Izizathu ezili-10 eziphezulu zokuba kutheni abantu abaneentloni benomtsalane ngakumbi

Ama-introverts awafuni ukuba liziko lokuqwalaselwa, kodwa aphakathi kwabantu abanomtsalane kwaye banomdla.

Ngokungafaniyo neentloni, i-extroverts sele ibonakalisile indlela yazo kunye nokwenza kwasekuqaleni. Nangona kunjalo, Umntu oneentloni uba nomdla ngakumbi.

Olu khetho lubalaselisa izizathu ezili-10 zokuba kutheni abantu abaneentloni benomtsalane ngakumbi.

10) Ziyamangalisa.

Ama-Introverts ane-aura eyimfihlakalo ebajikelezile. Abantu bafuna ukwazi ukuba bacinga ntoni, kodwa soze bafumane yonke into. Oku kwenza ukuba umntu oneentloni abenomdla ngokumangalisayo kwaye oyikise kwangaxeshanye.

9) Kulula ukuphatha.

Ngokwendalo bahleli phantsi, banobuntu kwaye banobuhlobo.

Kwilizwe elihlala lingxamile, umlinganiswa oneentloni, opholileyo, nozibeke mva umtsalane kakhulu. Kuyinyani ukuba ama-introverts ahlanjululwa yizihlwele, kodwa akhula ngamaqela amancinci kunye nokusebenzisana.

8) Bangabaphuphi.

Ingcali yezengqondo uScott Barry Kaufman kunye noogxa bakhe bachaza ukuba ingqondo ephuphayo iyanceda kwinkqubo "yokufukama okudala."

Ezona zimvo zibalaseleyo zibonakala ngathi azikho ndawo, xa iingqondo zikwezinye iindawo. Abantu abaneentloni bahlala belahleka ezingqondweni zabo, beza nemibono emangalisayo nehlaziyayo.

7) Baphulaphula kakuhle.

Wonke umntu ufuna ukuthetha kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukumamela ke xa umntu ebonisa umdla kwabanye, kwaye bazimisele ukumamela, le inomtsalane kakhulu. Umntu oneentloni uthanda ukumamela ngaphezu kokuthetha. Oku kukhuthaza unxibelelwano olomeleleyo kunye nolwalamano olusempilweni.

6) Bayakhuthazeka ngaphakathi.

Abantu abaneentloni bahlala bekhuthazeka ngaphakathi. Oku kuthetha ukuba bayakhuthazeka ukuba basebenze ngokuzithemba okungaphakathi ngaphakathi, endaweni yezizathu ezingafakwanga zangaphandle ezinje ngomvuzo kunye nokwamkelwa.

Bayazazi ukuba bangobani, bafuna ntoni kwaye kubalulekile ntoni ebomini babo.

5) Bahlala beqwalasele.

Umntu oneentloni uyazibona izinto abanye abangaziboniyo. Ihlabathi liyamangalisa kwi-introvert. Bahlala befumana ulwazi kwimeko ezolileyo kwaye basebenzise oko njengesiseko sokubonisa okuyilayo. Xa ungumntu oneentloni, akukho nto ilahlekileyo.

4) Bayayazi into abayithethayo.

Akukho nto yenza ukuba umntu abonakale engenangqondo kunokuthetha izinto ezingafanelekanga kuba bathetha ngokukhawuleza, bengenalo ixesha lokuwajonga ngokwabo amagama. Ama-introverts, xa ethetha, athetha kuphela okwaneleyo ukuvelisa umdla komnye, eshiya umnqweno wokumamela ngakumbi.

3) Bacinga ngokuqaqambileyo.

Ngokophando olwenziwe ngoochwephesha bezengqondo u-Mihaly Czikszentmihalyi noGregory Feist, abona bantu banomdla kakhulu kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo bahlala bezazisa. Oku ikakhulu kungenxa yokuba isizungu sisixhobo esiphambili kwimpumelelo yoyilo.

Abantu abaneentloni aboyiki ukuhlala bodwa. Bayakuxabisa ngokwenene ukuba bucala. Kwimeko enesizungu, izingeniso zinxibelelana ne-monologue yazo yangaphakathi, zibuze imibuzo efanelekileyo, kwaye ziguqule izihlunu zazo zokuyila.

Banotyekelo lwendalo lokwamkela isizungu, bagxile kwisihloko ngokunzulu, bacinge kwaye benze ngobuchule.

2) Banobulumko kwaye banengqondo.

Abantu abaneentloni batsaleleka ekufundeni nasekufundeni. Bayakonwabela ukufunda nokufumanisa izinto ezintsha kubo kwaye banobulumko. Umntu okrelekrele unomdla kwaye uyathandeka. Kungcono ukuchitha ixesha nomntu onamava kunye nomdla onomdla wokufunda ngakumbi, kunokuba umntu angazi nto kwaye angazingci.

1) Ziyakhuthaza ngokwengqondo.

Kuba abantu abaneentloni bahlala befundile kwaye bezibonakalisa, iincoko zabo ziyakhuthaza ngokwengqondo. Kwaye kukho into enomlingo kwaye intle ngomntu okhanyisela kwaye axhokonxwe yincoko enentsingiselo nenengqiqo.