Imifanekiso

"Ifoto ixabisa iwaka lamagama" yile nto ixhaphakileyo ithi, ibinzana elishwankathela ngokugqibeleleyo yonke into umfanekiso olula unokuhambisa. Kumntu ngamnye kunokuthetha into eyahlukileyo, kuba iimvakalelo azifani kubo bonke abantu. Nokuba umfanekiso ngokwakho ungabonisa into eyahluke mpela ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ebomini.

Imifanekiso ibaluleke kakhulu kuba Yeyona ndlela yakudala yonxibelelwano ekhoyo. Ngokusebenzisa imizobo kunye nemiboniso ngeefoto zeepikogram, abemi bokuqala boMhlaba babekwazi ukubamba amabali ayesenzeka ngelo xesha. Ke, banokunxibelelana nezinye izizwe ezikude ngemifanekiso yabo. Siyabulela kubo, namhlanje sinokufunda iinyani malunga nokuba ubomi babunjani kula maxesha akude.

Umfanekiso uqulethe iinkcukacha ezingapheliyo, kwanezona zilula kunokuba nomtsalane ngokumangalisayo. Konke kuxhomekeke kwamehlo ajongileyo, kodwa nakwintoni na ngelo xesha umbonisi ukulungele ukuvavanya. Okucacileyo kukuba akukho mfanekiso ungabalulekanga. Yonke imifanekiso iqulethe into yalowo wayidalayo, nokuba ngefoto okanye ngomzekeliso, nganye inenxalenye yomphefumlo walowo wayidalayo kwaye, ekugqibeleni, yile nto idluliselwe emehlweni.

Kweli candelo libizwa ngokuba yiMifanekiso, ungafumana zonke iintlobo zokubonisa. Nokuba ungavakalelwa njani, uya kufumana into eya kukunceda wenze usuku lwakho lube ngcono, ubuncinci okomzuzwana. Kuba uyakufumana imifanekiso ehlekisayo oya kuzonwabisa nayo, eminye inxulumene nobuhlobo eya kukunceda ukhumbule ukuba kutheni loo mntu ebaluleke kangaka kuwe kwaye nokuba kutheni le nto ikuthwalisa umthwalo ongabalulekanga kangako njengoko ucinga.

Ngendlela efanayo nabathandi bezobugcisa abonwabela ngayo ukupeyinta iiyure, ukuhlalutya ukubetha ngakunye, umbala ngamnye, inkcukacha nganye ebonakalisiweyo emsebenzini, kwimifanekiso esiza kuyikhethela yona unokufumana iinkcukacha oya kuziqonda kuphela. Oko kukuthi, mhlawumbi abanye abantu ababoni okufanayo njengawe, kodwa bubuhle bobugcisa, ukuba umntu ngamnye abunandiphe aze abutolike ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Kwaye imifanekiso ingaqwalaselwa njengobugcisa kuba ngokungathandabuzekiyo iqulethe inxenye yeemvakalelo zalowo uzenzileyo.

Ukuba ufuna inkuthazo okanye inkuthazo, kodwa ungayifumani kwezinye iintlobo zezixhobo, ezinje ngeencwadi zokuzinceda okanye izifundo, imifanekiso yeyakho. Ziyakhawuleza, kulula ukuzibona, kwaye zinako yiba nomtsalane njengezona ncwadi zipheleleyo ekhoyo kwimarike. Ngena kweli candelo libizwa ngokuba yiMifanekiso, wonwabe kunye neminqweno ejikeleza iplanethi, umangaliswe yiyo yonke into enikezelwa yindalo kwaye wonwabele ubuhle bezinto ezincinci.

Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi kwenye yezo foto ungafumana inkuthazo kufuneka utshintshe ikhosi. Okanye mhlawumbi uthatha isigqibo sokuthatha loo ndlela ikoyikisayo kakhulu, okanye uyothuka xa uthumela umyalezo kulo mntu ungagqibelelanga ukuthetha naye. Konke oku kunokubangelwa ngumfanekiso, kuba kubantu abaninzi, into engena ngamehlo ingena nzulu kunala magama athi ngamanye amaxesha aphephethwe ngumoya.

Yonwabela ukhetho lwemifanekiso oya kuyifumana kuyo recursos de autoayuda, Siqinisekile ukuba uyabathanda kwaye baya kukunceda, ubuncinci, okomzuzwana. Siqinisekile ukuba xa uqalile, awuyi kuba nakho ukuyeka kwaye uya kujonga kwibhetshi elandelayo yemifanekiso ekhuthazayo, eyonwabisayo, evuselelayo nenenkuthazo esiyifunayo.