Ukuguqula iminyaka engama-30 kuhlala kubandakanya inqanaba elibonakalayo lokukhula; sifunda izifundo ezithile ukuba ubomi buphethe ukusifundisa ... ngamanye amaxesha nangamandla. Kolu luhlu lulandelayo siye saqulunqa Izifundo ezili-10 uBomi buya kukufundisa ngaphambi kokuba ube neminyaka engama-30. Ukuba usondele kuloo minyaka, uya kuzazi wena kwabaninzi babo.
1) Imali ayisombululi zonke iingxaki
Ufundile ukuba imali ayisoloko ikunceda (nangona kunjalo ewe ngobuninzi Imicimbi yentliziyo nempilo ayinakusonjululwa ngemali, kwaye kuye kwafuneka sikufunde kabuhlungu oku. Isifundo esingasayi kusilibala.Iqela leengcali zengqondo libonisa ukuba imali ayizisi lonwabo]
Ividiyo: "Indoda engenakhaya iyisebenzisa njani imali"
[imephu]2) Imfundo idlula ngaphaya kwesidanga
Isidanga sinokukunika ulwazi, kodwa imfundo iyalinywa ngokuhamba kwexeshaAyinguye wonke umntu oyiphuhlisayo ngokulinganayo, kodwa ibalulekile ukujongana nehlabathi yonke imihla.
3) Uyaqonda ukuba ixesha liyaphela
Uqala ukuyiqonda loo nto yonke yesibini ibala kwaye uzabalazela ukwenza imisebenzi eyenza ubomi bakho bube nenjongo. Okukhona usiba mdala, kokukhona uyazi ngakumbi ngale ngongoma.
4) awukhathali kakhulu malunga nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe
Uye wabulawula ubomi bakho kwaye awubavumeli abanye ukuba babulawule. Wenza izigqibo kwaye impembelelo yangaphandle iyahlanjululwa.
5) Ufunda ukukhathalela impilo yakho
Nge-30, umzimba wakho awuyonto ubuyiyo kwi-20. Ufumanisa ukuba awunakoyiswa kwaye kufuneka unakekele umzimba wakho: utya ngcono, ushukuma ngakumbi kwaye uxhalabele imikhwa yakho.
6) Ufunda ukuxabisa usapho lwakho
Iingxabano zisemva kwakho kwaye unokuzifaka ezihlangwini zabazali bakho (ingakumbi ukuba nawe ungomnye wabo). Ukuqonda izigqibo zakho kuphucula ubudlelwane.
7) Uyakuxabisa ukubaluleka kokuxolela nokucela ukuxolelwa
Uye wawuthomalalisa umsindo wakho kwaye uyazi ukuba ukuxolela kubalulekile ekugcineni ubudlelwane. Uyayichaza into oyivayo kwaye uthi "uxolo" xa kuyimfuneko.
8) Ufumanisa ukuba ubomi abukho lula njengoko ubucinga
Ubomi buhlala bumangalisa, ngcono okanye bubi. Ukulula okubonwayo Ngokufuthi ibiyinto nje elindelweyo.
9) Ukukhathazeka akutshintshi ikamva
Siyazi ukuba inkxalabo ikhona kodwa ayisombululi ntoKufuneka senze isigqibo kwaye senze endaweni yokulinda ukuba yonke into izilungise ngokwayo.
10) Inkcazo yakho yempumelelo itshintshile
Awucingi ukuba imali kunye nokuthandwa kubaluleke kangako. phu melela. Ubuhlobo bokwenene, uxolo kunye nosapho ukufumana udumo.
Iingcebiso ezisebenzayo ezenza umahluko ngaphambi kwe-30
- Khusela ulusu lwakhoSebenzisa i-sunscreen yonke imihla. Ikamva lakho liya kukubulela.
- Impilo esondeleyo: ukuchama emva kokwabelana ngesondo ngesondo ukunciphisa ingozi yosulelo lomgudu womchamo.
- Wunyamekele umzimba wakho xa uhamba: yolula ngaphambi koqeqesho kunye fumana umsebenzi owonwabileyo (ukuhamba, iintsimbi, ukudanisa, ukuqubha).
- Funda ukupheka iziseko: Iqanda eliqhotsiweyo elilungileyo, i-sauce elula okanye i-cream ikunika ukuzimela kunye nempilo.
- Kuphephe ukuthenga ngexabiso eliphantsi okubonakala kubiza kakhulu: Kwizacholo okanye izinto ezisisiseko ezihlala ixesha elide, khetha umgangatho ophakathi xa kunokwenzeka.
- Iingcebiso zokupheka eziluncedo: kwiisandwich ezigcadiweyo, i-mayonnaise ngaphandle iithowusti ngokulinganayo ngaphandle kokuqhekeza isonka.
- Izihlangu ezinomtsalane zibuhlungu: ibhalansi isitayile kunye nentuthuzelo, kwaye ithwala ii-band-aids esandleni.
- Amaqanda ngamathandabuzo: ukuba uyakrokra, yenza uvavanyo lwamanziUkuba iyadada, yilahle.
- Lala ngokwaneleyoUbuthongo bunamandla amakhulu engqondo, imo kunye nolusu.
Ubudlelwane, ubuhlobo kunye nemida enempilo
- Awuyi kukholisa wonke umntu kwaye kulungile. Ukuba yinyani kufuna inkalipho.
