Fumanisa ukuba Iincwadi zokuZinceda zinokubuguqula njani ubomi bakho

Los iincwadi zokuncedisa Zizixhobo ezibalulekileyo ze Uphuhliso lweemvakalelo, ngengqondo y siqu. Olu hlobo loncwadi lwenzelwe ukubonelela ngezicwangciso, iingcinga kunye neengcebiso ezisebenzayo zokukunceda woyise ubunzima, uphucule intlalontle kwaye ufikelele eyakho iinjongo. Ngokufunda ezi ncwadi, unokufumana ukuzithemba, ufumane iimbono ezintsha ngobomi, kwaye ufunde ubuchule obuya kukuvumela ukuba ujamelane nocelomngeni lwemihla ngemihla ngokuzola okukhulu.

Kwihlabathi eligcweleyo uxinzelelo, ukungaqiniseki y utshintsho olukhawulezayo, iincwadi zokuzinceda zisinika ikhusi lobulumko nokhokelo. Ukongeza, ziyindlela ebalaseleyo yokuphonononga ubungaphakathi bakho kwaye unxibelelane nemiba yobomi bakho onokuthi awuzange uyithathele ingqalelo ngaphambili.

1) Ngaba iincwadi zokuzinceda ngokwenene zinokukunceda?

Kwiishelufa zeevenkile zeencwadi sifumana iindidi ezininzi iincwadi zokuncedisa: ukusuka kwezo zibhalwe ngababhali abavunyiweyo ukuya kwimisebenzi engaziwayo kodwa exabiseke ngokulinganayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze incwadi ibe luncedo ngokwenene, kufuneka uqwalasele imiba ephambili:

• Khetha umbhali owaziwayo: Nangona ungafanele ubakhuphele ngaphandle ababhali abatsha, kuyakhethwa ukuba uqale ngemisebenzi iingcali kulo mba ukuqinisekisa umgangatho womxholo.
• Khetha isihloko esifanelekileyo: Chonga iindawo zobomi bakho ekufuneka usebenze kuzo, nokuba kukuzixabisa, ulawulo lweemvakalelo okanye ukuziphucula. Oku kuya kukunceda ufumane incwadi eyiyo.
• Funda ngengqondo evulekileyo: Ukuphumelela kweencwadi zokuzinceda kuxhomekeke ubukhulu becala ekukulungeleni kwakho ukusebenzisa oko ukufundayo. Ukuba ufunda ngokuthandabuza, awuzukuzifumana iziphumo ozilindeleyo.

Umba obalulekileyo kukufunda ukwahlula phakathi kweencwadi ezibonelela ngexabiso kunye nezo zithembisayo izisombululo zomlingo. Khumbula ukuba utshintsho lobuqu lufuna umgudu nokuzinikela.

2) Ukuzola kunye nenkampani kuwo onke amaphepha

Enye yeenzuzo ezinkulu ze iincwadi zokuncedisa kukukwazi kwakho ukunikela Consuelo ngamaxesha obunzima. Ngexesha lamaxesha ukungaqiniseki, uxinzelelo o lusizi, le misebenzi inokusebenza njengomhlobo ongathethiyo okukhokelayo nokuthuthuzelayo.

Incwadi elungileyo yokuzinceda inamandla oku:

• Guqula iingcinga zakho: Guqula isimo sengqondo esingenathemba ukuze ube nembono enethemba ngakumbi kunye nesisombululo esijolise kwizisombululo.
• Nikela ngezicwangciso ezisebenzayo: Ukusuka kwiindlela zokuphumla ukuya kwimithambo yengqondo, le misebenzi ikubonelela ngezixhobo zokwenyani zokulawula iimvakalelo zakho.
• Khuthaza ukuzijonga: Amaxesha amaninzi, kufuneka sime kwaye sicinge ngezigqibo kunye neemvakalelo zethu. Iincwadi zokuzinceda zisimema ukuba senjenjalo.

Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ezi ncwadi ngengqondo evumayo. Ukuba uzifunda ngesimo sengqondo sokugxeka okanye ukungazithembi, kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuxhamla kwiimfundiso zazo.

3) Iincwadi zokuzinceda njengempembelelo kwindlela yokuziphatha entsha

Ukufunda iincwadi zokuzinceda akupheleli nje ekucamngceni; Ikwafuna ukukukhuthaza ukuba wenze. Le misebenzi ikukhuthaza ukuba ulandele imikhwa emitsha, phucula ukusebenzisana kwakho nabanye kwaye ujongane neengxaki ngendlela eyakhayo.

Ngokomzekelo, umntu onengxaki yokuzixabisa unokuzuza kwiindlela ezichazwe kwiincwadi ezifana ne "Iindawo zakho ezimbi» nguWayne Dyer, ngelixa umntu ojongene nexhala anokufumana izixhobo kwi «Amandla ngoku» nguEckhart Tolle. Izinto ezinokwenzeka azipheli.

Ukusuka amanyathelo alula ukusuka ekulungiseleleni ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ukuya kwiindlela eziphambili zokuguqula ingqondo yakho, iincwadi zokuzinceda zikufundisa oko utshintsho Kuyenzeka kwaye kufikeleleke kuye nabani na ozimisele ukuzama.

4) Iingcebiso: iincwadi ezibalulekileyo

Ukutyhubela iminyaka, iincwadi ezininzi ziye zabalasela njengeembekiselo kumbandela wokuzinceda. Apha ngezantsi, sibonisa uluhlu lwezihloko ezibalulekileyo ezitshintshe ubomi babantu:

1. Iindawo zakho ezimbi nguWayne Dyer: Iklasikhi ejongene nendlela yokuchonga kunye nokoyisa iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha okukhawulela ulonwabo lwakho.
2. Ukufuna Komntu Ngentsingiselo nguViktor Frankl: Umsebenzi odibanisa ifilosofi, isayikholoji kunye namava ombhali ukuze ahlolisise indlela yokufumana injongo yobomi.
3. Amandla ngoku nguEckhart Tolle: Le ncwadi ikumema ukuba uphile ngokupheleleyo ngoku kwaye ushiye amaxhala kunye nokuzisola ngasemva.
4. Izivumelwano ezine nguMiguel Ruiz: Ngokusekwe kubulumko beToltec, ikufundisa imigaqo yokuba uphile ubomi obuyinyani nobukhululekileyo.
5. ubukrelekrele beemvakalelo nguDaniel Goleman: Ufundo olubalulekileyo lokuqonda nokulawula iimvakalelo zakho ngokufanelekileyo.

Ezi ncwadi azinamdla nje kuphela kodwa zikwabonelela ngendlela esebenzayo nesebenzayo. Ukuba ujonge ezinye iingcebiso, zikhululeke ukujonga icandelo lethu ezona ncwadi zibalaseleyo zokuzinceda.

Ukuhlolisisa olu hlobo loncwadi kunokuvula iingcango zokukhula kobuqu ngokungalindelekanga. Iincwadi zokuzinceda aziboneleli kuphela ngezixhobo ezixabisekileyo zokuphucula imiba ethile yobomi bakho, kodwa zikwakukhuthaza ukuba ubone ubukho ngokukhanyiselwa ngakumbi nangembono elungileyo.