Ngaphezulu kwe-300 ucaphulo lokuzithemba ukuphakamisa umoya wakho kwaye uzithande ngakumbi

Ngamanye amaxesha asikho kwisimo sengqondo okanye sinokuzithemba okuphantsi, okunokuthi kube nefuthe elibi kwimisebenzi yethu yemihla ngemihla kunye nendlela esinxulumana ngayo nabanye. Indlela esithetha ngayo nathi, indlela esizijonga ngayo esipilini, okanye indlela esitolika ngayo okwenzekayo kuthi ichaphazela ngokunzulu impilo-ntle yethu. Ngoko ke, siye sahlanganisa ezininzi amabinzana okuzithemba oko kunokukunika ukutyhala ukuze uqhubeke xa uyifuna kakhulu.

Kweli nqaku uza kufumana Amabinzana okunyusa ukuzithemba kunye nokunyusa umoyaImiyalezo yokuqinisa ukuzithanda, izimvo zokukhuthaza umhlobo, umntwana okanye nabani na otyhubela ixesha elinzima, kunye neengcebiso ezisebenzayo ukuze la mabinzana angahlali nje amagama amahle, kodwa abe sisixhobo sokwenyani sokutshintsha kwangaphakathi.

Phakathi kwezicatshulwa oza kuzibona kukho amagama asuka kuwo bantu abadumile Ukususela kwimbali, ababhali abakhokelayo kwisayikholoji, amanani avela kwihlabathi lobugcisa nezemidlalo, kunye nemiboniso engaziwa eshwankathela ngokugqibeleleyo iimvakalelo ezininzi esiye saziva sonke ngaxa lithile.

Umbono kukuba ungasebenzisa la mabinzana ukuze thumela kwimidiya yakho yoluntuZithumele kumntu ofuna ukumkhuthaza okanye uziphinde yonke imihla njengeziqinisekiso ezincinci zokuzithanda. Ukuba ujonge isicatshulwa esikukhumbuza ngexabiso lakho, le ngqokelela yeyakho.

Eyona binzana lokuzithemba

Uluhlu lwe amabinzana okuphakamisa ukuzithemba Ibandakanya izicatshulwa ezikhuthazayo, imiyalezo yokuziphucula, ukucinga ngokuzithanda, kunye nezikhumbuzo zokubaluleka kwakho. Le yimixholo sigxile kakhulu kule blog kuba siyazi ukuba ukuba a ukuzithemba okunempilo Sisiseko esiphambili phantse kuyo yonke enye into: ubudlelwane, umsebenzi, impilo yengqondo, kunye namaphupha omntu.

La mabinzana ahamba kunye nemifanekiso, ene inkululeko epheleleyo yokwabelana Naphi na apho ufuna khona. Unokuzisebenzisa njengephepha lodonga, njengamabali eendaba ezentlalo, njengomyalezo kumntu omthandayo, okanye njengesikhumbuzo esibonakalayo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba ujonge isicatshulwa esithile onokuthi usithumele okanye ufuna nje ukonyusa umoya wakho, uya kukufumana kule ngqokelela.

Ngaphambi kokungena kuluhlu, khumbula into ebalulekileyo: Amabinzana ayingomlingoBasebenza ngokwenene xa uqala zidibanise kwingxoxo yakho yangaphakathiXa uzivumela ukuba ukholelwe kuwe kancinci kwaye xa uhamba nabo kunye neempawu ezincinci, ezihambelanayo (ukuzinyamekela, ukubeka imida, ukubhiyozela impumelelo yakho ...). Zifunde kancinane, khetha izinto ozithandayo, kwaye uziphindaphinde yonke imihla njengomsebenzi wokuzikhathalela.

• Buya kwahluka njani ubomi bakho ukuba uyekile ukuvumela abanye abantu ukuba batyhefe usuku ngamazwi okanye ngeengcinga zabo! Masibe namhlanje lusuku. Yima uqinile kwinyani yobuhle bakho kunye nohambo losuku lwakho ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuqinisekiswa ngabanye. - USteve Maraboli.
• Ndikhetha ukunyaniseka kum, ndazi nokuba abanye banokuhlekisa ngam, kunokuba babe ngamanga, kwaye ndizenyanye. -UFrederick Douglass.
• Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kufana nokuqhuba ebomini kunye ne-brake yokupaka. -UMaxwell Maltz.
• Ngubani ojonga ngaphandle, amaphupha: ngubani ojonga ngaphakathi, avuke. - UCarl Gustav Jung.
• Ndifanele yonke into endenza ndikhule njengomntu kwaye ndonwabe. -UWalter Risso.
• Kuyo yonke imigibe ebomini, ukunqongophala kokuzithemba yeyona nto inzima kwaye kunzima ukuyinqoba, kuba iyilelwe zizandla zakho kwaye ijolise kwingcinga: Ayikufanelanga, andikwazi ukuyenza. -UMaxwell Malt.
• Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kufana nokuqhuba ebomini ngesandla sakho esaphukileyo. -UMaxwell Maltz.
• Andizange ndithande omnye umntu ngendlela endizithanda ngayo. - Mae West.
• Umrhwebi okrelekrele akalwi nabantu akhuphisana nabo. Umsebenzi onengqiqo akababeki phantsi abo basebenza naye. Ke, ungababethi abahlobo bakho. Musa ukubetha iintshaba zakho. Musa ukuzibetha. - UAlfred Lord Tennyson.
• Andizamkeli ngokupheleleyo ezinye zezinto endizenzileyo, kodwa sele kunjalo. Ndim. UThixo uyazi ukuba ndim. -U-Elizabeth Taylor.
• Abantu abafuna ukuvunywa ngakumbi bafumana okuncinci kwaye abantu abafuna ukuvunywa kancinci bafumana okungakumbi. -UWayne Dyer.
• Xa uqhagamshele kumthombo oqhelekileyo kunye nomnye umntu ngencoko, ukucamngca, ukudlala nabantwana bakho, zonke ezi zinto zezinto xa ukuzithemba kwakho kunyuka. -UJack Canfield.
• Indoda ayinakukhululeka ngaphandle kwemvume yayo. -UMark Twain.
• Ubuhle sisimo sengqondo. Ukuba uziva umhle okanye umhle, ulungile, kwaye uza kugqithisela kwabanye, kodwa ukuba uyayamkela ngokungakhathali imodeli yobuhle ebekwe kuwe ngaphandle, uyakucinga ukuba uyinto embi. -UWalter Risso.
• Baninzi kakhulu abantu abazithathela ingqalelo le nto bengeyiyo kwaye bangazijongeli phantsi. -UMalcolm S. Forbes.
• Kudala uzigxeka, kwaye khange isebenze. Ngoku zama ukuzincoma ukuze ubone okwenzekayo. -ULouise L. Hay.
• Ayisiyiyo le nto bakubiza ngayo, yile uyiphendulayo. Imihlaba yeWC.
• Zininzi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzixhalabise malunga nendlela endibonwa ngayo ngabanye ... -UDennis Lehane.
• Ndizikhathaza ngam. Nokuba ndindedwa okanye ndinabona bahlobo, ndiya kuhlala ndizihlonipha. -Gautama Budda.
• Ewe, sonke siyazi ukuba ukuzithemba kuvela kwindlela ocinga ngayo ngawe, hayi kwinto ecingwa ngabanye. -Gloria Gaynor.
• Abantu bafana neziglasi. Ziyakhanya xa kuphuma ilanga, kodwa xa kufika ubumnyama zityhila ubuhle bokwenene kuphela xa kukho ukukhanya okungaphakathi. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross.
• Ndicinga ukuba wonke umntu akaqhelekanga. Kuya kufuneka sibhiyozele ubuqu bethu kwaye singabinazintloni ngazo. -UJohnny Depp.
• Andazi sisitshixo sempumelelo kodwa isitshixo sokusilela kukuzama ukukholisa wonke umntu. - Woody Allen.

• Kholelwa kuwe. Wazi ngaphezu kokuba ucinga. -Benjamin Spock.
• Ngawo wonke umzuzu sigqibelele konke okufunekayo kuhambo lwethu. - USteve Maraboli.
• Ndifumene kuphando lwam ukuba esona sizathu sokuba abantu bangazisizeli kukuba bayoyika ukuzanelisa. Bakholelwa ukuba ukuzigxeka yinto ebagcina emgceni. Abantu abaninzi bacinga njalo kuba inkcubeko yethu ithi ukuba lukhuni kuwe yeyona ndlela ilungileyo. -Kristen Neff.
• Akukho nto intle ngokugqwesa kwamanye amadoda. Ubungangamsha bokwenyani bungaphezulu kobakho bangaphambili. - Iqhalo lamaHindu.
• Funda ukukwamkela nokukuxabisa ukwahluka kwenu, kuba kuya kukwenza wahluke kwabanye. – Ellen DeGeneres
• Awunakulawula ukuthanda kwabanye, ke gxila ekubeni unyaniseke kuwe. -U-Tim Gunn.
• Iimeko zakho ngoku azichazi apho uya khona; zichonga nje ukuba uqala phi. Nest Qubein.
• Ndiqala ukulinganisa ixabiso lam, kodwa hayi ngeepawundi, kodwa ngoncumo. -ULaurie Halse.
• Unokuba nayo nantoni na oyifunayo ukuba ukulungele ukuncama inkolelo yokuba awunakuba nayo. -Gqirha Robert Anthony.
• Ukuba ungomnye wabo bantu bacinga ukuba abanakuze baphumeze into, ngekhe; Nokuba unezakhono. -Indira Gandhi.
• Olona ngquzulwano lokwenyani oya kuba nalo ebomini bakho aluzukuhlala nabanye, luza kuba nawe. -U-Shannon L. Alder
• Rhoqo amaxesha, ubudlelwane bezothando abuphumeleli kuba uzama ukwenza ukuba umntu athandane nawe ngendlela ongakhange ukwazi ukwenza ngayo kuwe. -U-Shannon L. Alder.
• Bendihlala ndizazi ubude bam, kodwa ke ndacinga, wenza mahluko mni, ndinguHarry Potter. -UDaniel Radcliffe.
• Yiba nokholo kwinto ekhoyo phaya. -André Gide.
• Uhlala uhlala nawe, ke kuya kufuneka uyonwabele inkampani. -UDiane Von Furstenberg.
• Umvuzo wokuhambelana kukuba wonke umntu uyakuthanda ngaphandle kwakho. -Rita Mae Brown.
• Ayiloxanduva lwam ukuba mhle. Andiphili ngenxa yale njongo. Ubukho bam abukho malunga nokundifumana ndinqweneleka. -Warsan Shire.
• Xa uxolelana nento oyiyo, kuphela emva koko uyokwaneliseka yile unayo. -UDoris Mortman.
• Musa ukuvumela iibhloko zengqondo zikulawule. Khululeka. Jongana noloyiko lwakho kwaye uguqule iibhloko zakho zengqondo zibe ziibhloko zokwakha. – Roopleen
• Sukuvumela into ongenakuyenza ikuthintele ekwenzeni oko unokukwenza. -UJohn Wooden.
• Ukuzinakekela ayisosenzo sokuzingca, kulawulo olufanelekileyo kuphela kwesipho endinaso, isipho endisemhlabeni ukuba ndisinike abanye. - UParker Palmer.
• Kuba ukuba uyakholelwa kuwe, awuzami ukweyisela abanye. Kuba ukuba wonwabile nesiqu sakho, awudingi kuvunywa ngabanye. Kuba ukuba uyazamkela, ihlabathi liphela liyayamkela nawe. - iLao-Tzu.
• Ukuba ufuna ukoyisa ukungazithembi, kufuneka uzicele umngeni kwaye uziveze. Kuya kufuneka uthathe umngcipheko kwaye uthelekise iingcamango ezingenasiseko okanye eziphosakeleyo onazo ngawe. Ukuba wenza umkhwa wokuphepha, ngekhe wazi ukuba ungazixabisa njani. -UWalter Risso.
• Oyena mntu unefuthe oza kuthetha naye imini yonke nguwe. Kulumkele oko ukuthethayo kuwe. - UZig Ziglar.

• Awusoze ukwazi ukuwela ulwandle de ube unesibindi sokuyeka ukubona unxweme. UChristopher Columbus
• Ixabiso olibekayo ligqiba ngexabiso lakho. Ukuzithathela ingqalelo kuya kukuxabisa kakhulu. -Upoorve Dubey.
• Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula ukuba awunalo nje ilungelo lokuba ngumntu, unoxanduva lokuba ngomnye. -U-Eleanor Roosevelt.
• Impumelelo enkulu kukuzamkela. -Uben Sweet.
• Ungaze ube lixhoba. Ungayamkeli inkcazo yobomi bakho ngento exelelwa ngabanye. Zichaze. -UHarvey Fienstein.
• Kukho iintsuku xa ndilahla amagama amcengayo kum njengokuwa kwamagqabi omthi kwaye ndikhumbula ukuba kwanele ukuzikhathalela. -Brian Andreas.
• Ukufuna ukuba ngomnye umntu kukumosha umntu onguye. - UMarilyn Monroe.
• Bayandithanda kwaye bayandizonda, kodwa ndiyafunga ukuba abayi kundenza ndohlukane nam. - Ulil wayne.
• Xa wahlukile, uhlala ungaziboni izigidi zabantu abazamkelayo ukuba bangobani. Kuphela ngumntu ongayenziyo obonisa. -UJodi Picoult.
• Kuya kufuneka ndihloniphe izimvo zabanye nokuba andivumelani nazo. -Nathaniel Branden.
• Kuthathe ixesha elide ukuba ndifunde ukungazigwebi ngeliso lomnye umntu. -Intsimi yeSally.
• Iyahlekisa njengokuba kungekho mntu ukubuza nantoni na, emva kwethutyana uqala ukuziva ngathi awunanto unokuyinika yona. -Lev Grossman.
• Umhlobo wam osenyongweni ngoyena ukhupha eyona nto intle kum. -UHenry Ford.
• Zithande kuqala kwaye yonke enye into iya kulandela. Kuya kufuneka uzithande, ukuze wenze into apha emhlabeni. -Ibhola kaLucille.
• Ukuseka ukuzithemba okwenyani, kufuneka sigxile kwimpumelelo yethu kwaye silibale malunga nokusilela kunye neziganeko ezimbi kubomi bethu. -UDenis Waitley.
• Ungazigwebi ngenxa yexesha lakho elidlulileyo, awusaphili apho. -I-Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha.
• Abaphumeleleyo abakhulu ehlabathini ibisoloko ingabo bahlala begxile kwiinjongo zabo kwaye bezingaguquguquki kwimizamo yabo. - Roopleen.
• Ukuzithemba luludumo esizizuzela lona. -Nathaniel Branden.
• Ungatsho ukuba andinakukwazi nokuqhula, kuba ukungazi nto akunangqondo, kuya kuyithatha ngokungathí sina, kwaye kuya kukukhumbuza ngalo lonke ixesha uzama. -I-Facundo Cabral.
• Sonke siyazi ukuba ukuzithemba kuvela kwindlela ocinga ngayo ngawe, hayi kwinto ecingwa ngabanye ngawe. -Gloria Gaynor.
• Yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe ibonakalisa into oyikholelwayo ngawe. Asinakho ukugqitha kwinqanaba lethu lokuzithemba kwaye asinakho ukuzitsalela kuthi nantoni na engaphaya koko sikholelwa ukuba kufanelekile. -Iyanla Vanzant.
• Esona sipho sibalaseleyo unokuzinika yona yinto encinci yokuqwalaselwa nguwe. -U-Anthony J. D 'Angelo.
• Incoko ibonisa iimvakalelo zakho zangaphakathi. -U-Asa Don Brown.

