Ngaphambi kokuba sijonge ezi mpawu zobuntu ezikwenza ube ngumntu onomtsalane ngakumbi, Mandabelane nawe ngevidiyo yentombazana eye yasasazekaIquka ezinye zeempawu zobuntu endiya kuzibalaselisa kweli nqaku.
Mhlawumbi sele uyibonile ividiyo, kodwa kufanelekile ukuyibukela kwakhona kuba imfutshane kwaye ipakisha i-punch enamandla. nethemba y amandla:
Ngoku siza kujonga uluhlu lweempawu zobuntu, ngokombono wam, ukwenza umntu... nomtsalane kakhulu ukwenzela mna:
1) Ndiyabathanda abantu aba-SPONTANEOUS.
Akukho nto ingako yokongeza. Ndiyaziphepha iindibano zoluntu kwaye ndiyabathanda abantu abanjalo zendalo kwaye bagqithisa ezi ngqungquthela ukusa kumlinganiselo othile.
Olu hlobo lwabantu lunegalelo ukuvuselela kunxibelelwano lwentlalo. Ukuzenzekela, ngaphezu koko, kudla ngokukhatshwa yi-a ulwimi lomzimba oluvulekileyo kunye noncumo olulula, imiqondiso engathethwayo eyenza ukusondelana kwangoku.
2) Ndiyabathanda abantu abonwabileyo.
Ngubani ongathandi abantu abavuyayo nabanethemba? Uvuyo yimvakalelo. iyasulelaKanye njenge-negativity. Abantu abangalunganga banokudlulisela amandla abo amabi kuwe, kwaye ekugqibeleni ube ngumntu odakumbileyo. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka uzame ukuzingqonga ngabantu abanomgangatho owuthandayo.
Ncuma ngokunyanisekileyo, gcina ukudibana kwamehlo okulungileyo Kwaye ukuma okuthe tye iiprojekthi amandla amema unxibelelwano. Izifundo ezininzi zibonisa ukuba uncumo lokwenene Yenza imbono yokukhanga ikhule ebusweni bamazwi anzima.
3) Ndiyabathanda abantu ABAKHULU.
Andibathandi abantu abazama ukulubaleka uxanduva lwabo xa bejamelene nengxaki okanye iingxaki ebomini. Ndiyabathanda abantu aba Bayibambe ngeempondo inkunzi yenkomo kwaye bamkela yonke into ephoswe ebusweni babo okanye abakwaziyo ukujongana nabani na.
Isibindi semihla ngemihla siguqulela kwi melela kunye nokukwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezinzima ngokuzolileyo. Oko kuzola kubonwa njenge khu seleko, uphawu olunomtsalane kakhulu kuyo nayiphi na imeko yentlalo okanye yobungcali.
4) Ndiyabathanda abantu abanyanisekileyo.
Ndiyayithanda i- ukunyaniseka Nangona kubuhlungu (nto leyo idla ngokwenza). Ngaba unokulithelekelela ihlabathi apho abantu babemiselwe ukuba basoloko bethetha oko bakucingayo? Yhuu, ndicinga ukuba iya kuba yinto eyoyikeka, kwaye siya kuba sisinge kwimfazwe yehlabathi. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyabancoma abantu abathetha inyaniso kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo ekuhlaleni okanye kwiimeko apho banokubonakala bembi ukuba bathetha iingqondo zabo.
Ukunyaniseka, xa kudityaniswa kakuhle, luhlobo oluthile ubunyaniUkuthetha into esiyicinga ngayo uvelwano Yaye intlonelo yomeleza amaqhina, inciphisa ukungaqondani, yaye yongezelela umtsalane kuba idlulisela ukuhambelana ngaphakathi
5) Ndiyabathanda abantu abasebenzayo.
