Ixesha lifikile bonisa ubukhulu bakho ukuze ufezekise ukuphuculwa kwakho. Ubukhulu asiyonto eyenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo okanye ngomlingo. Yakhiwe ngokuzinikela, amanyathelo amancinci, kunye nengqondo ejolise ekukhuleni. Eli nqaku liza kuhlolisisa indlela yokuzigcina ukuhambelana ukufikelela kwiinjongo zethu, indlela ukukhula ngokomoya nangokweemvakalelo kuyichaphazela ngayo impumelelo yethu kunye nendlela yokudibanisa imikhwa esebenzayo ukuguqula ubomi bethu.
Ibali elikhuthazayo: Funda ukubuza ngakumbi
Esinye sezifundo ezisisiseko malunga nobukhulu sivela kweli bali lifutshane kodwa linamandla:
Umkhonzi utyelela ukumkani wakhe aze acele i-10 leesenti. Inkosi yamnika loo mali; sakubon' ukuba semka isicaka, ukumkani wambuza. "Kutheni wacela i-10 leesenti kuphela?"
Umkhonzi waphendula wathi: "Kuba yayiyinto endandiyidinga ukuyitya."
Ngobulumko, ukumkani wongezelela: “Kobu bomi kufuneka ucele into oyifunayo ukuzalisekisa amaphupha akho. Ukuba ubundicele i-10.000 reais, ngendikunike yona.
Eli bali lilula lisikhumbuza ukuba kufuneka sifunde phuphe kakhulu kwaye ube namabhongo. Ukuba sicela kuphela into esiyikholelwayo ukuba “kwanele,” sinciphisa amathuba ethu. Ubukhulu bufuna inkalipho yokucinga ngaphaya kwesiqhelo.
Ukubaluleka kokholo ekwakheni ubomi obungaqhelekanga
Esinye sezitshixo ezibalulekileyo zokuphila ubomi obupheleleyo kukuba fe. Kodwa hayi ukholo olumfamekileyo, kodwa ukholo lokuba ikamva linokuba yinto engaqhelekanga kwaye izenzo zethu namhlanje ziya kuba nempembelelo entle ngomso.
Abaninzi bafuna iinguqulelo eziphawulekayo ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolunye, benethemba leziganeko ezimangalisayo eziya kubuguqula ubomi babo. Nangona kunjalo, inguqu yokwenyani iza nayo amanyathelo amancinci aqhubekayo kwaye angaguquki ixesha elidlulele. Kanye njengokuba ukukhula komntwana kuyamangalisa ukubona emva konyaka, impumelelo enkulu ebomini bethu yimiphumo yemigudu yemihla ngemihla.
Amanyathelo amancinci emihla ngemihla: Isiseko sempumelelo
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba amanyathelo amancinci, angaguqukiyo angakwazi guqula ubomi kuyo nayiphi na indawo:
1. Umba wemali:
Unokufikelela kwinkululeko yezemali kwiminyaka eli-10, nokuba unesicwangciso esincinci sokulondoloza. Umzekelo, tyala imali 3 euro ngosuku usebenzisa umlingo we umdla kunokukhokelela kukhuseleko lwemali olumangalisayo.
2. Impilo yomzimba:
Ukhathalelo lwemihla ngemihla lokutya kunye nomsebenzi womzimba uvelisa iziphumo ezimangalisayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Abo bantu bakhethayo ukutya okunempilo kunye nomdlalo wonwabele ubomi obude kunye nomgangatho wobomi, ngokungafaniyo nabakhetha imikhwa emibi, emva kweminyaka yokuqokelela, ikhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu.
3. Ubudlelwane bomntu:
Uthando kunye nonxibelelwano kubudlelwane bakhelwa yonke imihla. Iinkcukacha ezinjengokubonisa uthando kwiqabane lakho okanye ukuchitha ixesha nabantu obathandayo kuqinisa amaqhina. Kwelinye icala, ukungabikho konxibelelwano kubangela ukuwohloka kweemvakalelo okuhlala ixesha elide.
Imikhwa ebalulekileyo ukuhlakulela ubukhulu bakho
Ukuthatha iikhonsepthi ezikhankanywe ngasentla njengenkuthazo kunye nokwandisa kuzo, apha unayo Imikhwa ethile eya kukunceda uqinise indlela yakho eya empumelelweni:
- Misela iinjongo ezicacileyo nezinenyani: Chaza into ofuna ukuyizuza kwixesha elifutshane, eliphakathi nelide.
- Ziqhelanise nombulelo: Ukuqaphela into onayo kukwenza ukwazi ngakumbi oko unokwakha.
- Phuhlisa ukuzeyisa: Yenza into ekufuneka uyenzile naxa uziva ungayithandi.
- Funda ngokuqhubekayo: Funda, ulinge kwaye ufune ukuphucula izakhono zakho.
Ulonwabo njengesigqibo sobuqu
Ekupheleni kosuku, ulonwabo luxhomekeke ekwenzeni isigqibo esisengqondweni sokonwaba. Ayisiyonto eza ngenxa yokufezekisa iinjongo zangaphandle, kodwa ukuzibophelela kwangaphakathi. Oku kuthetha ukuba, nokuba zithini na iimeko, unokukhetha ukwenza njalo fumana uvuyo ngalomzuzu.
UMiguel Ángel Cornejo owaziwayo, isalathiso kuqeqesho kunye nobunkokeli beshishini, ukhankanya indlela ubukhulu obunxulunyaniswa ngayo nokwaphulwa kweparadigms kunye nokubona ikamva elizeleyo ngamathuba.
Ukwakha ubomi obungaqhelekanga kufuna umonde, ukholo kunye nokunyamezela. Umendo wenziwa ngokuhamba, inyathelo elinye ngexesha. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuqala ngamanyathelo amancinci namhlanje, Uya kuba kufutshane ekufezekiseni amaphupha owalangazelelayo.
INYANISO EMNANDI KAKHULU