Izolo, ndithe ndisahamba ngesiqhelo, bendimamele iaudiobook Njengoko umntu ucinga. Khange ndikwazi ukuyigqiba. Amava awazange abe mnandi kwaye, enyanisweni, ayonakalisa indlela yam yokukhwela. Kodwa yintoni kanye kanye le ncwadi evuselela iimvakalelo ezinjalo? Lixesha lokuba singene nzulu kulo msebenzi othi, nangona usukela ngo-1903, uqhubeke ucatshulwa njengesalathiso kwinkalo uncedo.
Incwadi yobuvulindlela kwingcinga ekhuthazayo
Njengoko umntu ucinga Ngumsebenzi osisiseko kudidi lwenkuthazo kunye nokuzinceda. Yabhalwa nguJames Allen, umbhali olifa lakhe lidlule kwizizukulwana ngenxa yamandla eembono zakhe. I indawo esembindini yencwadi ilula kodwa inamandla: Iingcinga zethu zinamandla okubumba ubomi bethu..
Kubalulekile ukuqonda umongo eyayibhalwe kuwo. Ngo-1903, ingcamango yokuba iingcamango ziphembelela ubunyani bomntu yayiyintsha. IPsychology yayingekafiki kwinqanaba lophuhliso esilaziyo namhlanje, kwaye iikhonsepthi ezifana neengqondo zengqondo, ezaziza kuhlanganiswa kwisiqingatha sesibini senkulungwane yama-XNUMX, azizange zibe njalo.
Impembelelo yembali ye Njengoko umntu ucinga
La mpe mbelelo de Njengoko umntu ucinga Kuye kwaba yinto engaqhelekanga. Uninzi lweencwadi zokuzinceda ezithengiswa kakhulu kumashumi eminyaka akutshanje zisekelwe kwimigaqo yayo. Ngokomzekelo, i-Napoleon Hill eyaziwayo ethi "Cinga kwaye Ukhule Usisityebi" iboleka ininzi ye-essence ka-Allen.
Enye yeenkalo ezenza lo msebenzi ubaluleke kangaka ukukwazi ukukhuthaza, phezu kwako nje oko abanye basenokukujonga njengolwimi lwamandulo. I “umyezo wengqondo” isafobe mhlawumbi ngowona myalezo uhleliyo wencwadi:
- “Ingqondo yethu ifana negadi. Ukuba siwuhlakulela ngeengcinga ezakhayo, siya kuvuna iziqhamo ezilungileyo. Ukuba siyawuvumela ukuba ukhule ngokungalungelelananga, ukhula luya kulawula.
Kutheni inokuphinda-phinda?
Apha kulapho esona sigxeko sinamandla sinokusenza Njengoko umntu ucinga. Emva kokufunda okanye ukumamela intaphane yeencwadi zokuzinceda zangoku, kulula ukufumana undoqo kaJames Allen ophindaphinda i-ad nauseam. Ingcamango yokuba iingcinga zethu zakha ubunyani bethu iye yahlalutywa, yandiswa kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, yaxutywa ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Noko ke, asimele silibale ukuba uAllen wayenguvulindlela. Yonke into eyafika emva kwayo yi-echo yeengcamango zakhe zangaphambili. Kufana nokugxeka ifilimu yakudala kuba ubuchule bayo bodlulwa bubugcisa bale mihla; eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwayo kwimbali.
Siyisebenzisa njani le ngcamango kubomi bemihla ngemihla?
Ngaphandle komxholo wembali, Njengoko umntu ucinga iseluncedo kwabo bajongayo thatha uxanduva ngobomi bakho kunye nezigqibo zakho. Imigaqo evezwa nguAllen inokusetyenziswa ngeendlela ezininzi:
- Nakana iipatheni zokucinga: Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba sicinga ngezinto ezingakhiyo okanye ezakhayo. Isayikholoji yanamhlanje ibonelela ngezixhobo ezinje ngengqondo kunye nonyango lokuqonda ukufezekisa oku. Unokufunda ngakumbi malunga indlela yokuchonga iipatheni zokucinga apha.
- Hlakulela injongo ecacileyo: Le ncwadi ibethelela usukelo lokwalathisa izenzo zethu.
- Susa iingcinga eziyityhefu: Ngokuvisisana nombono “wegadi,” uAllen usikhuthaza ukuba silumkele iingqondo zethu kwiingcamango ezingasincediyo.