Andizithandi amavila Okanye benza umsebenzi wabo bethandabuza. Ndicinga ukuba le yokugqibela inxulunyaniswe nento yokuba umntu angawuthanda umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa nokuba awuyithandi le nto uyenzayo, zama ukuyenza kakuhle... uyakubona ukuba uphela uyonwabele njani.
UJimmy Diresta ngumzekelo wokuziqhelanisa kakuhleNdisebenzisa iividiyo zabo ukuphumla
Ukuzibophelela kwiiprojekthi zokusebenza ukuthembeka y ingqeqeshoiimpawu ezimbini ezidla ngokunxulunyaniswa nabantu abanomtsalane nabaphumelelayo. Enyanisweni, uzibonakalisa kakuhle kwaye kunye ukhathalelo lomntu womeleza loo mfanekiso wobuchule.
6) Ndiyabathanda abantu abathobekileyo.
Eli nqaku lindikhumbuze umlinganiswa kaYouTube owaduma kakhulu kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo ngokuba Into eyahlukileyo kukuthobekaWazibiza ngokuba “nguMatías, othobekileyo” (phawula isigqebelo). I-multimillionaire encinci ibulela abazali bakhe abangazange baphakamise umnwe.
Ukuqhula ecaleni, ndiyabathanda abantu abanomgangatho ophezulu wobuqu kwaye abaqhayisi ngayo. Ukuthobeka kuhamba kakuhle... nkokheli yinyani: ukumamela, ukuvuma iimpazamo, kunye nokuxabisa igalelo labanye kudala i-aura ubushushu loo nto itsalayo.
7) Ndiyabathanda abantu ABAVAKALAYO KWIMEKO ENGQONGILEYO.
Ndiyabathanda abantu aba Ziyikhathalele indawo yazo yendalo Yaye benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuyinyamekela, njengokuyihlaziya nokungalahli inkunkuma. Bade baphinde basebenzise ioyile kwaye bathathe izinto eziphilayo amaziko okwenza umgquba.
Ngokungalahli ndithetha musa ukulahla necuba elinye phantsi.
Ukukhathalela okusingqongileyo kuthetha ngako xabiso y xanduva lo loluntuObu buntununtunu, obufana nesisa, bucebisa umlinganiswa othembekileyo ojolise ekulungelweni okuqhelekileyo, iimpawu ezimbini ezandisa umdla woluntu.
8) Ndiyabathanda abantu BAMANYE.
Ndiyabathanda abantu aba Babandakanyeka kwiiprojekthi zoncedo kwabona bahlelelekileyo nabakwaziyo ukunikela ngexesha labo ukuze abanye abantu bazive bebhetele kancinci.
Umanyano luyomeleza unxibelelwano nabanye kwaye wondle lonwabo eyakho. Ukupha nokunceda yimikhwa ethi, ukongezelela ekubeni nomtsalane, inciphise uxinezeleko ize iphakamise umoya ngokunika intsingiselo.
9) Ndiyabathanda abantu abangaFezekanga.
Ukuba umntu unazo zonke ezi mpawu ndizidwelisayo, besiya kujongana nezi umntu ogqibeleleyo... kwaye loo nto indenza ndibe novalo. Abantu abafezekileyo abekho; eneneni, imfezeko ayikho kwaye iyingozi. Iziphene ezi-6 zokufuna ukugqibelela.
Kulo ukungafezeki Ubuhle bulele apho.
Bonisa ukungafezeki nge ukunyaniseka Kukwenza ube ngumntu kwaye ungeneke ngakumbi. Ukunyaniseka kunciphisa uxinzelelo lwentlalo kwaye kuvumela ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo ngakumbi. nzulu kwaye uzinzile.
10) Ndiyabathanda abantu ABAFUNDA IINCWADI.
Umntu ofundayo ngumntu ozolileyo, okrelekrele okwaziyo ukuba yedwa. nengqondo Kwaye unokuba nencoko ekrelekrele naye. Oku akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukuba nencoko enjalo nomntu ongafundanga. Enyanisweni, kukho abantu abangafundanga abanomdla kakhulu nabacingayo ngakumbi kunaye nawuphi na umntu ofundileyo okanye onenkcubeko.
