Indlela umgangatho wonxibelelwano lwakho nabantu oluchaphazela ngayo ulonwabo lwakho nempilo yakho ngaphezu kwempumelelo okanye imali. Izitshixo ezisebenzayo zokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho.
Iinkqubo zokwenyani zokulwa nobulolo obungafunekiyo: iileta, amaqhinga kamasipala kunye neeprojekthi zasemaphandleni ezitshintsha ubomi eSpain.
Amabinzana oSuku lweValentine kwiWhatsApp, kwiFacebook nakwi-Instagram: izimvo zothando, ezihlekisayo nezobuhlobo nge-14 kaFebruwari.
Isayensi ichaza isizathu sokuba abantu abakrelekrele ngakumbi badla ngokuba nabahlobo abambalwa kwaye oko kuyichaphazela njani impilo-ntle yabo kunye nendlela abanxulumana ngayo nabanye.
Kutheni ukuzijongela phantsi kwakho kukwenza uzithethelela kakhulu izenzo zakho kwaye uzive unetyala xa ubeka imida? Cacisa iimpawu kunye neengcebiso ezisebenzayo zokuqala ukutshintsha.
Omnye kwabathathu abakwishumi elivisayo baseSpain ukhe wabelana ngesondo, kwaye ukusetyenziswa kweekhondom kuyehla. Iinyani, iingozi, kunye namanqaku aphambili malunga nemfundo yabo yesondo.
Intsingiselo yombala opinki kwisayikholoji: iimvakalelo, ubuntu, i-oxytocin kunye nokusetyenziswa kwayo kunyango, imfundo kunye neentshukumo zentlalo eSpain naseYurophu.
Fumanisa isizathu sokuba intlungu ichitha iintsapho, indlela yokujongana nayo, kunye nento omawuyenze malunga nentlungu, iimfihlo kunye nobudlelwane obuyingozi.
Yintoni ubudlelwane "nokungabikho nawe okanye ngaphandle kwakho", indlela yokubuqonda, indlela yokuphuma kubo, kunye ne-telenovela yaseMexico ezisa le drama kwibali eliyintsomi.
Ziphephe izivakalisi ezisi-8 ezilimaza abantwana bakho abadala. Funda into omawuyithethe (nento omawuyithule ngayo) ukuze uphucule ubudlelwane bakho kwaye uxhase ukukhula kwabo.
Izimvo zemidlalo yeKrisimesi yasekhaya neyeselula: imisebenzi yosapho, ii-apps ezineemxholo kunye neeklasikhi ezilungiselelwe ukwabelana ngokuhleka kweli xesha leeholide.
Fumanisa indlela ukufunda ukujonga abo bangakhangeliyo ngabanye abantu okuguqula ngayo ubugcisa, inkumbulo, kunye nendlela esiphila ngayo kwihlabathi.
Abemi baseValencia bayawuxabisa kakhulu ulwalamano lwabo lwentlalo kunye neendawo abahlala kuzo, kodwa balumkisa ngobulolo kwaye bacela inkxaso engakumbi kunye nemisebenzi yoluntu.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthi “akukho nawe okanye ngaphandle kwakho”: I-telenovela yaseMexico, ubudlelwane obuyingozi, ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo, kunye nezitshixo zokubeka imida kunye nokuzinyamekela.
Ngaphezulu kwamagama ayi-1500 eembono zeKrisimesi kunye namabinzana kubahlobo: imiyalezo emihle, ehlekisayo kunye neyoqobo ye-WhatsApp, amakhadi kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo.
UMel Robbins uchaza indlela yokubeka imida, ukubona umdla wangempela, kwaye ungasoli iqabane lakho ngamaxesha anzima.
ISpain yomeleza uvelwano ekufudukeni, kukhathalelo lwempilo, kwimfundo, nakwishishini ebusweni be-AI. Iinkcukacha eziphambili, iimbono, kunye nemilinganiselo.
Uphuhliso lwamva nje lwamatyala okuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo: INkosana u-Andrew iphantsi koqwalaselo, ityala elikhulu eCastellon, izigwebo eziphikisanayo, kunye neVatican efuna utshintsho.
Ubuhlobo phakathi kwezizukulwana buyonyusa njani inkumbulo, bunciphisa ubulolo, kwaye bomeleze impilo ngemizekelo, izifundo, kunye nemisebenzi eyenziwayo.
Iwele likaJacobe likhuthaza ukubandakanywa kolutsha kwaye liqinise ubudlelwane phakathi kweGran Canaria kunye neGalicia. Funda indlela iNdlela yeeNqobo ezisemgangathweni eyenza ukuba kwenzeke.
Ubudlelwane bothando emsebenzini eSpain: into evunyelwa ngumthetho, yintoni efunwa ziikhowudi zangaphakathi, kunye nendlela amatyala afana noNestlé ayivula kwakhona ingxoxo.
Ubulolo obungafunwayo bunxulunyaniswa nokudandatheka. Funda ngamaphulo, ukhathalelo lwempilo, kunye neeprojekthi zikamasipala esele zisebenza eSpain ukulwa nazo.
Imiyalezo yovelwano evela kuPapa, i-EU, kunye neSpain kulandela ukuphambuka kweLisbon. Uvavanyo olusemthethweni, ukulila, kunye nemilinganiselo. Yifunde ngoku.
Ukunganyaniseki yindlela engekho mthethweni yokuba umntu aqhube kwaye alawule iqabane.
I-Demisexuality luhlobo lokuziqhelanisa nesondo apho ukudibanisa ngokweemvakalelo kubalulekile ukuseka ubudlelwane.
Umdla othandweni ungundoqo kwaye ubalulekile xa kuziwa ekwenzeni isibini sonwabe kwaye sifezekise impilo-ntle ekudala ilindelwe.
Namhlanje kukho iintlobo ezininzi zobudlelwane. Ngeli xesha siza kuthetha nge-5 eqhelekileyo.
Ukuba ukuthetha nentombazana kubonakala kuyingxaki kuwe, ungaphoswa iingcebiso esiza kukunika yona ukuba ube yendalo kwaye uyifezekise.
Ukuthandana kubalulekile ebomini babo nabaphi na abantu. Ngena kwaye ufumane ukuba yintoni kwaye kufuneka ibonakaliswe njani ngokuchanekileyo.
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