Umama uphulukana nokubona kwaye awusaboni mdaka phantsi ekhitshini. Kwimeko yakho oku kuyanceda kuba kukuvumela ukuba uphumle kwaye ungakhathazeki ngayo yonke into yothuli.
Uthando lunempembelelo efanayo kunye noluncedo. Isivumela ukuba siphumle kwaye kusenza singaboni iimpazamo nokungafezeki kwabanye. Xa sigqiba kwelothando, singayeka ukugweba abantu endaweni yoko sixabise ubuhle babo. Abo bathanda banjengabazali kwihlabathi okanye kungangcono ukuba bathi ngootatomkhulu noomakhulu, kuba ootatomkhulu noomakhulu bathanda ukungagxeki. Into efunwa lihlabathi ngumkhosi wootatomkhulu noomakhulu abaya kuthi babuyise ukuzithemba kumntu ngamnye.
Siza kuthatha ntoni nathi kuhambo lwethu lokugqibela? Kucacile ukuba azinakuba zizinto eziphathekayo. Njengokuba iinqwelomoya zibeka umda kubunzima bempahla kwaye isiqu semoto sinomda omiselweyo, esibhakabhakeni kukwakhona nomda wendawo. Kodwa uthando alulinganisi okanye luthathe indawo.
Uthando alufi kwaye ayikhawulelwanga kubukho bomzimba wenyama. Xa umzimba unyamalala, uthando lwethu luhamba nathi naphina apho umoya wethu, umphefumlo wethu kunye neengcinga zethu ziya khona, kodwa zihlala kubomi babo sibathandayo. Uthando ngamandla kwaye aluphelelwanga yimithetho elawula izinto eziphathekayo okanye ngexesha. Ke ungayithatha uhambe nayo, kwangaxeshanye, uyiyeke.
Uthando yi ibhulorho phakathi kwelizwe labaphilayo kunye nelabafileyo.
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Lo mbhalo uvela kwincwadi kaBernie S. Siegel, Iingcebiso zokuphila ngolonwabo (Mhl. Oniro)
Ukugqiba eli nqaku ndiza kukushiya nge ividiyo:
Yonwabele!