Ukunyamezela yenye yezona mpawu zibalulekileyo emntwini. Ukuba nayo kunye nokuyigcina kuya kukunceda ufezekise uninzi lweenjongo ozibekele zona ebomini. Luhlobo lomntu oluza kukunceda uphumelele.
Ukuba uyanyamezela, uyakuba nokuzimisela ukusebenza nzima kangangoko unakho ngaphandle kokukhathalela imiqobo ongaqubana nayo. Kuqulathe ukunyanzelisa kunye nesimo esomeleleyo sokwenza into kwaye unganikezeli.
Ukunyamezela sisitshixo sempumelelo
Ukunyamezela kukumlinganiswa wakho, kodwa sisixhobo esikhulu onokuthi usisebenzise nangaliphi na ixesha ebomini bakho. Inokuqina ekunyamezeleni kwinto oyenzayo, nokuba ungawuphi na ummandla okuwo, kuba ukuba uyanyamezela, uya kuphumelela ... ngokuqinisekileyo!
Kuhamba nathi ukusukela ekuzalweni kwethu, kuphela ukuba silibale ngokuhamba kwexesha. Enkosi kuye ufundile ukuhamba, ukuthetha, ukubhala okanye ukufunda… kwaye uphumelele koku! Ewe ngoku, kuwo onke amacandelo obomi bakho, Kuya kufuneka unyamezele ukuze ufumane iziphumo ezilungileyo.
Xa unyamezele kwinto oyenzayo, uyakukwazi ukuziva wanelisekile ngokufezekisa iinjongo zakho, ukuzithemba kwakho kuya komelela kwaye uyazi ukuba ngamacebo akho kunye namandla akho, uya kuba nakho ukuphumeza nantoni na oyibekileyo ingqondo yakho ebomini.
Qhubeka uya phambili
Ukufumana impumelelo ngokunyamezela kuya kufuneka uye phambili… kuba ukuze uphumelele kufuneka uye phambili. Usakhumbula xa wawufunda ukukhwela ibhayisekile? Mhlawumbi ayekhona amaxesha apho wawufuna ukuyeka kwaye kwabonakala ngathi yeyona nto inzima emhlabeni, kodwa uyenzile kwaye wakwazi ukufunda! Ngoku, emva kwemizamo emininzi, uyakwazi ukukhwela ibhayisekile kwaye ngumzekelo ocacileyo wokuzingisa.
Ukuze uqhubeke uye phambili kwaye uzingise, eyona nto iphambili kukuthatha amanyathelo amancinci ukufezekisa iziphumo ezintle. Awufuni ukwenza yonke into ngosuku olunye okanye uzame amanyathelo amakhulu ngexesha elinye. Impumelelo encinci iya kukhokelela kwimpumelelo enkulu. Kufana nokwenza iphazili, kufuneka ubeke amaqhekeza amancinci ukuze ufumane iziphumo zokugqibela!
Ukunyamezela kuthatha ixesha, ulwazi kunye nomonde. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho ungaqhubeka uqhubele phambili kwiinjongo zakho kwaye wonwabele uhambo. Kungenxa yokuba ukufezekisa impumelelo kubalulekile ukuba uyonwabele indlela ekhokelela kuyo. Ukuba awuyenzi, emva koko ungazishiya izigqibo zakho kwangethuba. Khumbula ukuba uya kuzenza iimpazamo kwaye uza kuzenza iimpazamo, kodwa leyo yinxalenye yempumelelo… kufuneka wenze iimpazamo ukuze ufunde kwiimpazamo zakho!
Ungahlala njani ungumntu ophikelelayo
Mhlawumbi, uqaphele ukuba unyamezelo lubonakala ngokungabikho ebomini bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba ungumntu ophulukana nomdla ngokukhawuleza okanye uzithelekise nabanye kwaye ungakhuthazeki ngokungazifumani izinto ngendlela efanayo neyabanye. Okokuqala, khumbula ukuba ukuthelekiswa kunenzondo kwaye nganye inezinga layo lokuzivelela kwezinto, awufuni ukufana nabanye! Yintoni egqithisile, Ukuba uphulukana nomdla ngokukhawuleza, kungenxa yokuba ezo njongo azihambelani njengoko ubucinga ekuqaleni.
Ukuba ufuna ukunyamezela ngakumbi ukusukela ngoku ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye wonwabele incasa yoloyiso kwaye ukwazi ukugxila endleleni ... Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso zilandelayo zokukufeza Uya kuba nakho ukunyamezela ngakumbi ebomini bakho ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili!
Yiba nethemba
Nangona izinto zihlala zingahambi ngendlela yakho, ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kubalulekile ekutsaleni izinto ezintle ebomini bakho. Ukuba ujongene nemiceli mngeni engalindelekanga okanye izinto nje azenzeki ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokulula njengoko ungathanda… kulungile futhi. Okukhona uhlala ixesha elide, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba ubone indlela izinto ezinokuthi zenzeke ngokwahlukileyo kunoko ubukulindele kwaye usasebenza. Yithathe lula kwaye ugcine isimo sengqondo esinethemba.
Gcina injongo engqondweni
Ukuze uzingise, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kutheni unyamezele. Oku kuthetha ukuba ugcina injongo ofuna ukuyifeza engqondweni yakho kwaye ukuba kukho imfuneko, uyibhala phantsi ephepheni kwaye ujonge kuyo yonke imihla. Oku kuyakuhlwayela imbewu yempumelelo engqondweni yakho kwaye kujolise ingqalelo yakho kwizinto eziza kukunceda ufezekise injongo yakho. Lumka into oyinqwenelayo ... kuba inokwenzeka.
Sebenza nzima
Ukuba uhlala esofeni ulinde ukuba izinto zize ngokwazo, aziyi kuza. Ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa into, kufuneka uzame kakhulu ukuyiphumeza. Sukulindela ukuba abanye bazifezekise iinjongo zakho kuba emva koko ayizukuba ziinjongo zakho okanye uya kuziva wanelisekile ngokwenza izinto kakuhle.
Kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima, ucwangcise ukuba uza kwenza ntoni kwaye uyenze njani… Kuthatha iiyure ezili-10.000 XNUMX zokuziqhelanisa ukuze ube yingcali. Umbuzo wakho ngulo: "Uzimisele kangakanani ukusebenza?"
Amaxhala awakunqandi
Ukukhathazeka kunokuyonakalisa injongo yakho, ke sukuvumela ukuba uxinzelelo lukucothise. Bonke abantu banexhala kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iphilile. Icebo kukunciphisa ixesha phakathi kwengcinga yakho yokuqala enexhala kunye nenyathelo lakho lokuqala lokuyihlasela.
Khumbula, uninzi lwexhala lakho lusekwe kukukhathazeka engqondweni yakho, hayi inyani. UMark Twain wakha wathi, “Ndiye ndaneengxaki ezininzi ebomini bam. Uninzi lwazo aluzange lwenzeke.
Ukuba uthatha inyathelo elinye uye emva, thabatha amabini uye phambili
Ukuqhubela phambili kukho amaxesha okuba ubuye umva kuqala. Ukuba uyarhoxa, sukukhathazeka okanye utyhafise, khumbula ukuba uzuza amandla okuba uphinde utsibe amanye amanyathelo amabini ngaphambili. Oku kusilela kuqhelekile kwaye kufuneka ukwenze ukuba ufunde ukuphucula kwixesha elizayo.
Hambisa iingcinga zakho kunye nezenzo zakho kule nto ufuna ukuyiphumeza, kwaye uya kuyiphumeza. Kodwa ungavumeli ukubuyela umva kukwenze ulahle itawuli okanye umoshe wonke umsebenzi owenzileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Gcina ingqondo yakho ijolise kwiinjongo zakho kunye nomzamo wakho, iinjongo zakho ziya kufika zodwa ... kodwa ungalibali ukonwabela uhambo lokufikelela kuzo!