Amava

Ubomi benziwe ngamava, kuwo onke loo mava avela apha endleleni kwaye akwenze ukuba ulandele enye indlela okanye enye. Ezinye zazo zikhethiweyo kwaye zinokuba nokuhle okanye ukungalunganga, ezinye kwelinye icala, aziqikeleleki kwaye zinokuvela nanini na. Nangona kunjalo, onke amava aphilileyo anentsingiselo, ukufunda. Zombini ezo zikushiya nenkumbulo elungileyo, kunye nezo zikonzakalisayo kwaye zibangele ukuba ungakwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile. Kungenxa yokuba, ekugqibeleni, nganye nganye yenziwe ngala mathuba aqokelelekayo kule minyaka idlulileyo.

Amava anokubangela ukwaliwa, ukuziva unetyala kunye neemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ezingasenzakalisiyo. Ngesi sizathu, sihlala sifihla kubunzulu bememori yethu la mava asibangela iintloni okanye ukubandezeleka ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, la mava ayinxalenye yobomi kwaye ngandlela thile, kufuneka isetyenziswe kuphuhliso lomntu.

Endaweni yokufihla ezo mvakalelo, sinokwamkela ukuba la mava asiphawulile kwaye siyile nto siyiyo sinombulelo kubo. Funda uku Ukurhoxa kwabo kubalulekile ukuze inkumbulo yezo meko, bavelisa imvakalelo elungileyo endaweni yokungathandi. Umzekelo, ukuba kwinkumbulo yakho unamava akubangele ukuba ube neentlungu ezinkulu kwaye inkumbulo kuphela ebangela ukubandezeleka, ungawuguqula ube ngamava owafunda kuwo Ke, ukubandezeleka okwenziwa ngala mava kuyancipha kwaye, ekugqibeleni, kuyanceda ukuba uphume enkathazweni kwaye uqhubeke.

Abanye abantu banakho ukusebenzisa eli thuba kwaye bafunde kumava obomi. Oko kukuthi, bafunda ukuphinda babonakalise amava abo. ukuze babe zizixhobo zokufunda, endaweni yamatye okuthintela ukuba ungahambi ngaphambili. Abo bantu bagqiba ekubeni babelane ngala mava ngamanye amaxesha babalulekile kwabanye abantu. Kuba ngamava abanye, umntu unokuziva echongiwe kwaye afumane impendulo kwimibuzo ethile ekunzima ukuyiphendula.

Kungenxa yokuba akufani nokubona imovie esazi ukuba omnye umntu ungumlinganiswa, kunokuba ube nakho kumntu wokuqala. Nangona amava afana, ukuziva uchongiwe nomnye umntu kuhlala kuyikhonkco, amandla anokukutsalela ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Ukuba loo mntu ukwazile ukoyisa loo meko, nawe uzakuba njalo, kwaye sonke siyabulela ngento yokuba umntu othile ebenakho ukwabelana ngamava abo.

Oko nokunye okuninzi onokukufumana kula maphepha, amava kunye namava abanye abantu anokubakhuthaza okanye abakhuthaze. Abantu abaninzi basebenzisa amava abanye abantu ukwenza isenzo esithile. Kuba ukungazi kubangela ukungazithembi, kodwa ukwazi ukuba omnye umntu wenze okufanayo, kukunceda ususe into emangazayo, kukwenza uzive ukulungele ngakumbi okuzayo.

Yonke le nto sikuxelela yona kweli candelo, kuba ukufunda kumava akho, kunye nalawo ahlala abanye abantu, kunjalo isixhobo sokufunda kunye nokuziphendukela komntu. Ukuba into oyikhangelayo kukukhula kwakho, uzazi ngcono ukuba uzisebenzele kwaye ufumane olona hlobo lubalaseleyo lwakho, indlela iyafunda.

Funda ukuxabisa imiba ethile onayo ebomini kwaye ungazi ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani. Funda ukuzixabisa, sebenza ngokuzithanda, ubuntu, izinto ezintle ezikwenza ubalasele, ngumsebenzi ontsonkothileyo ongapheliyo.

Amava akho anexabiso elithile ebomini bakho, Sifundisa ukuba ube nengqondo kwezinye zazo ukuze uzamkele njengenxalenye yakho. Kungenxa yokuba kuphela emva koko oya kuthi uzamkele njengoko unjalo kwaye uya kuba nakho ukuphucula le miba ungaziva wanelisekile yiyo.