Ukuguqula iminyaka engama-30 kuhlala kubandakanya inqanaba elibonakalayo lokukhula; sifunda izifundo ezithile ukuba ubomi buphethe ukusifundisa ... ngamanye amaxesha nangamandla. Kolu luhlu lulandelayo siye saqulunqa Izifundo ezili-10 zobomi ziya kukufundisa ngaphambi kokuba ube neminyaka engama-30. Ukuba usondela kuloo minyaka, uya kubaqonda ngokugqibeleleyo.
1) Imali ayisombululi zonke iingxaki
Ufundile ukuba imali ayisoloko ikunceda (nangona isenza ixesha elininzi). Imiba yentliziyo kunye nempilo ayinakusombululwa ngemali kwaye kuye kwafuneka siyifunde ngemivumbo osinike yona. Isifundo esingasayi kusilibala. [Iqela leengcali zengqondo libonisa ukuba imali ayizisi lonwabo]
Ividiyo: "Indoda engenakhaya iyisebenzisa njani imali"
2) Imfundo idlula ngaphaya kwesidanga
Isidanga sinokukuxhobisa ngolwazi, kodwa imfundo yinto oyifundayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ingxaki kukuba ayingabo bonke abantu abanokuyifunda, kodwa uninzi luyayifunda. Ukuba nemfundo kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukujongana nehlabathi mihla le.
3) Uyaqonda ukuba ixesha liyaphela
Uqala ukuqonda ukuba umzuzwana ngamnye ubalulekile kwaye uzabalazela ukwenza imisebenzi eqinisekisa ukuba ubomi bakho bunentsingiselo kwaye kufanelekile. Okukhona umdala, kokukhona uya kulazi eli candelo.
4) awukhathali kakhulu malunga nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe
Uthathe ulawulo ngobomi bakho kwaye awubavumeli abanye babulawule. Nguwe owenza izigqibo. Impembelelo yabanye kuwe kudala yaphela.
5) Ufunda ukukhathalela impilo yakho
Kwiminyaka engama-30 umzimba awufani neminyaka engama-20. Uqala ukuqaphela ukuba awoyiseki kwaye kufuneka uwunyamekele umzimba wakho. Uyixabisile impilo yakho ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into kwaye uqalise ukutya usempilweni, ukudlala imidlalo kunye nokukhathazeka malunga neekhalori.
6) Ufunda ukuxabisa usapho lwakho
Azisekho zonke ezo ngxoxo ubukhe wanazo. Ngoku uqala ukubanakho ukuzibeka kwimeko yabazali bakho (ngakumbi ukuba nawe unjalo) kwaye uyasiqonda isizathu sezigqibo abazithathileyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ubudlelwane kunye nabo buya kuphucuka.
7) Uyakuxabisa ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuxolela kwaye uthi uxolo
Uwonwabisile umsindo wakho kwaye uyazi ukuba uxolelo lubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane bakho (nokuba sisibini, ubuhlobo okanye usapho). Yiyo loo nto ungenangxaki yokuveza iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uthi "Uxolo" xa kufanelekile.
8) Fumanisa ukuba ubomi abukho lula njengoko ubucinga
Ubomi buhlala bunamandla okumothusa ungcono okanye ungalunganga. Ufumanisa ukuba yonke into ayilula njengokuba ubucinga.
9) Ngokukhathazeka asitshintshi ikamva
Siyazi ukuba inkxalabo ikhona kodwa akukho nto ifumanekayo ngayo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathe isigqibo kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okusombulula iingxaki ukuze ulinde ukuba bazilungise.