Umxholo wokucinga okulungileyo
Kwihlabathi elizele ziziphazamiso kunye nemingeni, umyalezo ka-Allen malunga namandla okucinga uyaqhubeka nokuvakala. Namhlanje, ababhali abaninzi abazincedayo baye baphinda batolika ezi ngcamango ukuze baziqhelanise namaxesha amatsha. Kodwa i-essence ihlala: oko sigxininisa ingqalelo yethu kuyo kuyakhula. Ukuba sikhulisa iingcinga zombulelo, injongo, kunye nothando, siya kuvuna ubomi obupheleleyo.
Ngaloo ndlela, isebenza njenge 160 iingcinga ezilungileyo Zisikhumbuza indlela amabinzana amancinci anokuguqula ngayo imbono yethu yemihla ngemihla.
Ngelixa amava am okuqala kunye ne-audiobook ye Njengoko umntu ucinga Ayikhange ibentle, andinakuyikhanyela kubaluleka walo msebenzi kwimbali yokuzinceda. Ukuqonda umongo wayo neengcambu zeemfundiso zayo kunokusinceda siyixabise ngokwembono ephangaleleyo neyoyisayo.
Kuya kufuneka sizivumele ukuba sincedwe kuba ngale ndlela sizakuqhubela phambili ebomini, ngaxa lithile ebomini bethu siyakudinga uncedo lomntu othile kuthi ukuba silale, ke kufuneka simamele ngononophelo kwiingcebiso abasinika zona indlela kuba kuya kuhlala kukho umzuzu wokuzisebenzisa, ..
kuphela sinamandla okuntywila okanye okuntywila, isilondolozi sobomi ziimfundiso namava esiye sawaphila aya kuthi asincede sivele ebomini ukuze siqhubele phambili yonke imihla ngenyathelo ngenyathelo kodwa ngaphandle kokuzola nokuba, Amandla engqondo yinto eyomeleleyo kwaye ecinga ukuba intle kukuba siza kwenza kakuhle kwaye siza kutsala izinto kunye nabantu abanee-vibes ezilungileyo kunye nokuqinisekileyo, ukwamkela uncedo lomntu akusenzi ukuba singabinakho ukusombulula iingxaki zethu, kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuyala okanye ukwamkela okulungileyo abasinika kona ngamava aphila ngomnye umntu okanye ngengcebiso okanye nge-anecdote
Ungavumeli ingqondo yakho ilawule umzimba wakho, zama ukufumana ukulingana ngaloo mizuzu kwaye uyabona ukuba kuyamangalisa ukuba ngengqondo yakho ungaphilisa njani izifo ezininzi ngamanye amaxesha esidibana nazo neengxaki zempilo kwaye kuvela ukuba luloyiko kunye noloyiko ifihlwe kwingqondo yethu ukuba sibonakalisa kwaye sinophawu lwezifo, intloko ebuhlungu, umkhuhlane, phakathi kwabanye kwaye ukuba asiyilawuli ngexesha banokuthi bajike babe ziingxaki zempilo, ke lawula ingqondo yakho kwaye ujonge kwizinto ezintle nezinemveliso ... bume bendawo abantu abafuna ukwabelana ngayo nawe, ingekuba bayabaleka kwaye bakuphephe, kodwa kukuba ngabo abagcina ecaleni kwabo okwethutyana….
Olona ncedo silufumanayo luluncedo lokomoya oluvela phezulu, uThixo nguye ohambisa yonke into
UThixo akakho, yonke inkolo yenziwe ngumntu. Ukuba kukho uthixo, kungaphaya kokuqonda kwethu ngendlela efanayo ukuba umbungu awuyazi indawo yonke. (ngumzekeliso). Abantu abaninzi baphila ngaphandle kokukholelwa kuThixo kwaye baqhuba kakuhle kakhulu. Kwaye abaninzi bathi bayakholelwa kuThixo kwaye bangabahanahanisi kwaye baxoka. Kuyo yonke iminyaka yam yobomi andazi namnye umntu ozalisekisa yonke imigaqo yenkolo.
Ngaba uThixo akakho? UThixo uluthando siyakukhetha indlela yokuhamba senze okuhle okanye okubi ukuba uyakuhlala esithanda UThixo ulingana nothando oko kuthetha kona ukuba kufuneka sihloniphe umbono ngamnye wethu kodwa kubonakala kum ukungabi nantlonelo ngento Yiza ubomi uze ufune uncedo kwezi ndawo, abantu abafana nawe, abayi kubakho kuwe kodwa nabani na onothando bonke aba-surgr
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Ndihlala ndizimamele izimvo, enkosi kakhulu
Molo Ninoska, ukuba kuye kwafuneka ndikhethe enye ibiya kuba yile: "Ukufuna komntu ngeNtsingiselo" nguViktor Frankl.
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