Izakhono zentlalo zizakhono esizisebenzisayo ukunxibelelana nokunxibelelana nabanye, kokubini ngamazwi nangaphandle kokuthetha, ngolwimi, izijekulo, ulwimi lomzimba, kunye nokubonakala kwethu. Abantu zizidalwa ezinokuhlala kwaye siphuhlise iindlela ezininzi zokunxibelelana nemiyalezo yethu, iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zethu nabanye. Yinto ebalulekileyo kuthi kwaye yiyo loo nto sincamathelisa ukubaluleka kakhulu kuyo kwasekuzalweni.
Unxibelelwano lubalulekile ebantwini kwaye lufezekiswa ngezakhono ezifanelekileyo zentlalo. Oko kuthethwayo kuphenjelelwa lulwimi oluthethwayo kunye nendlela esithetha ngayo (ithoni yelizwi, umthamo wentetho, kunye namagama esiwakhethayo), kunye nemiyalezo efihlakeleyo ezinje ngolwimi lomzimba, izijekulo, kunye nezinye iindlela zonxibelelwano ezingezizo zomlomo.
Kukho abantu abangcono "amaqabane entlalontle" kunabanye, ngenxa yesi sizathu kukho izifundo ezibanzi malunga nobume kunye nokusebenza konxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu. Uphuhliso lwezakhono zentlalo lumalunga nokwazi indlela esinxibelelana ngayo nabanye, imiyalezo esiyithumelayo, kunye nendlela ezinokuphuculwa ngayo iindlela zonxibelelwano ukwenza indlela yokunxibelelana iphumelele ngakumbi kwaye isebenze.
Izibonelelo zokuba nezakhono zoluntu ezilungileyo
Ulwalamano olungcono kwezentlalo
Ukuba nendlela elungileyo yokunxibelelana nabanye kuya kukwenza ube nabahlobo abaninzi. Njengoko ukhulisa izakhono zakho zentlalo, uya uthandeka ngakumbi, uphawu oluthandwayo nangubani na. Abantu banomdla ngakumbi kubantu abanesisa, njengoko benjalo (okanye ubuncinci babonakala ngathi) banomdla ngakumbi kubo nakwabanye.
Uninzi lwabantu luyazi ukuba awukwazi ukufikelela kude ebomini ngaphandle kobudlelwane obuqinileyo phakathi kwabantu. Ukugxila kubudlelwane kuya kukunceda ufumane umsebenzi, ufumane ukunyuselwa, kwaye ufumane abahlobo abatsha. Izakhono zentlalo eziqeqeshwe kakuhle zinokunyusa ukonwaba kwakho kunye nolwaneliseko ngokukunika umbono ophucukileyo ebomini. Ukongeza, ukuba nolwalamano oluhle nabanye abantu kuya kukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo esele lukhona ukwandisa ukuzithemba.
Ukudibana okungcono
Ukunxibelelana nabantu kunye nokusebenza ngamaqela amakhulu kuya kukunceda ube nezakhono zonxibelelwano ezingcono. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngekhe ubenezakhono ezintle zentlalo ngaphandle kwezakhono ezilungileyo zonxibelelwano kunye Ukukwazi ukuhambisa iingcinga zakho kunye nemibono inokuba sesona sakhono sibalulekileyo osiphuhlisayo ebomini.
Luhlobo olulungileyo ukuba ucinga ukuba unonxibelelwano olubi okanye ukuba izakhono zakho zentlalo azinqwenelwa, unyanzele iimeko ukuba zikwazi ukuthetha nabanye abantu. Ngale ndlela unokuziqhelanisa ngakumbi, kunokuba kwindawo yokutyela, kunye nomabhalana wevenkile, njl.
Ukusebenza ngokukuko
Ukuba ulungile nabantu, unokukuphepha ngokulula ukuba kunye nabantu ongabathandiyo njengabanye. Kwaye abanye baya kulunga kuwe. Abanye abantu bayoyika ukusebenzisana nabantu kuba abafuni ukuchitha ixesha nabantu abangenamdla kunye neembono ezifanayo ... okanye boyika ukuba kunye nabantu abangalunganga.
