Iincwadi zokuzinceda zibaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke abantu abasebenza yonke imihla ekukhuleni kwabo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, sisixhobo esinamandla, indlela yokufumana izitshixo zokuthatha loo manyathelo uwafunayo kwindlela yobomi. Kuba kumaxesha amaninzi ebomini, kuqhelekile ngathi ukuziva ngathi asikho ekhondweni elifanelekileyo, oko Singathanda ukutshintsha iinkalo ezithile zobomi bethu okanye asenzi okusemandleni ethu.
Umiselwe ukuba ushiye uphawu olubalulekileyo kweli lizwe, kuba umntu wakho kunye nobomi bakho zibalulekile kubantu abaninzi oya kuthi udibane nabo ebomini bakho bonke. Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu babe nobunzima ekububoneni obu buchule bebodwa, xa izinto zingahambi ngendlela yakho, bathambekele ekucingeni ukuba bahamba kwihlabathi ngaphandle kweentlungu okanye uzuko.
Nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye yimvakalelo eqhelekileyo, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba esandleni sakho sisakhono sokusebenza ukuphucula okanye ukutshintsha ezo zinto ungonelisekanga ngazo ebomini bakho. Nangona kunjalo, sonke siyaludinga uncedo kwizihlandlo ezininzi ukuze sikwazi ukoyisa kwaye sijongane nala matye amancinci (okanye makhulu) esiqubisana nawo apha endleleni.
Kubo bonke abo bazifumana bekule meko, okanye kwabo bafuna ukukhula nje njengabantu. Kwaye nakwabo bangakwaziyo okanye abangafuniyo ukunyanga iingcali ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, ukuba neencwadi zokuzinceda sisixhobo esibalulekileyo.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kweli phepha ebizwa recursos de autoayuda, besingenakuba necandelo elinikezelwe ngokukodwa kwiincwadi zokuzinceda. Kuba wonke umntu uyazi ngobukho bayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye bathethile nawe okanye bacebisa incwadi yokuzinceda ngumbhali odumileyo wolu hlobo. Kungenzeka ukuba uyigcinile ngokukrokrela, kuba ungenzi mpazamo, ukufunda incwadi, nokuba inomdla kangakanani, ayizukujika ibe ngummangaliso ukuba awusebenzisi iikhonsepthi ezifunyenwe kuyo.
Xa ufunda incwadi yokuzinceda, kuya kufuneka uyenze ngengqondo evulekileyo kwaye uzimisele ukufumana iingcebiso kuyo ukuze ungafumani nto ibalulekileyo okanye ungayifumani. Njengokuba ufunda incwadi ngaso nasiphi na esinye isihloko, awungekhe uwuthande umxholo, ukuboniswa okanye ubuntu babalinganiswa, zisenokungathandeki. Zonke iincwadi azenzelwe wonke umntu.
Kuko oku kulunge komntu, ukwahluka kwezimvo kunye nokuthanda, okusenza sikhethe abanye abantu njengamaqabane obomi, simamele umculo abanye abantu abawuthiyileyo okanye abanxibe ngohlobo oluthile oluhambelana nobuntu bethu, hayi njalo njengase next door. Ngokuqinisekileyo, zininzi iincwadi zokuzinceda kwaye baninzi ababhali abazinikele kwesi sihloko, ukuze kube nzima ukukufumanela incwadi efanelekileyo, okanye umbhali osondeleyo kwinto oyifunayo ngawo onke amaxesha.
Ngenxa yoko, kwi recursos de autoayuda sikwenzela wena loo msebenzi kwaye kweli candelo leeNcwadi, uya kufumana izindululo malunga neencwadi zokuzinceda kuzo zonke iintlobo zeeprofayili. Unokufumana izihloko ezikhoyo ngoku, iindaba zamva nje, ezona klasiki zithengisa kakhulu kwiminyaka yakutshanje. Kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kweli xesha litsha apho ukufunda kutyalo-mali lwexesha ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukufumana, sinee-audiobooks ezenza lo msebenzi ube lula kakhulu. Ke yintoni, unokumamela incwadi oyifunayo ngelixa usenza eminye imisebenzi, ngelixa usenza imidlalo, usiya emsebenzini okanye ngokulula ngelixa uphumle ekhaya. Ukonwabela ukufunda.
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