Ukuthetha ngezifo ezingapheliyo ngokuqinisekileyo kusikhokelela ekubeni sicinge ngezigulana ezithwaxwa zizo, abo kufuneka bajamelane nobunzima kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, inyaniso ebuhlungu. Noko ke, kukho imbono engafane ifumane ingqwalasela eyifaneleyo: imekobume yomguli. Abantu abathi, kunokuba babe ngababukeli nje, babe abadlali abangundoqo, ukuhamba kunye nokuxhasa isigulane kumzabalazo wabo wemihla ngemihla ngelixa bejongene noloyiko lwabo kunye nokungaqiniseki.
Incwadi "Iimvakalelo ezivaliweyo: amava ali-12 kunye nabagula kakhulu", ihlanganiswe ngu UManuel Salgado Fernandez kwaye yapapashwa phantsi kwendlu yopapasho yeCírculo Rojo, isinika indlela eyodwa kwesi sihloko, sihlola amava osapho, abahlobo kunye nabanonopheli yezigulane ezinezifo ezingapheliyo. Ngokuqulunqa amabali alishumi elinesibini ayinyaniso, alungiselelwe ngababhali abahlukeneyo, lo msebenzi ufuna ukunika ukubonakala, ilizwikwaye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuqonda, kwabo bakhapha isigulane kulo lonke uhambo lwabo.
Imbono eyahlukileyo: ukwenza amava okusingqongileyo abe ngumntu
Kuya kuxhaphaka ngakumbi ukufumana imisebenzi yoncwadi okanye yezemfundo egxile kumava esigulane. Nangona kunjalo, yintoni eyahlula "i-Emociones Cercanas" sisigqibo sayo sokugxila kwingxelo kwi iimvakalelo, iingcinga kunye nemingeni yamalungu osapho kunye nabanonopheli. La mava, ngokwawo, ngumzabalazo ofanayo, okholisa ukwenzeka ngokungaziwa kodwa obalulekileyo mgangatho wobomi kunye nempilo-ntle yomguli.
Le ncwadi isibonisa indlela okusingqongileyo kwesigulana okudlala ngayo indima yenkxaso yolungiselelo kuphela, kodwa nenkxaso yeemvakalelo, ukuba ilitye lembombo nto leyo edla ngokumomeleza umntu ogulayo xa ejamelene nobunzima. Ke ngoko, iba lufundo olutyebisayo abo banomdla wokuqonda impembelelo yeemvakalelo ezivelisa izifo ezingapheliyo kungekuphela nje kwabo bajongene nazo ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa nakwabangqongileyo. Umsebenzi, ngeendlela ezininzi, kukuqaphela ukuzinikela kunye nokomelela kwakhe.
Yintoni eyenza "Iimvakalelo eziValekileyo" zodwa?
Enye yeempawu eziphawulekayo zalo msebenzi yifomathi yayo: amabali alishumi elinambini ayinyani ezibonisa intlaninge yamava neemvakalelo. Ibali ngalinye, eliphuhliswe ngumbhali owahlukileyo, liza nalo imbono eyodwa, iphucula ibali elipheleleyo lale ncwadi.
Izimbo zoncwadi ezikhoyo kumabali zisusela kwinkcazo eneenkcukacha ukuya kwiindlela zokubalisa eziguqukayo, ezinje ngoonobumba okanye iincoko ezingeyonyani kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Umzekelo, ibali elinesihloko @JULIA34 isebenzisa ulwimi lwangoku oluvelisa incoko kuTwitter, inikela umbono ohlaziyiweyo kwaye iyafikeleleka kumfundi wale mihla.
Le yantlukwano yesimbo yenza ukuba umsebenzi ube lula kwaye uhluke, uvumela umfundi ukuba akonwabele ibali ngalinye njengelincinci. "micronovel" ezizimeleyo kwaye, ngelo xesha, idityaniswe yintambo eqhelekileyo uvelwano kunye nenkxaso.
Amabali: imbonakalo yobomi ngokwabo
Incwadi yahlulwe yaba izahluko ezilishumi elinambini, nganye igxininisa ebalini. La mabali abandakanya izihloko zeemvakalelo ezifana "Indlela yethemba", "Ndive iCarnation", kwaye "Injongo kukuphila". Ngabo, izihloko ezifana ukwamkelwa kokuxilongwa, umthwalo ongokweemvakalelo wabanyamekelayo, namandla ethemba nakwezona zihlandlo zimnyama.
Ngaphaya koko, umsebenzi ugqamile ngokunika umyalezo ocacileyo: ayisiyo "ngoma yethemba" ngendlela eqhelekileyo, kodwa. imbeko kubomi ngokwabo. Umfundi ufumana iingcamango ezinzulu ezimema ukuba axabise uloyiso oluncinci lwemihla ngemihla, ukwamkela okwangoku kwaye ufumane induduzo kunye namandla ekudibaneni kwabantu.
Uqingqo-maxabiso kunye nokufaneleka kwangoku
Kwimeko yehlabathi apho izifo ezingapheliyo zichaphazela inani elikhulayo labantu, iincwadi ezinjenge "Emociones Cercanas" zibaluleke kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Njenge abantu abalupheleyo kwaye izifo ezingapheliyo ziba yinxalenye ebonakalayo yoluntu lwethu, kubalulekile ukuqonda kunye nokunxibelelana ngamava ezigulane zombini kunye nokusingqongileyo.
Omnye wemiba yeemvakalelo yencwadi kukukwazi ukunxibelelana nomfundi, kubenza bathathe inxaxheba ku i-rollercoaster yeemvakalelo ukusuka kusizi kunye nokungabinakuzinceda ukuya kwithemba kunye nombulelo. Amabali adlulisa umyalezo wokuba, nangona isifo singenakuguqulwa, sihlala sifumaneka ukukhanya phakathi kobunzima.
Kumalungu entsapho nabanyamekeli abasenokuba bakwimeko efanayo, “Iimvakalelo Ezisondeleyo” inikela intuthuzelo nemvo yomanyano. Kwabanye abafundi, inika a ifestile exabisekileyo ngokubhekiselele kwinyani mhlawumbi abangazange bayiqwalasele nzulu.
Iinkcukacha zobugcisa kunye nendlela yokuthenga ngayo
Le ncwadi inentshayelelo kaRubén Rodríguez Duarte kunye nentsebenziswano yababhali abafana noMª Carmen Rodríguez Matute, uRaúl Rando González, uMª Carmen Ledesma Martín, phakathi kwabanye. Yapapashwa nguMhleli uCírculo Rojo kwingqokelela ye "Self-help" kwaye ifumaneka phantsi kwe-ISBN: 978-84-9030-691-8.
Abo banomdla banokuthenga umsebenzi nge-imeyile: cairys10@cairys.es.
Ukongeza, le anthology yoncwadi inika ithuba elihle lokwandisa ulwazi malunga ne izifo ezingapheliyo kunye nokubaluleka kokusingqongileyo kwindlela eya ekwamkelweni, ukomelela kunye nokomelela kweemvakalelo.
“Iimvakalelo Ezisondeleyo” asiyoncwadi nje; yi isimemo sokubonisa, ukuqonda kunye nokuxabisa indima yabo bakhaphayo kwezona zihlandlo zinzima. La maphepha athatha undoqo wobomi ngokwabo, edibanisa izigulane kunye nabakhathaleli kuhambo olwabelanayo lokufunda, uthando kunye namandla.