Ngamanye amaxesha kukho izifundo ezithile kobu bomi ekungekho lula ukuziqonda ngokuthe ngqo, ke izafobe ezikhethekileyo zisetyenziselwa ukunceda ukuziqonda. Enye yezona zaziwa kakhulu kwaye inomdla kakhulu Ibali lemithi emibini esiza kukuxelela lona ngokulandelayo.
Libali eliqhelekileyo elinebali elilula kodwa liphela linesiphelo esenza ukuba ubonakalise ubomi bakho kunye nayo yonke into oye wakwazi ukuyiphumeza kuyo. Sicebisa ukuba uyifunde ngononophelo kwaye ucinge ngomyalezo ozama ukukuhambisa kuwe njengoko ubaluleke kakhulu.
Imithi emibini
Ngenye inkwenkwana eneminyaka esibhozo ubudala eyayikrelekrele kakhulu kubudala bayo yaya kutatomkhulu wakhe njengoko yayisenza rhoqo ngeempelaveki. Ngeli xesha wayenoluvo olunomdla kakhulu engqondweni, wayezimisele ukuphumelela ebomini kwaye wayecebe ukwenza nantoni na eyimfuneko ukufezekisa loo njongo.
Utatomkhulu wakhe wayengumntu ophumeleleyo, ke wambuza lo mbuzo ulandelayo: Xa ndikhula, ndiza kuphumelela kakhulu. Utatomkhulu, ungandinika naliphi na icebo lokuba ungayifumana njani?
Utat'omkhulu wanqwala kodwa akathetha. Wambamba ngesandla lo mfana baya kwigumbi labantwana apho ahlala ezithenga khona izityalo. Wamxelela ukuba akhethe imithi emibini.
Babasa emakhaya baza baqala ukuyokubalalisa kwindawo efanelekileyo. Omnye wabo wayifaka egadini, enye, endaweni yoko, bayityala embizeni encinci ngaphakathi.
Emva koko utat'omkhulu wabuza umzukulwana wakhe: Nguwuphi kule mithi mibini ocinga ukuba uya kuba nempumelelo ngakumbi kwixa elizayo?
Inkwenkwe ibizithanda ezi ntlobo zintsonkotha, ke ithathe imizuzu embalwa yokucinga ngayo kwaye yathi: Umthi wembiza. Isizathu kukuba ukhuselekile kwaye ukhuselekile apha. Umntu wangaphandle kufuneka ajongane nezinto zangaphandle ezinokwenza kube nzima ukuba zikhule.
UTatomkhulu wagxeka wathi: sobona.
Ixesha lihambile utat'omkhulu wahoya izityalo zombini ngokulinganayo Ngenye imini, le nkwenkwana, ngoku yayikwishumi elivisayo, yabuyela kutatomkhulu wayo.
-Awuzange uphendule umbuzo wam Ndimxelele- Ndingaphumelela njani xa ndimdala?
Indoda endala yathatha umzukulwana wayo ukuya kuyibona le mithi mibini, emva koko wathi: Yeyiphi eyona inkulu?
-Kodwa ayinangqondo-, dIjo okwishumi elivisayo. - Le engaphandle inkulu ... kodwa leyo ingaphakathi kufanele ukuba ikhule ngakumbi kuba ibinobunzima bokuyenza.
-Ewe, kodwa umngcipheko wokujongana nemiceli mngeni kufanelekile- Watsho uTatomkhulu encumile. -Ukuba ukhetha ukhetho olukhuselekileyo awuyi kuze ukhule. Endaweni yoko, iingozi kunye nemiceli mngeni zenza ukuba umda wakho kuphela ube sisibhakabhaka.
Ukuba unesibindi sokubeka emngciphekweni kunye nokubheja kwinto okholelwa ngokwenene kuyo, unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuvusa amandla akho okwenyani kwaye mpu melelo kwinto oyicebisayo.
Imithi emi-2 ifundisa kakuhle.
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