Nangona incwadi yakhe, Ucinga njani umntu, iye yaphefumlela izigidi zabantu kwihlabathi jikelele kwaye ibe nempembelelo enkulu kwishishini lokuzinceda, incinci kakhulu eyaziwayo malunga nombhali wayo, uJames Allen.
Wazalelwa eLeicester, eNgilani, waza wasebenza njengonobhala wobuqu kumphathi wequmrhu elikhulu de kwasekuqaleni kwenkulungwane yama-20. Ngeminyaka eyi-38 "umhlalaphantsi» Waza wahamba nomfazi wakhe waya e indlu encinci e-Ilfracombe, eNgilani. Ubhale ezinye Imisebenzi engama-20 ngaphambi kokuba afe kwangoko eneminyaka engama-48.
UAllen wayefuna ukuziphucula, ukonwaba aze afunde zonke izinto ezintle. Ubomi bakhe baba ngumnqweno yolonwabo emntwini emhlabeni. UAllen ugxininisa kumandla omntu ukuba Yakha esakho isimilo kwaye udale olwakho ulonwabo. Ingcinga kunye nomlingiswa yinto enye.
Ucinga njani umntu ifuthe kubabhali abaninzi bexesha lethu njengoNorman Vincent Peale, Denis Waitley kunye Tony Robbins, phakathi kwabanye. "Umthamo wakhe omncinci," njengoko wawubiza njalo, uguqulelwe kwiilwimi ezintlanu eziphambili, ekhuthaza izigidi zabafundi. UAllen usixelela indlela ingcinga ekhokelela ngayo kwisenzoUmbhali usibonisa indlela yokuguqula amaphupha ethu abe yinyani ... Ifilosofi yakhe izise impumelelo kwizigidi zabantu.
Ungayithenga kwiAmazon ngokulandela esi sixhobo. Ukuba uthenga uhlelo olubonakalayo, khangela umgaqo-nkqubo wokubuyisela umthengisi kwicandelo elithi "Ithengisiwe" yevenkile.
Ukuba ukhetha, nantsi iya Inguqulelo yayo yencwadi:
Imalunga nantoni le ncwadi kwaye kutheni ibalulekile?
Ithisisi engundoqo yomsebenzi icacile: iingcinga zakho zibumba ubunyani bakho. U-Allen uhlanganisa le ngcamango ngenye yemigca yakhe ecatshulwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo: "Indoda ngokoqobo into ayicingayo, umlingiswa wakhe uphelele kwiingcamango zakhe." Ngokucacileyo, iprose engagcwalisi, le ncwadi ibalasele kuyo ubulumko obusebenzisekayo nobufutshane efundwa ngexesha elifutshane kwaye icingisiswe iminyaka.
Ngaphandle kokukhula komntu, isicatshulwa sibandakanyeka kwingxoxo kunye nemisinga efana stoicism: hlakulela ukuzola, thabatha uxanduva, kwaye ujike imiqobo ibe zizixhobo zokwakha amandla. Ukuzola, ngokuka-Allen, kuvela ekuqondeni i ubudlelwane besizathu-nesiphumo phakathi kwento esiyicingayo nesiphila kuyo.
Izimvo eziphambili eziphuhlisa ithisisi
UkuzakhelaKwi-arsenal yengcinga, senza "izixhobo" zokwakha okanye "izixhobo" ukuze sizitshabalalise. Khetha kwaye ufake isicelo ukucinga okuchanekileyo iphakamisa isimilo; ukuyisebenzisa kakubi kuyayithoba isidima.
UMgcini-gadi oPhambili: Ingqondo yigadi. Ukuba akuhlwayeli imbewu eluncedo, ukhula luya kukhula. Ukufunda, ukucamngca, nokukhetha indlela otya ngayo ingqondo kufana nokunkcenkceshela ngamanzi acocekileyo.
Ubulungisa obufihliweyo: yeka ukutyhola ukhangele ukufunda kuzo zonke izikhubekisoZonke iimeko ziqulethe imbewu yophuculo ukuba uhlengahlengisa ukutolika kwakho kunye nesenzo.
Ngaphandle kwekhosi emiselweyo: Ukunqongophala kwenjongo a isithubaUgxininiso olusembindini lugxininisa amandla, lunciphisa uloyiko, kwaye luthintele ukukhukuliseka kwengqondo.
Umsebenzi ophakamileyo: jika injongo esemthethweni ibe yeyakho iziko ingqalelo womeleza umlinganiswa kwaye ucwangcisa iingcinga, imikhwa kunye neziphumo.
Isakhiwo kunye nezahluko ezibalulekileyo
Le ncwadi ngokuqhubekayo igubungela imixholo efana nale Ingcinga kunye nesimilo; isiphumo sokucinga kwi iimeko, la impilo kunye nomzimba; Ingcinga kunye nenjongo; into yokucinga kwi mpu melelo; Imibono kunye neminqweno; kwaye i UkuzolaOlu lwakhiwo lufutshane luvumela ukufunda ngokukhawuleza kunye nokufunda ngokucokisekileyo, isahluko ngesahluko.
Usetyenziso olusebenzayo olukhawulezayo
- Phonononga ingxoxo yakho yangaphakathi: Chonga iingcinga eziphindaphindayo kwaye uzihlele njengeziluncedo okanye ezingenamsebenzi.
- Chaza injongo: into ekuzisela uvuyo, inokwenzeka, kwaye isebenzisa ubuchule bakho.
- Unakekele isitiya sakho sengqondo: Nciphisa ingxolo yolwazi kwaye wongeze ufundo kunye neaudios eziphakamisa iinqobo zakho.
- Funda kwiintsilelo: Bhala phantsi okwenzekileyo, okufundileyo, kunye nento oza kuyenza ngokwahlukileyo kwixesha elizayo.
- Yabelana ngombono kwincwadi kunye nomnye umntu: ukufundisa kuhlanganisa ukuqonda.
Abo basebenzise ezi ngcamango bayavumelana ngexabiso labo elingaphelelwa lixesha: cinga ngenjongo, ukwenza ngokufanelekileyo, nokuhlakulela ukuzola kudala ubomi obulungeleleneyo nobunemveliso. Lo mthamo omncinci, ngaphandle kokuhonjiswa okungafunekiyo, unika isakhelo esinamandla sokuguqula iinjongo kwimikhwa kunye nemikhwa kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo.