Bonke abantu banako amaphupha kunye neenjongoYeyona nto isenza sifune ukuphila kwaye isinike isizathu sokuvuka yonke imihla. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwethu luzenza iimpazamo ezibaluleke kakhulu. Apha sishwankathela ezinye iindidi zabantu ezimo zabo zisisusa kwiinjongo zethu. Ukongeza, songeza izitshixo eziphathekayo ukuqinisa ugxininiso, umlinganiselo kunye neqhinga.
Izizathu ezisisiseko ezikwenza ube kude neenjongo zakho
1) Abaliqondi ixabiso lexesha
Bacinga ukuba kuya kubakho ixesha lokwenza oko bebezimisele ukukwenza. Ingxaki kukuba, xa befuna ukuyiqonda, bafumanisa ukuba sele beyiyo kusemva kakhulu kwaye abanakubuyela umva ngoku.
Ingcamango engundoqo: jika iinjongo zakho zibe izenzo eziphathekayo zemihla ngemihla kwaye inomlinganiselo; ukuqhubela phambili "ngamanyathelo amancinci" kuthintela ukukhubazeka ngokobukhulu.
Ividiyo: "Iimfihlo zempumelelo, nguWill Smith"
[imephu]2) Abenzi yonke into ekufuneka beyenzile ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo
Bavakalisa ukuba baneenjongo, ewe, kodwa abenzi nto ukuze bazifezekise. Ingcamango yeyokuba ukuba uzibekele usukelo, uya kwenza yonke into efunekayo ukuze ulufikelele.
Ukomelezwa: Chaza isicwangciso esisebenzayo ngeziganeko ezibalulekileyo zeveki kunye nophononongo oluqhelekileyo lokuhlala usendleleni.
3) Abasoloko benika okona kulungileyo
Umzekelo, bacinga ukuba bane- umsebenzi ophakathi Yiyo loo nto becinga ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba banikele ngako konke abanako xa kufikelelwa ekwenzeni oko. Le yimpazamo kuba ukuba awubeki umzamo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, awuzukuyibeka ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho.
Khumbula: la uqeqesho oluzinzileyo -ukungadluli inkuthazo-yeyona nto iphambili kwinkqubela phambili.
4) ukusikelwa umda kokuzibophelela
Ukuba ufuna ukuyiphumeza, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuyenza ukuyiswa yonke into eza ngendlela yakho. Musa ukucinga ukuba awukwazi ukoyisa umqobo; gxila nje ekwazini ukuba uza kuyiphepha njani.
Ingqondo: phuma kwi indawo yokuthuthuzela kwaye ujongane noloyiko ngemifuniselo emincinci elawulwayo.
5) Balungile ekwenzeni izizathu
Banesipho esikhethekileyo: zingxengxezeleniNanini na xa bengakwazi ukufumana into yokusebenza ngendlela abangathanda ngayo, bahlala befumana indlela yokuyithethelela. Kufuneka ufunde ukwamkela imiphumo yezenzo zabo kwaye ujongane nazo. Sukuzifihla ngezizathu kuba uyaziqhatha qha.
Isitshixo: ithatha uxanduva olupheleleyo kwiziphumo zakho; ngaphandle kwabagwenxa bangaphandle, izisombululo zivela.
6) Abanaso isitayile sabo
Kuyinyani ukuba ukuze sifumane impumelelo ngokufuthi kufuneka sixelise indlela ethile yokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka basebenze ukuphuhlisa yethu isitayile sakhoUkuba "sikopa" ubomi bethu bonke, asinakuze sifezekise nantoni na.
Icebiso: qhagamshela iinjongo zakho kunye ne injongo enentsingiselo oko kudlulela ngaphaya kwe-ego; ngaloo ndlela uzingisa ngentsingiselo.
7) abanazigqibo
Abanakukwazi ukwenza iingqondo zabo malunga noko bakulungisileyo. Xa ukutyhala kuza ukutyhala, xa kufuneka benze into yokutshintsha izinto, bathandabuza kakhulu abasoloko bephoswa lithuba lokuphumelela. Uloliwe wempumelelo uyabagqitha.
UKUJONGA: kuphephe ukwenza izinto ezininzi; khetha ikhosi kwaye uyilandele uyigqibe.
8) Abathathi mathuba
Kukho umthetho othi ukuba phezulu umngcipheko, kokukhona amathuba okuphumelela. Ayisiyongxaki yokubeka esichengeni yonke into, kodwa kufuneka sigqibe ekubeni siyenze. Kuphela ngokwenza izinto ezintsha esinokuthi sifikelele kwiinjongo ezintsha.
Umngcipheko obaliweyo: ulinge nge ukubheja okuncinci ukuxela esi sigqibo silandelayo.
9) Abakwazi ukumelana neengxaki
Ngelixa kukho into engahambi kakuhle, bayathanda fihla ukusuka kwihlabathi liphela. Oku, kunjalo, akuyi kusinceda ukuba siqhubele phambili.
Icebo: ukulinganisa inkqubela yakho kunye ilungisa amaqhingaUkomelela kuqeqeshwa ngempendulo rhoqo.
10) abanamdla
Abantu abathi, nokuba uzama ukubanceda nokubanika iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo, babonakale bene inkcaso yendalo kwaye abafuni kwazi nto ngathi.
Indawo esingqongileyo: zingqonge nabantu aba ukucinga kwaye wabelane ngeenjongo zakho; inkxaso yezentlalo yongeza ukubambelela.
Iimpazamo ekuchazeni nasekuphumezeni usukelo ezidla ngokungahoywa
Ngaphandle kwezi zimo zengqondo zingasentla, kukho iziphene zokuyila nokuphumeza ezichaza isizathu sokuba iinjongo ezininzi kangaka zishiywe zingazalisekanga. Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba kuphela a bambalwa ikwazi ukuzinzisa iinjongo zayo; ezi ziintsika ezenza umahluko:
- Ukunqongophala kwezinto ezithile: Usukelo olungacacanga luyaphela. Zenze SMART (ngokuthile, okunokumetwa, okufikelelekayo, okufanelekileyo kunye kwangexesha).
- Ukulahleka kokugxila kunye nokwaneliseka kwangoko: khetha iinjongo ezimbalwa kwaye khusela ingqalelo yakho kwiziphazamiso kunye neemeko zikaxakeka.
- Ukungalinganisi inkqubela: into elinganisiweyo ilawulwa; irekhodi ngamaxesha yomeleza indlela yokuziphatha oyifunayo.
- Ukunqongophala kwenkxaso kunye nokusingqongileyo: Yabelana ngeenjongo zakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba yakho isangqa ibe yipropellant, ingabi yityhefu.
- Ngaphandle kweqhinga: idibanisa umbono kunye nobuchule. Isakhelo G'SOT: Injongo (yintoni), Isicwangciso-qhinga (ngokubanzi njani), Iinjongo (izigaba ezibalulekileyo), Amaqhinga (izixhobo).
Dibanisa inkqubo elula: cwangcisa izenzo zakho eziphambili njenge "izibophelelo", zifezekise uphononongo lweveki kwaye usebenzise izikhumbuzo okanye iijenali zokuziqhelanisa ukugcina ukungaguquguquki.
Gwema ukunamathela kwiindawo "ezimpunga": cacisa inzuzo yokuqhubela phambili kunye neendleko zokungatshintshi; ingqondo yenza izigqibo ezingcono xa ibona emnyama nemhlophe ichazwe kakuhle.
Ziphephe ezi ntlobo zezimo zengqondo kwaye qiniseka ukuba uya kukufeza oko ubuzimisele ukukwenza. Ngeenjongo ezibambekayo, umlinganiselo othe rhoqo, ingqwalasela ekhuseleke kakuhle, kunye nesicwangciso esicacileyo, amathuba okuphumelela iphindaphindeka njengoko ufumana kwakhona impembelelo kunye nolawulo.