UViktor Frankl wabandezeleka kakhulu ebomini bakhe. Wayengumseki we logotherapy, uhlobo lonyango olubonisa ukubaluleka intsingiselo nenjongo yobomi kumntu wonke, ngakumbi ngamaxesha obunzima.
UViktor Frankl namava akhe eAuschwitz
UViktor Frankl, ugqirha waseViennese kunye nesayikholoji yengqondo, waye ibanjwe ngamanazi ngowe-1942 ngenxa yemvelaphi yakhe yobuYuda. Ngaphambi kokubanjwa kwakhe, wayenobomi obupheleleyo enomsebenzi omiselweyo, izinto eziphathekayo, kunye nomfazi awayemthanda ngokunzulu. Noko ke, kwafuneka ancame yonk’ into.
Emva kokubanjwa kwakhe, uFrankl wakhweliswa kuloliwe ozeleyo kunye nabanye abantu abali-1500 XNUMX basiwa kwindawo awayengaqinisekanga ngayo. Ekugqibeleni bafika Auschwitz, apho inkoliso yamabanjwa yathunyelwa ekufeni.
Kwincwadi yakhe "Ukufuna Komntu Ngentsingiselo"UFrank uchaza indlela amabanjwa awayenyanzelwa ngayo ukuba ancame yonke impahla yawo, kuquka namagama awo, yaye anikwa inani elithile kuphela elenziwe itattoo eluswini lwawo. Oku kwakuquka ukulahlekelwa ngumbhalo-ngqangi wakhe oxabisekileyo, awathi wagqiba kwelokuba awuyeke ukuze asindise ubomi bakhe.
Ngexesha lokuhlala kwakhe kwinkampu yoxinaniso, uFrank waphawula ukuba isimo sengqondo amabanjwa yayisisitshixo sokusinda. Abo bafumana injongo, kwanaleyo incinane, babenamandla amakhulu okumelana nobunzima.
Ukubandezeleka njengeThuba Lokukhula
Ukubandezeleka okugqithisileyo kwakhokelela uFrankl ukuba aphuhlise ithiyori yakhe ye-logotherapy, ngokusekelwe kwingcamango yokuba Ukufumana injongo phakathi kweentlungu kunokwenza ukuba nabuphi na ubunzima bunyamezeleke..
Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi bajamelana neemeko ezifanayo, nangona bengekho kwinkampu yoxinaniso. Iintlekele ezifana izifo ezingapheliyo, ilahleko kwezoqoqosho o intlekele yendalo inokusenza sizive sibandezwa yonke into. Nangona kunjalo, Ukubandezeleka kunokubangela ukukhula ngokomoya. Kusinyanzela ukuba sijonge ngaphakathi kwethu, sifumanise ukuba singoobani kanye kanye nokuba yintoni na eyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Ngale ngqiqo, ukubandezeleka kunokufaniswa nomlilo ohlambulula igolide. Kusihluba okungaphezulu kwaye kusinyanzela ukuba sigxile kwizinto ezibalulekileyo.
Indima yothando kunye nokunyamezela
UFrank ubalisa ukuba, kwezona meko zinzima, kwanaxa ithemba lalibonakala liphela, wakufumanisa oko Uthando yeyona njongo iphakamileyo yabantu. Ukukhumbula umfazi wakhe nokubambelela eluthandweni kwamnceda wasinda.
Uthando, ngazo zonke iindlela, lusebenza njengekhusi ngamaxesha obunzima. Isenokuba luthando kwiqabane, kumntwana okanye nokuba nomdla kwingcamango okanye injongo yobomi.
Izifundo zeNzululwazi ngokubandezeleka
Iindlela ezahlukeneyo zefilosofi ziye zahlola indima yokubandezeleka ekukhuleni ngokomoya:
- UbuStoyiku: Izithandi zobulumko ezinjengoSeneca noMarcus Aurelius zakufundisa oko yamkele into engenakuphepheka ngoxolo ngundoqo kumandla angaphakathi.
- Inkolo yakwaBudda: Ukubandezeleka, ngokutsho kobuBhuda, yinxalenye yobomi, kodwa kunokugqithwa ngako ukucamngca kunye nokuzimela.
- Inkolo yamaKrestu: UYesu wajamelana nokubandezeleka ngothando nangokuxolela, ebonisa oko Ubunzima bunokuba yindlela eya kwintlawulelo.
Ukuzibophelela Ebomini
Phakathi kokubandezeleka kwakhe, uFrank wenza esona sigqibo sibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe: khetha ukuphila. Wala ukunikezela kukuphelelwa lithemba waza wakhetha ukufumana injongo kubukho bakhe, nto leyo eyathi kamva yamkhokelela ekubeni aphuhlise indlela yakhe yonyango.
Xa sijamelene nobunzima, sinokusoloko sisenza isigqibo ngesimo sethu sengqondo. Sinokukhetha ukuqhubela phambili, nangona kubonakala ngathi akukho themba.
UFrank wasinda ekuBulaweni Kwabantu Ngenkohlakalo waza waphila ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-50 emva koko, enceda amawakawaka abantu ukuba bafumane injongo yobomi. Ilifa lakhe lisibonisa oko Ukubandezeleka kunokuba yimbewu yokukhula ngokunzulu.
Ubuhlungu, xa ujongene nenjongo ecacileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo esinamandla, sinokuguqulwa sibe ngumthombo ongapheliyo wamandla kunye nobulumko. Ayikokuphepha ukubandezeleka, kodwa imalunga nokufunda ukukusebenzisa njengesixhobo esikhokelela kubomi obugcweleyo nobunenjongo.
ISIFUNDO ESIBALULEKILEYO