Kule veki bendihlekiswa kakhulu sisibhengezo sevithamini kootitshala.
Ngokwesiqubulo esithi, "Bayakusebenzela xa usidinga." Ngokuqinisekileyo kubonakala ngathi yinto enkulu kum, ukuba yayiyinyani. Kodwa yonke imihla ndiqinisekile ukuba amandla akuwe. Amandla akuyo nganye kuthi hayi kwimithombo yangaphandle.
Kuyinyani ukuba yonke imihla sifumana iziselo esinamandla kunye nezongezelelo kwiivenkile ezikhethekileyo nakwiivenkile ezinkulu xa sisezantsi.
Andinanto ngokuchasene nabo, kodwa kubonakala kum ngathi ngokwabo azisebenzi kwaphela, kuba enyanisweni, njengoko u-Edgar Torres eqinisekisa, "Iyeza bubugcisa bokuphazamisa isigulana, ngelixa indalo iyasiphilisa". Ibinzana endilithandayo nelicacisa gca ukuba ndiyithatha njengenyaniso enamandla.
Iyeza alinampembelelo imangalisayo kwaye, ke, isimo sengqondo kunye nokuzimisela kwabo bathatha la mayeza kubalulekile ekuphuculeni nasekuphiliseni inkqubo.
Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu bandixelela ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba ungawakhulisa njani amandla kunye namandla esiwathweleyo ngaphakathi ukuze singabi phantsi. Ndibaphendula ndithini: ungamcingela umsasazi weendaba ezixinezelekileyo? Abo benza imibuzo babonisa, kutheni usoloko ubabona bencumile kwaye bonwabile? Ke ngoko, ukuba banako, nathi sinako. Umcimbi wokuziqhelanisa nokuzimisela. Ndicebisa uthotho lweembono ukufezekisa oku:
1.- Ingxoxo yangaphakathi.
Kubalulekile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sibe nexesha lokumamelana kunye nokuthetha ngeemvakalelo zethu. Sisindululo endihlala ndisenza: Thetha ngeemvakalelo zakho. Xa wonwabile buza kutheni? Kuyafana xa bedanile kwaye bedandathekile. Ukuba sichonga iindawo ezibuthathaka nezomeleleyo zangaphakathi, siya kuba nakho ukuphucula ezinye size siziphelise ezinye.
2.- Yiba nemantra, ukuchama okanye umqondiso.
Kufanele ukuba ibe libinzana elifutshane, nelingaguquguqukiyo ekufuneka siliphindaphinda xa siqaphela ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Inokuba libinzana elilungileyo elisincedayo. Yindlela yokuxelela "i-hard drive yethu" ukucima loo fayile. Ngokwam, njengoko ndiyithanda kakhulu ikhompyuter, into endiyithandayo kukucinga ngekhibhodi esemoyeni okanye etafileni, apho ndicofa khona amaqhosha «Ctrl + alt + del», njengoko usazi, xa ndisenza oku kwifayile I yicime ngokuqinisekileyo ngaphandle kokuya kumgqomo wokuphinda usebenzise. Yindlela yokuphelisa ingcinga, imvakalelo, incoko ekhathazayo engakhokeleli ndawo, endifuna ukuyilahla.
3.- Uqeqesho.
Yonke into ifuna umgudu. Akukho mdlali okanye oyingcali olungileyo emsebenzini wakhe ukusukela namhlanje ukuya ngomso. Ukuba nethemba, ngamandla elungileyo ayisiyonto ifezekisiweyo kwiintsuku ezimbini. Ifuna uqeqesho kunye noqeqesho. Ke ngoko, kufuneka siziqeqeshe yonke imihla "kulonwabo." Ke, unyango olulungileyo kukumomotheka, ukuba phambi kwesipili, kungcono. Ukuba neqela leengoma ezisinceda siphakamise umoya wethu kwaye sizisebenzise, yenza le nto siyithandayo, nokuba yeyokwexeshana nje.
4.- Kulumkele abantu abanetyhefu.
Kuqala kufuneka simke kwabo bantu bangasiniki vibes ezilungileyo, abanganikeli galelo kuyo nayiphi na into elungileyo, abasoloko bekwimeko embi. Kuyinyani ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, kuba bengamalungu osapho okanye abantu esisebenza nabo, asinakho ukubaphepha ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukuthatha umgama kwaye kamva, xa sinamandla ethu "kwelona liphezulu" sinokubuyela kolo lwalamano.
5.- Jonga abantwana.
Bonwabile. Banokonwaba kancinci okanye akukho nto bayonwabileyo. Zicacile, bonwabile. Benza ntoni ukuze bahlale bonwabile kwaye begcwele amandla? Qaphela kwaye uxelise isimo sabo sengqondo, bangumthombo omkhulu wamandla. Chitha ixesha kunye nabo kwaye wonwabe, uzama ukufumana kuwe into onayo njengomntwana kwaye uyiphucule.
Nangona kunjalo, andichasani nezongezelelo zevithamini, okanye iziselo zamandla. Andizithathi. Kodwa ndiyazivumela ukuba ndikhumbule ibinzana, ngenxa yesiphatho sam, esi siqalo esiqale ngaso: "Amayeza bubugcisa bokonwabisa isigulana ngelixa sinyanga". Ke ngoko, isimo sethu sengqondo sesona simisela ukuba ingaba isiselo esinxilisayo, isiselo okanye iyeza lineziphumo ezingaphezulu okanye ezingaphantsi.
Amandla akuyo nganye kuthi. Amandla akuwe.
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