Ukuxhatshazwa kwabafundi esikolweni, okwangoku okwaziwa ngokuba yi-Anglicism bullying, yingxaki echaphazela izigidi zabantwana ezikolweni kwaye nakumakhaya abo, kuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi ngokubanzi kuye kwabangela ukuba kuvele ezintsha iindidi zokuxhatshazwa ke bayaqhubeka nokuhlukumeza aba bancinci xa bekwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ke ngoko, apha ngezantsi siza kuyazi ingxaki ngcono kancinci ngelixa siza kuhlalutya ezona ntlobo ziqhelekileyo.
Ingxaki yokuxhatshazwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa
Ukuxhaphaza bekusoloko kubakho, ke umntu omnye okanye nangakumbi bahlukumeza okanye boyikise ixhoba ifumaneka kwimeko yesikolo. Nangona kunjalo, ekuhambeni kwexesha iguqukile yatshintshela kwinqanaba apho namhlanje, nge-intanethi, baqhubeka nokuhlukumeza naxa umntu omncinci eshiye isikolo.
Oku kwenza isiphumo sibe sibi ngakumbi xa kunokwenzeka, ukuze abasemagunyeni bagqibe kwelokuba baphangele ukuze bakhuthaze abantwana abaziva bephethwe gadalala ukuba baxele umxhaphazi wabo, ngaloo ndlela kuthintelwe ezona zinto zimbi zolu hlobo lokuziphatha.
Ukuxhaphaza kunokuchaphazela umntu kakubi, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngemeko yengqondo, kuba sijamelene nokuxhatshazwa apho umxhaphazi azondla ngokubandezeleka kwexhoba lakhe, ahlala ezama ngalo ukwenza umonakalo omkhulu kangangoko.
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba le ndlela yokuziphatha inokwenzeka; Eyokuqala kunye neyona ixhaphakileyo kukuba umntu ohluphayo uziva engaphantsi kwaye eneengxaki zokuzithemba, ke uzama ukubazifihla ngale ndlela yokuziphatha. Kuqhelekile ukuba umntu okuhlukumezayo abe nomona ngento enxulumene nalowo uxhatshazelweyo, ukuze ibe yimpindezelo yabo yento angayilawuliyo lowo uxhatshazwayo.
Kwelinye icala, kukwabonakala ngathi kuyangqinwa ukuba okukhona abazali beba noburhalarhume, kokukhona umntwana enokuphathwa gadalala, yinto exhaphakileyo ukufumana iintsapho ezingacwangciswanga okanye iintsapho ezineengxaki zobundlobongela bangaphakathi kwezi meko.
Ngokwesiqhelo, umxhaphazi unolwalamano olubi nabazali bakhe, ukongeza ekungahlali ethobela imithetho ecacileyo yokuhlalisana ekhayeni lakhe, emenza ukuba angaziva enoxanduva xa esenza ngale ndlela.
Ukuba awuthathi nto ngokukhawuleza, bobabini abalandelayo kunye nokuxhatshazwa banokuba neengxaki ezinzulu zengqondo ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwaye zinokukhokelela nasekuzibulaleni.
Kukwakho nezinye iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezinokuhlala ubomi babo bonke bexhoba, ukuze zikhule zinamathuba ambalwa kunye neendonga ezingaphezulu komntu ongazange wabethwa, ngaphezu kokubandezeleka, uxinzelelo, unxunguphalo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye neengxaki xa kuziwa ekuhlaleni kunye nokunxibelelana, okunefuthe elibi kubomi babo bokusebenza.
Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokuxhaphaza
Kodwa ukuze uyiqonde ngcono ingxaki yokuxhatshazwa, siza kubonisa ezona ntlobo zixhaphakileyo zokuxhaphaza zihlala zikhona kuluntu lwethu.
Ukuxhatshazwa komzimba
Luhlobo olubi kakhulu lokuxhaphaza apho kukho ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ngokubhekiselele kwixhoba, ukukwazi ukuba phakathi kwabantwana besini esahlukileyo okanye naphakathi kwabantwana besini esifanayo.
Idla ngokuzibonakalisa xa ixhoba linyanzelwa ukuba lenze izinto ezingalifuniyo, njengokuchukumisa iinxalenye ezithile zomzimba we-stalker, okanye i-stalker ngokwakhe ichukumise amalungu angasese exhoba, kunye nezinye izinto ezinje ngokunyanzela ixhoba ukuba liphuze umntu omlalelayo, kwaye limnyanzele nokuba abukele imovie kubantu abadala xa ungafuni ukuya.
Olu hlobo lokuhlukumeza luyingozi kakhulu, kuba lunokuchaphazela ixhoba ngokungalunganga nakubo bonke ubomi, kwaye linokubachaphazela ngakumbi kubudlelwane babo obusondeleyo ebudaleni.
Njengokuba kukuhlukumeza ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwesondo, ixhoba lisoloko lingabaxeleli abazali okanye abagcini balo nantoni na, ke kunzima ukuyifumana, ngakumbi xa isenzeka okanye iphuma esikolweni, kodwa ikude nolawulo lwabazali bayo.
Nangona kunjalo, umntu ophethwe lolu hlobo lokuxhaphaza uya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukungavumelani nomxhaphazi wabo, ukuze bangavumi ukuya esikolweni okanye benze imisebenzi ebebeyithanda ngaphambili.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni
Luhlobo lokuxhaphaza apho kukho into ebonakalayo ebonakalayo. Umntu ongcungcuthekisayo uziphatha ngendlela egadalala nesoyikisayo Phambi kwexhoba, ukufikelela kubundlongondlongo ngokukhaba, ukukhubeka, ukutyhala kunye nalo naluphi na uhlobo lokubetha kunye nezinye izinto zomzimba ezikhokelela ixhoba ukuba libe neentloni, njengokuhlisa iblukhwe kwikhefu, njl.
Olona hlobo luxhaphakileyo lokuxhaphaza, kwaye nangona ixhoba lingayichazi imeko leyo kubazali balo, kuba liyinto ebonakalayo, zihlala zibakho iimpawu kunye namanqaku emzimbeni wexhoba, ukuze ibe ngabo ialam xa iimeko ezinjalo.
Ukongeza, kunokubakho ezinye izinto ezinje ngeenyembezi kwimpahla, iimpahla zesikolo, njl.
Ukuxhatshazwa koluntu
Luhlobo olungangqalanga lokuxhaphaza, Oko kukuthi, kuhlala kusekwe kwi Ukujongelwa phantsi komntu othile (ixhoba) kodwa yonke into ihlala isenzeka ngasemva kwakhe. Injongo kukumcekisa nokumthintela ekuthatheni inxaxheba kwimisebenzi, kumenza angabikho xa ekho kwaye kukhokelela ekusasazeni amarhe obuxoki ukuze naye alahlwe ngawo onke amantombazana.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba olu hlobo lokuxhatshazwa luxhaphake kakhulu phakathi kwamantombazana kunaphakathi kwabafana.
Ngokubhekisele ekuphenduleni, ixhoba liya kuba lilolo ngakumbi, liza kuzisa ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo ngesiquphe, liyakuphepha ukwenza iqela nabanye oogxa balo, kwaye ngokubanzi liya kubonakala lisanda.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngamazwi
Ukuhlukumeza ngomlomo yinto eyenzeka ngaphandle kwendlela ebonakalayo, kodwa kuphela ngokusetyenziswa kwegama. Ukusoyikiswa, amabinzana athukayo anomxholo ophezulu wenkohlakalo, izoyikiso, ukuhlekisa ngemeko yabo yesini okanye ubuhlanga, ukukhubazeka okanye nayiphi na into eyenza ukuba ixhoba lahluke, njl.
Kule meko, indlela aziphethe ngayo umntwana iyatshintsha, kubonakale ngathi akekho ngakumbi kwaye kuya kusiba mandundu noburharha bakhe. Kuqhelekile kuye ukuba azinxweme kwiimeko apho kufuneka abe kunye nabantu abaninzi, kwaye ngokubanzi uyathotywa kwaye akazimisele kangako ukwenza imisebenzi de kube kutshanje kumnandi kakhulu.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethi
Ngokuphathelele ukuxhaphaza nge-intanethi, luhlobo lokuxhaphaza olusandula ukuvela kwaye olusekwe ngokusisiseko kunxibelelwano lwasentlalweni, kuba kungenxa yabo apho ukuxhatshazwa kwenzeka.
Inokunikwa nge-imeyile, kodwa rhoqo, istracker sisasaza amarhe obuxoki achaphazela ixhoba ngokungalunganga, ade abangele neengxaki ezinzulu zengqondo.
Kule meko, kunokubonwa ukuba ixhoba lichitha ixesha elininzi kwikhompyuter, kwaye xa ligqibile lilusizi kwaye linokuveza umfanekiso woxinzelelo. Kuqhelekile ukuba ube neengxaki zokulala, ngaphezu kokufuna ukuyeka ukwenza imisebenzi owawuyenza ngaphambili, uya kuvalwa ngakumbi, njl.
Ezi zezona ntlobo ziphambili zokuxhaphaza ekufuneka kujongwane nazo kuluntu lwanamhlanje, ukuze umntu ngamnye kuthi anoxanduva lokuthintela umntwana ekuchaphazelweni kakubi ziingxaki nokuziphatha komxhaphazi. Bobabini ootitshala, abazali kunye nabazali babanye abantwana kunye nabo bafunda nabo, sonke singenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukufumana kunye nokulungisa olu hlobo lokuziphatha. ngaphambi kokuba ihambe kakhulu, oko kuthintela ukuba umonakalo ungapheli nokuba lixesha lokudla kwexhoba.
Ndikufumanisa kunika umdla, oku kusasazeka, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kwenzeka ngakumbi kwi-IE nganye, amaxesha amaninzi ootitshala okanye abaniniyo, banomdla wokwenza imali kuphela, ngaphandle kokuqaphela okwenzekayo macala onke.
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