Baninzi abantu abangashukumiyo kwihlabathi liphela. Bangabantu abazimvu abahamba ngokungathi ziirobhothi. Bangena kwinkqubo edinisayo kwaye ubomi babo abunanjongo. Kancinci bayaphuma njengekhandlela.
Ukuba ungomnye wabo bantu, ungathini ngokunika ubomi bakho ukujika kweedigri eziyi-180 kwaye Ngaba sifumana into ekwenza ungcangcazele kwaye uzive uphila kwakhona? Namhlanje ndiza kuthetha ngendlela onokuyifumana ngayo into ekukhuthazayo kwaye uzive unomdla onamandla ongapheli kwiminyaka ezayo.
Into endiza kukuxelela yona kweli nqaku inokusetyenziselwa umceli mngeni weentsuku ezingama-31 endicebise ukuba inqaku lam elidlulileyo.
Masihambe nezi Amanyathelo ama-7 okufumana inkuthazo kunye nokuyigcina ngokuhamba kwexesha:
1) Fumana uthando lwakho lokwenyani.
Eli linyathelo lokuqala nelona libalulekileyo. Ukuba siyazinikezela ekwenzeni oko sikuthandayo, ixesha liyayeka, singena koko kubizwa ngokuba kukuhamba kwaye ubomi bethu buba nentsingiselo kwakhona.
Ungalufumana njani uthando lwakho?
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Ingakuthatha ixesha ukufumana ukuthanda kwakho, kodwa qhubeka umbe kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo. Ungandixeleli ukuba awunamdla, ukuba akukho nto uyenzayo ulungileyo. Sonke size kweli hlabathi sinetalente.
Ukuba unengxaki yokufumana italente yakho, siza kusebenzisa ezemidlalo ukubonisa eli nqaku.
Siza kusebenzisa umthambo ukuqala ukusikhuthaza ukuba siphile ubomi obunempilo kwaye sigqwese ekufezekiseni iinjongo ezinxulumene nokuzilolonga. Oku kuya kukunceda uhlale ukhuthazekile kwaye ngokwenza umthambo unokufumana italente yakho yokwenyani.
2) Nxibelelana nabantu ababelana ngokuthanda okufanayo, ukuthanda umdlalo okanye italente.
- Namhlanje kukho iintlanganiso, imibutho okanye ukuhlala kwayo nantoni na onokuyicinga. Ukuzimasa nayiphi na kwezi ntlanganiso okanye iinkomfa kuya kuqinisa ukhuthazo lwakho lokuqhubeka nokwenza into oyenzayo. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, iya kukuvumela ukuba udibane nabantu abanezinto zokuzonwabisa ezifanayo kwaye ukwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane kunye nabo kuya kwenza ukuba inkuthazo yakho ingaze iphele.
Kwimeko yomzekelo wethu, kukho izihlwele zemithambo kunye nemibutho yezemidlalo yalo naluphi na uhlobo. Ungabhalisela enye yale mibutho kwaye uqalise ukuzivocavoca nabantu abafana nawe.
-Ukuba ufumene abantu benomdla wokufana ungacebisa yenza i-Skype, Whatsapp okanye iqela leTelegram. Ngale ndlela niya kuhlala nincokola maxa onke, niyakhuthazana kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuba nihlale.
3) Bukela iividiyo kwiYouTube zabantu ababelana ngothando lwakho.
Namhlanje Ungafumana iividiyo zento oyifunayo kuYouTube. Kukho abantu abagxile kwizinto ongazange wazi nokuba zikhona.
Ukuba awunalo ixesha lokubukela iividiyo kwiYouTube okanye zinde kakhulu, unako cima umsindo kubo, badlulise kwifowuni yakho kwaye umamele kubo ngelixa usiya kubethwa ngumoya. Ukuba uyakwenza oku kungekudala uza kuba yingcali kule nto uyikhethileyo kuba zininzi iiyure zokufa imini yonke onokuthi umamele ezi audios.
4) Cima.
Xa uziva ngathi ukuthanda kwakho into kuyehla, thatha ixesha lokunqamula. Thatha uhambo okanye uchithe usuku kwesinye isixeko.
Oku kunqunyulwa kuya kukwenza ugcwalise kwakhona iibhetri zakho kwaye xa uqala umsebenzi wakho uya kuwenza ngentshiseko engakumbi. Yintoni egqithisile, Oku kunqunyulwa kunokuba ngumthombo wemibono emitsha yokwenza umsebenzi wakho okanye into oyithandayo.
5) Funda iiblogi okanye iincwadi malunga nento oyithandayo.
Isenzo esilula sokufunda sesele kukuthanda, kodwa Ukuba ufunda ngento onomdla kuyo, inkuthazo yakho iya kukhula ngaphakathi kwakho.
Namhlanje, enkosi kwi-Intanethi, kukho uninzi lweebhlog kunye neewebhusayithi kuwo nawuphi na umxholo owufunayo ke zama ukufumana ezo ngokuthanda kwakho.
Iibhloko kunye neencwadi zombini ziyimithombo yokhuthazo kuba bavula imithombo emitsha yolwazi, bakunike izimvo ezintsha kwaye bandise ubuchule bakho.
6) Thatha inxaxheba kwiforum ejongene nokuthanda kwakho.
Olu luhlobo olutsha lobudlelwane 2.0. Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho iqonga elinxulumene nokuzonwabisa kwakho evumela ukuba unxibelelane nabanye abasebenzisi kwaye udale ubudlelwane.
Kwezi foram ungabelana ngenkqubela-phambili yakho kwaye utshintshisane ngezimvo. Bangumthombo wengxelo oya kuthi emva koko wondle ukukhuthaza kwakho.
7) Sebenzisa iinethiwekhi zokunxibelelana ukunxibelelana nabantu abanomdla ofanayo.
I-Twitter kunye ne-Facebook ngumthombo obalaseleyo wokufumana abantu abanomdla ofana nowakho. kwaye banokongeza ixabiso ebomini bakho.
I-Twitter yintanethi ebalulekileyo yentlalo kum. Umxholo awulandeli abantu abaninzi, ngabantu abalungileyo kuphela kwaye ngubani owongeza ixabiso kuwe.
Ukuqhubeka nomzekelo wethu wokuzilolonga ukuze sifumane inkuthazo, singasebenzisa i-injini yokukhangela ye-Twitter ukufumana abantu ukuba basinike iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo xa kuziwa kwimithambo. Omnye waba bantu ubizwa USergio Peinado, Ndiyincoma kuwe.
Ewe, nazi ezi ngcebiso zokufumana, ukufumana kunye nokuhlala ukhuthazeka. Ukuba unazo naziphi na izimvo zokufaka igalelo, ungandishiyela ingxelo yakho.
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