Ukufunda kondla i umdla, lungisa kakuhle i inqobo kwaye iququzelela iingxoxo ezivuselelayo ngakumbi. Kubudlelwane obuzinzileyo, ubukrelekrele kunye nencoko esemgangathweni zibonwa njengeempawu ezinomtsalane kakhulu.
11) Ndiyabathanda abantu abakhulisa i-HOBBY.
Nokuba ngumthungo onqamlezileyo, iipuzzle, imodeli yenqwelomoya… abo bantu bakwaziyo ukuzinikela iiyure ezi-2 ngqo kwenye umsebenzi ozizalisekisayo kwaye iyabanelisa.
Izinto zokuzonwabisa ziyabonisa nomdla y inkululekoUkusukela izilangazelelo zakho kukwenza ube nomdla ngakumbi, kwandise isangqa sakho sentlalontle, kwaye kukunceda uqhagamshelane nabantu abanengqondo efanayo.
12) Ndiyabathanda abantu abakhathalela impilo yabo.
Ndiyabathanda abantu aba Badlala imidlaloBayikhathalele indlela abatya ngayo kwaye abatshayi okanye basele. Abantu abagqibeleleyo, huh? 😊 Umntu ozilolongayo kwaye akukhathalele ukutya kwakhe ukhangeleka esempilweni... kwaye ke ngoko emhle ngakumbi.
Ukunyamekela impilo yakho kukwabandakanya ukuphumla kakuhleulawulo lwe uxinzelelo kunye nococeko rhoqo: ulusu, iinwele, iinzipho kunye impilo yamazinyo Ezi ziimpawu ezibonakalayo zokuzikhathalela. Nokuba imikhwa efana phefumla ngeempumlo kunye nokusebenzisa izihlunu ze-orofacial kukhuthaza inkangeleko ehambelanayo kunye nemvakalelo epheleleyo yokuzola.
Ngaphaya kwenkangeleko yomzimba: Iimpawu eziphindaphinda umtsalane
Umtsalane awusekelwanga kwinkangeleko kuphela. Indibaniselwano ye isimilo, imikhwa Kwaye izigqibo ezincinci, zemihla ngemihla zinempembelelo enkulu kwindlela esijongwa ngayo. Apha ngezantsi kukho izenzo ezithile ezithi ubungqina kunye namava entlalo anxulumane nomtsalane omkhulu.
- Ucoceko kunye nokhathalelo lomntu: Ukuhlamba rhoqo, ukugcina ulusu kunye neenwele zicocekile, kunye nokugcina ucoceko olufanelekileyo emlonyeni ncokola ntlonipho Eyakho nakwabanye. Sisiseko esithe cwaka kodwa esinamandla ngokumangalisayo somtsalane.
- Ulwimi lomzimba olulungileyo: ukuma okuthe tye, amagxa akhululekile, ukujonga okukhapha kunye uncumo lokweneneEzi mpawu zingabonakaliyo zivakalisa ukuzithemba kwaye zikwenza ubonakale ufikeleleka ngakumbi.
- Ukumamela ngokukhutheleyo: Ukuphulaphula ngaphandle kokuphazamisa, ukucacisa, kunye nokubuza imibuzo efanelekileyo kubonisa umdla wokweneneImvakalelo yokuviwa ayinakuphikiswa kwaye idala amaqhina anzulu.
- Ukuhlekisa: Ukwazi ukuhleka kunye nokwenza abanye bahleke kunciphisa uxinzelelo, kukhupha i-endorphins, kwaye kukwenza ube ngaphezulu... intle ngoko nangoko. Ngaphezu koko, idla ngokunxulunyaniswa nobukrelekrele bentlalontle.
