Siyathemba ukuba eli nqaku liyakunceda ubone ubomi ngokwahlukileyo kwaye ubonwabele ngokupheleleyo. Olu luhlu luthathwe kwinto exelelwa ngoongikazi abakhathalela abantu abagulela ukufa.
Izinto ezingama-20 abantu abazisola ngazo ebhedini yabo yokufa:
1) Ndinqwenela ukuba ngendingasoloko ndizithelekisa nabanye: ngale ndlela ngendonwabele ubomi endaweni yokuhlala ndizisola ngento ebendingenayo.
2) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendicwangcise izinto ngcono kwaye bendingaphilanga kangaka. Ukuphila ngaphandle kwemida kunokuba mnandi kodwa ixesha liza kufika xa liyakuthatha uxanduva.
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3) Ndinqwenela ukuba ndingakhange ndichithe inxalenye yobomi bam ndizisola. Sichitha ixesha elininzi sizisola kwaye elo xesha linokusetyenziselwa ukonwabela ubomi kancinci.
4) Akwaba ndandingatshongo, "Ndizakuyiqala ngomso." Ngaba unayo iiprojekthi engqondweni? Ziqale namhlanje kwaye ngomso uza kuvuna izibonelelo ... ngale ndlela awuyi kuzishiya ngaphambi kokuba uziqale.
5) Ndinqwenela ukuba ndibeke esichengeni ngaphezulu. Nguye kuphela okwaziyo ukubeka umngcipheko oya kuphumelela ngokwenene. Ukwazi indlela yokuthatha umngcipheko obaliweyo kuya kusisa kwiindawo esingazange saya kuzo.
6) Ndinqwenela ukuba ndiyigqibile yonke into endiyiqalileyo. Amaxesha amaninzi sishiya izinto ngesiqingatha kwaye siyazisola. Kubalulekile rhoqo kwaye unyamezele.
7) Ndinqwenela ukuba ngendixelele abanye indlela endibathanda ngayo. Asinakuze sazi ukuba usuku lwethu lokugqibela emhlabeni luza kubakho nini, ke qiniseka ukuba abantu abakungqongileyo bayazi ukuba ubathanda kangakanani.
8) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendonelisekile yile ndinayo kwaye ndingachithi xesha ndikhangela enye.
9) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendiwunyamekele ngcono umzimba wam kunye nempilo yam, ngale ndlela ngendingaphila ixesha elide.
10) Akwaba bendimamele ingcebiso entle yabanye. Ukuba ubuphulaphule ngenyameko ngakumbi kubantu abathile, ngekhe uthathe izigqibo ezininzi ezimbi.
11) Akwaba ndandingazange ndibambe ingqumbo. Bekufanele ndikwazi ukungaziniki iintshaba zam ulwaneliseko kwaye ke bendonwabile kancinci.
12) Ndinqwenela ukuba ndihambe ngaphezulu, ukuba ndazi amasiko amatsha kunye nezinye izizathu zokuvuka yonke imihla yobomi bam.
13) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendi hleke ngakumbi. Andijonganga kwiingxaki ebendinazo mihla le kwaye ndizinikela kwimizuzu embalwa ngeveki ukuze ndikwazi ukuhleka ndilibale ngayo yonke into endingqonge ngala mathuba.
14) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendichithe ixesha elincinci ekusebenzeni kwaye bendinokulisebenzisa ukuchitha nosapho lwam.
15) Ndingathanda ukunxibelelana nabo bonke abahlobo bam ebuntwaneni. Ukufumana kwakhona ubudlelwane obabukhetheke kakhulu ngemihla yabo kodwa baphela belahleka ngokuhamba kwexesha.
16) Ndinqwenela ukuba ndibone iinkcukacha ezincinci. Ngale ndlela ubomi bam ngebuhluke kakhulu.
17) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendithembele kuye ngakumbi. Ngale ndlela bendiya kuba nakho ukufeza iinjongo zam.
18) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendilandele intuition yam ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ebomini bam.
19) Ndinqwenela ukuba bendixhomekeke kwiinkampani ezingcono, ndingalahlekanga kubahlobo abalungileyo, kwaye ndiqhubeke nokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kude kube sekupheleni kobomi bam.
20) Akwaba ndandenze izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Emva kokwenza ezinye izigqibo kwaye ungazenzanga iimpazamo ezibonakalayo.
Phila ixesha elide kwaye ungcono kwaye awuyi kuzisola nantoni na ebhedini yakho yokufa.
Izimvo ezikule nqaku zinzulu kakhulu. Ngokwam, ndinqwenela ukuthi xa kufika umhla ndifike ukuba bendihlala ndinomdla, ndithembekile kwaye ndonwabile njengoko bendikhula suku ngalunye njengomntu. Ukwanga, uPablo
Ukugodola,
Ndiyathemba ukuba abanye bethu bayasifunda kwaye akufuneki bazisole ngezinto ezininzi ebhedini yokufa. Ubuncinci ndizama ukusebenza ukuze ingenzeki ngoluhlobo.