeleni, njengabantu abaninzi abaphangeli, ixesha lokuqala kwiminyaka engama-20 besebenza, ndiyithathe kakubi kakhulu, ayinakwenzeka kum. Ndaya kusebenza kwindawo yokuhlala, ndingazi nto kwaphela, ndicinga ukuba ayizukulunga oko, emva koko ndatshintshela kwenye, kuba yayikufutshane nendlu yam, kuba enye yayimbi kakhulu kum, ndandikude ndavuka kwakusasa kakhulu. Okwangoku bendingawuthandi lo msebenzi kodwa ibiyiyo leyo ikhoyo. Ke kuye kwafuneka benze izifundo ezifunwa ngurhulumente. Kwaye ukusukela ngoko ndazibandakanya kakhulu, ndaye ndawazi lo mbandela kwaye ngoku ndingumntu owahluke kakhulu.
Ndiqhubeka ndifunda ndedwa ukuze ndizazi kwaye ndizilungiselele yonke imihla, kuba ngoku ngekhe uyazi ukuba bazokufuna ntoni kuwe. Okwangoku ndisebenza njengomncedisi ongumongikazi kwaye ndifumana amanye amabakala endingazange ndibenawo, kwaye ndinosukelo olubekiweyo, ndiyathemba ukulufezekisa kwaye ukuba akunjalo, ndingavuya ngento endiyenzileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ewe ndiyavuma ukuba oko bakuthethayo kwinqaku, kufuneka ulwe, uzibekele iinjongo kwaye ungagqibi uze ufike khona.
Akukho mntu unika nantoni na, kodwa ukuba uyasebenza uyazi ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa ntoni, ndiyakholelwa ukuba kuyaphunyezwa. Andiyi kuyeka.
Oku, ngamagama ambalwa libali lam, ndingabhala ngaphezulu kodwa kuya kubadika abo bayifundayo.
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Enkosi Gloria ngokuphawula kwityala lakho =)
Wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo ngokuqhubeka nokuqeqesha emva kwexesha elide usebenza. Kwakhona, ufunda izinto ezintsha kwaye ungcono ngakumbi ukuba uyayithanda indawo yokonga.
Yigcine, unyamezele kwaye ubeka iinjongo ezicacileyo kwaye uya kuyifumana imivuzo.
ihagi!
Into egqibeleleyo. Ndiyavumelana nayo yonke into. Imida ebomini ibekwe sithi. Sinoyika ukuphuma kwimeko yethu yokuthuthuzela. Ukuba asiphumeli ngaphandle, akufuneki sikhalaze ngobomi. Ngokubanzi, amathuba kuye wonke umntu, nangona bembalwa abaphula izithintelo kwaye ngelishwa, ke bayabaxelela ukuba banethamsanqa kangakanani.
Ndiyaphinda, ndiyavuyisana.
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Onyamezelayo uyakufezekisa kuyinyani
Ndiyakholelwa ekubeni kuphela ukubeka umzamo kunye nokuzingisa kwizinto esifuna ukuziphumeza kuya kusinika imvakalelo yokuphumelela, ukuba mhlawumbi xa sisenza impazamo, kufuneka siphakame senze izilungiso njengoko sinjalo, kuwo wonke umqobo Ubomi busibeka, kukho ithuba lokuzihlaziya, akufuneki ukuba simoshe.