- Uvelwano nobubele: ukuqonda imbono yomnye umntu nokwenza ngokufanelekileyo ingqalelo Yandisa umtsalane kunye nokwaneliseka komntu.
- Ithemba eliqinisekileyo: Ukugxila kumathuba ngaphandle kokukhanyela ubunyani kukhanya amandla enamandla kwaye ikwenza ube liqabane elinqwenelekayo kwimingeni yemihla ngemihla.
- Ubunyani: Ukulungelelanisa into oyicingayo, ukuziva, kunye nokwenzayo kunciphisa ukungakhuseleki kwaye kukwenza ubonakale uyinyani. iyahambelana kwaye sinokuthenjwa.
- Isisa: Ukunikela ngexesha kunye noncedo lokungazingci kuyakomeleza unxibelelwano kwaye iphucula impilo-ntle yeemvakalelo.
- Impilo ebanzi: Ukuzilolonga rhoqo, ukutya okunokulinganisela, kunye nokulawula uxinzelelo kuphakamisa amandlaBaphucula isimo sengqondo kwaye, ngoko, ukukhanga.
- Imidla kunye nezinto ezinomdla: ukuhlakulela imisetyenzana yokuzonwabisa kunegalelo ubunzulu kunye nezihloko zencoko; plus, ikurhangqe nabantu abanengqondo efanayo.
- Ukhathalelo lobuhle obukrelekrele: Ukukhetha iphunga ngokumodareyitha, iinwele ezilula, kwaye, ukuba zifunwa, izimonyo eziphucula ngaphandle kokufihla; ezi zizigqibo zonxibelelwano. ukunikwa kwengqondo kunye nobungcali.
- Ukusetyenziswa kombala ngobuchule: Iingubo ezibomvu zinokusasaza amandla kwaye ibe yenomtsalane ngakumbi kwiimeko ezithile.
- Unxibelelwano olucacileyo: Thetha no Ukucaca Kwaye ubushushu, ngaphandle kokuhlasela okanye ukuzimela, buphindaphinda imagnethi yakho yentlalo.
- Uqikelelo lobuchwephesha: Umfanekiso wobuchule kunye nobunkokeli obunovelwano uhlala unyusa imbono ye nomtsalane kwiindawo zokusebenza.
Indlela yokudibanisa le mikhwa kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ngaphandle kobugcisa
Qala ngezinto ezisisiseko: beka phambili imida emithathu engenakuxoxisana —Ucoceko, yokumisa y ncumo-. Emva koko yongeza imikhwa emibini ebalulekileyo: ukumamela ngokukhutheleyo kwiincoko zakho kunye nendlela emfutshane ye ukusetyenziswa kwaye uphumle. Okokugqibela, yongeza uchuku lomntu: a Yokuzilibazisa owuthanda kakhulu kunye nevumba elimnandi lemicimbi yezentlalo okanye yobungcali.
Ukuba ungathanda ukukhangela nzulu, zama ezinye iintshukumo ezincinci ezisebenzayo: bamba Ukujongana ngamehlo Xa ubulisa umntu, buza umbuzo ongaphendulekiyo kuyo yonke incoko uze uqukumbele usuku ngokucamngca ngokufutshane nangombulelo. Ezi zizenzo ezincinci eziphakamisa ... ukunikwa kwengqondo kwaye uphucule indlela oziva ngayo ngawe.
Ukudityaniswa kweempawu zomlinganiswa—ukuzenzekela, uvuyo, inkalipho, ukunyaniseka, ukuthobeka, ukuqaphela indalo esingqongileyo, umanyano, nokwamkelwa kokungafezeki—kunye nemikhwa ethile—ucoceko, ulwimi lomzimba, impilo epheleleyo, inkanuko, kunye nokhathalelo lobuhle—kudala isibheno esidlula ifashoni nobudala. Yimagnethi eyakhiwe ngaphakathi, ibonakaliswa ngaphandle, kwaye ibonakala kuyo yonke intsebenziswano.