- Yithi “hayi” ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala: Khusela ixesha namandla akho, ubeke imida ecacileyo.
- Ubuhlobo buyatshintsha: abanye bayatshintsha kwaye abanye bayahamba. Ikwayinto eqhelekileyo ukuba Kunzima ukwenza abahlobo njengomntu omdala; zama imisebenzi kunye nezithuba ezifanayo.
- I-Intanethi ayisoloko idala amakhonkco okwenene: yahlula phakathi komlandeli ngamaxesha athile kunye nenethiwekhi yenkxaso xa uyifuna.
- Iincoko Ezinzima ukuqinisa ubudlelwane obuphilileyo (isibini, ubuhlobo, umsebenzi).
- Funda ukuxolela nokucela uxolo: iphilisa kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ugcine oko kuxabisekileyo.
- Isangqa sakho sibalulekileZijikeleze ngabantu abakukhuthaza ukuba ukhule kwaye uphephe abo bachitha amandla akho.
Ingqondo, umlinganiswa kunye nokufunda okuqhubekayo
- Kukho imposter kuye wonke umntu: Ukuthetha ngayo kukunika imbono kunye nokuzithemba.
- Azikho iindlela ezimfutshane zokwenyani: izakhono zobuchule zithatha ixesha elide kunokuba bekulindelwe; ziqhelanise, cela impendulo kwaye unxibelelana kwinqanaba.
- Yahlula iinjongo ezinkulu kwiinjongo ezincinci, ezinokubakho; inkqubela ezinzileyo iyoyisa ukuthanda ukugqibelela.
- Buza ngaphandle koloyiko: “Imibuzo ebubudenge” eya kubantu abazizilumko ithintela iimpazamo ezinkulu.
- Ulungelelanisa ubuntununtunu kunye nokuqina: Ukuba nobubele akusingeli phantsi imida okanye iinkolelo.
- Guqula ikhosi ukuba kuyimfuneko: Awubotshelelwanga kumsebenzi omnye okanye kwisicwangciso esinye.
- Yamkela ukuba awulawuli yonke into: khulula ulindelo lwakho kwaye uphendule ngento exhomekeke kuwe.
- Isenzo phezu koluvo: iintetho ezincinci kunye neenyaniso ezibonakalayo.
- Yomeleza ukuzeyisa: Phuma kwangethuba ukuba iyakufanela, hleka iimpazamo zakho uqhubeke.
Impilo yengqondo, iimvakalelo kunye nokuzikhathalela
- Phefumla ukuthomalalisa ixhala: Ukuphefumla kancinci, nqumama, khupha umoya olawulwayo, phinda ude uzive uzolile.
- Yiya kunyango Ukuba uyayifuna, sisipho sokuzithemba kwakho kunye nokucaca.
- Bhiyozela usuku lwakho lokuzalwa Yomeleza umbulelo kunye nemvakalelo yobomi, nokuba yinto encinci.
- Khathalela ulusu Ukungenatyala: iikhrimu, ukucocwa kunye nokukhuselwa kwelanga yimpilo, hayi amampunge.
- Lawula ubutyala: Ukukhulula kuthatha ixesha; ukuziqhelanisa nokuxolelwa (kwabanye kunye nawe) kuyawenza ube khaphukhaphu umthwalo.
Imali, umsebenzi kunye nobomi obusebenzayo
- Imali ithenga uxolo lwengqondo (hayi ulonwabo). Gcina, tyala, kwaye uphile ngaphantsi kweendlela zakho.
- Iintshukumo Zixabisa ngaphezu kokuba zibonakala: ukupakisha, ukucoca, ulawulo kunye nexesha.
- Yiba luncedo Sesona sicwangciso sobuchule sobuchule: songeza ixabiso kwaye sinxibelelane ngokucacileyo.
- Sebenzisana phambi kokuba ukhuphisane kwaye ukhethe amaqabane akho kakuhle: ukuthembela kunye nokuzinikela.
- Urhwebelwano alukho kuwo onke amanqanaba: Vavanya imeko yakho yangoku kunye nenethiwekhi yakho yenkxaso.
- Chaza impumelelo yakho okanye uluntu luya kukwenzela oko; lungelelanisa izigqibo zakho kunye nezo zithethe.
Izinto ezixabisekileyo, injongo kunye nembono
- Ububele bubiza i-zero kwaye inika izabelo kudumo nakwintlalontle.
- Uvelwano: Jonga kwezinye iimbono; oku kuyakuphucula izigqibo zakho.
- Lixabise iziyolo ezincinci: ukuhamba, ukulala, ukuhleka, iincoko kunye nobugcisa budliwe ingqalelo.
- Musa ukuleqa imfezeko: Funa amaxesha olonwabo kunye nentsingiselo; uzinzo lunokuba ngaphezulu.
- Yiba nombulelo: Nceda abanye xa unako kwaye ukhumbule apho usuka khona.
Njengoko sigqiba iminyaka engama-30, sifunda ukuba ukuphila kakuhle yindibaniselwano impilo, ubudlelwane bokwenyani, imikhwa esebenzayo, Cacisa imida kunye nendlela ekhethwe sithi. Izifundo ziza ngeendlela eziliwaka, kodwa ziyadityaniswa xa sisenza ngokuvisisana noko sele sikwazi.