Unokuba mkhulu kanjani ebomini

Eli nqaku lichaza iimpawu zokuba ligorha.

Sithetha ngobuqhawe. Ubukhulu. Into ekhethekileyo ethi ifumane ukunconywa, ukunqulwa, kwaye mhlawumbi ubuso bakho kwisitampu sokuposa.

Amagorha angabonakala ngathi aphelelwe lixesha kule minyaka yokugxeka apho kubonakala ngathi siyakonwabela ukutshabalalisa ii icon.

Sifuna amaqhawe Banga bangasifundisa, basithabathe ngamazwi nangezenzo zabo, basikhuthaze ukuba sikhulu. Ngamnye wethu-thina, izihlobo zethu, kwanabantwana bethu-banamandla obuqhawe. Kwaye kuninzi esinokuyenza ukukhulisa ubukhulu obungafakwanga.

Umzobo weqhawe

Nangona amaqhawe ethu ahlukile, sonke sabelana ngombono omnye wokuba liyintoni iqhawe. KwiYunivesithi yaseTempileni, ugqirha wezengqondo UFrank farley Uqokelele iimpawu zeqhawe ekufuneka zibenazo.

UFarley ukholelwa ukuba bayayichaza intsingiselo yobuqhawe. Ayingawo onke amaqhawe anayo yonke into. Kodwa okukhona unayo, ngcono. Ke ukuba ufuna ubukhulu, nokuba nguwe okanye abantwana bakho, uya kuba wenza kakuhle ukuhlakulela le miba yobuntu:

1) Isibindi kunye namandla: iqhawe ayilogwala okanye umshiyi. Amagorha agcina ukuzinza kwawo-kwaye ayachuma-ebunzimeni.

2) Ukunyaniseka: Inkohliso yaphula ingqikelelo yethu yobuqhawe.

3) Unobubele, unothando, unesisa: Amadoda amakhulu angalwa ngokuqatha ngenxa yento abakholelwa kuyo, kodwa banemfesane xa idabi liphelile- ukuya kumhlobo notshaba ngokufanayo. Ngokubanzi uGeorge S. Patton wayeyindoda ekhaliphileyo emkhosini, kodwa isikhundla sakhe sobugorha sachaphazeleka xa wabetha elinye lamajoni esidlangalaleni ebusweni. "Uluntu lwaseMelika lwavukela ngenxa yalonto," utshilo uFarley. "Wayengenabubele emadodeni akhe." Nangona uPatton esathathwa njengegorha ngabaninzi, akazange aphinde abuye athandwe.

4) Ubuchule, amava, ubukrelekrele: Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, iqhawe lethu le-archetypal likhaliphile, lilungile, linyanisekile-Oko kukuthi, kakhulu njengeForrest Gump. Kodwa iForrest isilela kumgangatho omnye: Impumelelo yeqhawe sisiphumo seetalente zakhe kunye nobukrelekrele. Ayilothuba lisulungekileyo, nangona, ngenxa yokuthozama, iqhawe linokuthi impumelelo yalo ibekho kwithamsanqa.

5) Ukucinga ngomngcipheko: "Nangona abantu abaninzi bengazibeki emngciphekweni ebomini babo, bayayithanda into yokuthatha umngcipheko komnye umntu," utsho uFarley. Uninzi lophando lwakhe lujolise kubuntu bohlobo lwe-T-olungapheliyo lulambile kwiimvakalelo. UFranklin Delano Roosevelt, umzekelo, uthathe umngcipheko omkhulu kwezopolitiko ngokucela umngeni kwiqela lakhe. UMartin Luther King Jr. wabeka ubomi bakhe emngciphekweni ngenxa yeenjongo zakhe.

6) Inomdla: ukunconywa akwanele, amaqhawe kufuneka aphumelele iintliziyo neengqondo zethu.