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Kukho ezinye izinto ezikwaziyo ukumisela ingaba indlela esihamba ngayo iya kusikhokelela empumelelweni okanye hayi. Eyona nto inomdla kuzo zonke yileyo Usenokungayazi loo nto yabo.
Apha sibashiyela wena 10 izimo zengqondo okanye ukuziphatha into eyenziwa ngabantu abaphumeleleyo:
1) Gcina ixesha
Ukuba ungumntu okwaziyo ukufika kwangethuba kwidinga zakho (nangaphambili) oko kuthetha a cwangciso ubucukubhede kakhulu. Abantu abaphumeleleyo bahlala bebambe ixesha kwaye unokuthembela kubo kuyo yonke into. Ukugcina ixesha kukuhlonipha ixesha labanye abantu kunye nezibophelelo zakho; ulindele iziganeko ezingalindelekanga kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ufike uzilungiselele ngokwengqondo.
2) Musa ukoyika ukuveza izimvo zakho
Bayazi kakuhle into abamele bayithethe nendlela yokuyithetha. Abanaloyiko lokuthetha ngendlela abayiyo ngokwenene. Baphatha abaxhasi babo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye bayakwazi ukuhambisa ngokuthe ngqo ukuba yintoni injongo yabo (okanye into abafuna ukuba bacinge ngayo). Bayaqhelisela ukuqinisekiswa, bavumelanisa umyalezo wabo kwi-interlocutor kwaye banakekele imvelaphi njengefom.
3) Abalindelanga ukuba abanye benze umsebenzi wabo
Bayazi ukuba bayalidinga iqela labo ukuze bafezekise iinjongo zabo, kodwa abalindi ukuba abanye benze umsebenzi wabo. Bayazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni umsebenzi wabo kunye nendlela yokuwenza. Liyinyaniso elokuba banokuncedwa, kodwa sele bewucebe kusengaphambili umsebenzi. Esi simo sengqondo siyatyhila uxanduva lomntu kunye nendlela yokuziphatha ye proactivity.
4) Bagcina izinto zabo ngendlela ecwangcisiweyo
Balandela umyalelo ongqongqo wokwazi apho bagcina khona izinto. Xa bezifuna, bayazi apho banokuzijonga khona. Ngale ndlela bacwangcisa iingqondo zabo kwaye basebenza kakuhle xa kufikwa ekuphumezeni iinjongo zabo. Baphumeza iinkqubo ezilula (uluhlu, iilebhile, iinkqubo) kuba indawo enocwangco ithanda a ingqondo ecacileyo.
5) Banomdla wokuphucula
Basenokuba baye baphumelela, kodwa basoloko bekhangela iindlela zokuphucula. Iingqondo zabo zigcwele iiprojekthi ezintsha, kwaye bahlala befumana indlela yokuzisebenzisa. Bayazingisa, bazimisele, kwaye bazimisele xa kufikwa ekuphumezeni oko bakufunayo. Bagcine a ipesenti yosuku for bafunde: funda, yiya kwimisitho kwaye uyigcine iincoko ezinomdla.
6) Ungaziva ungonwabanga ngokucela iingcebiso
Bathobekile, abakholelwa ukuba bazi ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na kwaye abanangxaki kwaphela cela uncedo okanye iingcebiso kwabanye. Bayazi ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokuqhubela phambili kukufunda, ngoko ke bawathathela ingqalelo naliphi na icebiso. Ukucela uncedo kuthetha ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ikhawulezisa i ukukhula.
7) Bema beqinile xa bejamelene nobunzima
Ayizizo zonke izinto ezihamba kakuhle kubo. Maxa wambi kuye kufuneke bajamelane neemeko ezinzima, kodwa abakhe baphulukane nokuqina kwabo. Xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle, bayakwazi ukubeka iingqondo zabo ukuba zisebenze ngesantya esiphezulu ukufumana esona sisombululo sikhawulezayo nesisebenzayo. Bagcina i nembono, balawule amandla abo kwaye basebenzise imikhwa yokuqina.
8) Babona ukusilela njengesixhobo sokufunda
Abaphelelwa lithemba xa bebona iimpazamo zabo; bayakwazi ukukhupha ulwazi kubo ukuze bangaziphindi kwakhona. Baqhubela phambili ngolo hlobo. Bayamkela iingozi ezibaliweyo kwaye ukwamkele oko ngamanye amaxesha amalinge alithoba kwalishumi Basenokungaphumeleli, kodwa bahlala bephindaphinda.
9) Bahlala bezolile kwiimeko zoxinzelelo
Abawuvumeli umsindo ubalawule kwaye bayakwazi ukuqiqa nangawona maxesha anoxinzelelo. Ngale ndlela, benza ezona zigqibo zilungileyo. Basebenzisa iindlela ezilula: micro-breaks, ukuphefumla kunye nokugxila kwintoni Ewe, banokulawula. Ukongeza, iindlela ezininzi zokuziqhelanisa ukuze thula kunye nokulungelelana ngokweemvakalelo.
10) Bajonge ukulunga kwabo kunye nokulunga okuqhelekileyo
Ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo, "abacinezeli" abanye, kodwa kunokuba bancede bafezekise ezabo. Bayabhiyoza impumelelo yabanye abantu, kuba bayaqonda ukuba ubomi abukho zero sum.
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