Kulula kakhulu ukuya entlanganisweni emsebenzini okanye ethekweni ebomini bakho, ukuba ubuncinci uyazi ngabantu abaza kubakho. Ukuba uzifumana ukwimeko yezentlalo kwaye awufuni kuchitha ixesha nomntu othile kuba ungathandi okanye awukwazi ukubanceda ngengxaki ethile, iseti elungileyo yezakhono zentlalo ziya kukuvumela Dlulisa ngesidima into oyifunayo ukuze uchithe ixesha nabanye abantu entlanganisweni.
Phucula indlela ojonga ngayo ebomini
Eyona misebenzi ibaluleke kakhulu 'inecandelo lomntu' kwaye ezona zithuba zinengeniso zihlala zibandakanya ixesha elininzi elichithwe kunxibelelwano nabasebenzi, abeendaba kunye nabanye. Kunqabile ukuba umntu angahlala yedwa e-ofisini yakhe kwaye aqhubeke nomsebenzi.
Uninzi lweenkampani zikhangela abantu abanesakhono esithile esetiweyo-ukubanakho ukusebenza kakuhle kwiqela kunye nefuthe kunye nokukhuthaza abantu ukuba benze izinto.
Uya konwaba ngakumbi
Ukuhlala kunye nokuqonda abantu kuya kukunceda uvule iingcango ezininzi ezizezakho kwaye ezinxulumene nomsebenzi wakho okanye ngokubanzi kubudlelwane bakho. Ukuba nokuzithemba ukuqala incoko kwinkomfa enxulumene nomsebenzi kunokukhokelela ekunikezelweni kwemisebenzi ngomvuzo ophezulu. Uncumo kunye "molo" kwimeko yentlalo kungakhokelela kubuhlobo ... kwaye ubuhlobo bunokubonelela ngonxibelelwano oluxabisekileyo ebomini bakho.
Ukuba uyavana nabantu abakungqongileyo, uya kuziva wonwabe ngakumbi kuba uyakuqonda ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu ombi okanye ofuna ukuxhaphaza abanye. Ngaphezu koko, bafuna ukunceda. Nangona udibana nabantu abanetyhefu apha ebomini bakho, iya kuba licebo elilungileyo ukuba uyazi ukuba ubakhupha njani abantu abanetyhefu ebomini bakho ukuze bangakhuphi mandla akho.
Iimpawu zezakhono zentlalo
Ukuqonda ngcono ukuba zeziphi izakhono zentlalo ungaphoswa zezi mpawu zichaza kakuhle:
- Izakhono zentlalo zijolise kwinjongo yoluntu okanye injongo.
- Ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo ngokwasentlalweni kuyanxibelelana ngengqondo yokuba umntu anokusebenzisa ngaphezulu kolunye uhlobo lokuziphatha ngaxeshanye, ngenjongo enye.
- Izakhono zentlalo kufuneka zilungele imeko yonxibelelwano. Izakhono ezahlukeneyo zentlalo ziya kusetyenziselwa unxibelelwano lobuchule kunye nabanye kunxibelelwano lomntu.
- Izakhono zentlalo zinokuchongwa njengeentlobo ezithile zokuziphatha umntu anokugwetywa ngazo ngokubhekisele kubuchule babo ekuhlaleni.
- Izakhono zentlalo zinokufundiswa, zenziwe kwaye zifundwe.
- Izakhono zentlalo kufuneka zibe phantsi kolawulo lokuqonda lomntu; ukuzifunda kubandakanya ukufunda ukuba uza kuzisebenzisa nini iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha, nokuba zeziphi iindlela zokuziphatha oza kuzisebenzisa okanye ukuba uzisebenzisa njani.
Nje ukuba unayo yonke le nto engqondweni yakho, ke uya kwazi ukuba ungaziphucula izakhono zakho zentlalo kwaye ngokwenza njalo kuya kuba nefuthe elikhulu kubomi bakho nakubomi babantu abakungqongileyo.