• Ukuba uqonde kuphela indlela obaluleke ngayo kubomi babo udibana nabo, ubaluleke kangakanani kubantu ongazange uphuphe ukudibana nabo okwangoku. Kukho into yakho oyishiya kuye wonke umntu odibana naye. - UFred Rogers.
• Yenza ngokungathi into oyenzayo yenza umahluko. Iya. -UWilliam James.
• Inokuba nguwe wedwa ongakholelwa kuwe, kodwa kwanele. Yinkwenkwezi kuphela enokugqobhoza kwindalo yobumnyama. Ungaze uyeke. -URichelle E.Goodrich.
• Nxiba uncumo kwaye ube nabahlobo; Ufinge iintshiya kwaye unemibimbi. -George Eliot.
• Ukuba senze zonke izinto esinokukwazi ukuzenza, singothuka. -Thomas Edison.
• Ukuba le uyenzayo ayikusondeli kwiinjongo zakho, oko kuthetha ukuba izenzo zakho ziyakuthatha kuwe. -Brian Tracy.
• Xa ukholelwa ngokwenene kuwe, akukho nto ingenakufikeleleka kumathuba akho. -UWayne Dyer.
• Ngokwenyani, zizigqibo zethu ezimisela into esinokuba yiyo, ngaphezulu kakhulu kobuchule bethu. -UJK Rowling.
• Phila ngentembeko, hlonipha abanye, kwaye ulandele intliziyo yakho. -Nathaniel Branden.
• Abantu bahlala besithi lo mntu akazifumenanga. Kodwa isiqu asifumaneki. Yinto eyenziwayo ngumntu. -Thomas Szasz.
• Akukho zifundo zeyunivesithi, zekholeji okanye ziko lokuzithemba. -I-TD Jakes.
• Ukuthobeka kukwazi ukungoneliseki kwakho, kodwa akukho nto ayithethi kuthi ungazi ixabiso lakho. -UWalter Risso.
• Ukuba awukho mhle ekuthandeni isiqu sakho, kuya kuba nzima ukuba uthande omnye umntu, kuba uya kucaphukela ixesha namandla owanikela komnye umntu ongakwazi nokuwanikela kuwe. -uBarbara De Angelis
• Uninzi loloyiko lokungamkelwa luxhomekeke ekufuneni ukuvunywa ngabanye abantu. Sukuzithemba kwakho kwizimvo zabo. -Harvey Mackay.
• Ubulolo obubi kakhulu kukungonwabi kuwe. -UMark Twain.
• Akukho nto intle ngokungaphezulu kunenye indoda. Ubungangamsha bokwenyani bukukuba ubongamele ubuntu bakho bangaphambili. - Iqhalo lamaHindu.
• Uzuko lwethu olukhulu alusokuze luwe, kodwa kukuvuka ngalo lonke ixesha siwa. - UConfucius.
• Izinto esizithiyileyo ngathi azikho ngaphezu kwezinto esizithandayo ngathi. -U-Ellen Goodman.
• Impumelelo enemveliso sisiphumo kunye nokubonakaliswa kwempilo nokuzithemba. -Nathaniel Branden.
• Wena ngokwakho, kunye naye nabani na kwindalo yonke, ufanelwe luthando kunye nothando. -Gautama Buddha.
• Into ekuchazayo ayisiyo kangaphi ukuba ungqubeke, kodwa linani lamaxesha obhabha ngawo. -USarah Dessen.
• Indoda engazixabisiyo ayinakuxabisa nantoni na okanye nabani na. - Ayn IRandi.
• Okuphambi kwethu nasemva kwethu zizinto ezinqabileyo xa kuthelekiswa nento engaphakathi kuthi. -Ralph Waldo Emerson.

• Musa ukuxhomekeka komnye umntu ukuze wonwabe kwaye uzixabise. Nguwe kuphela onokuba noxanduva kuloo nto. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzithanda kwaye uzihloniphe, akukho mntu unokukwenza oko kwenzeke. -Umgaqo weStacey.
• Okukhona uziva ngcono ngawe, kokukhona uziva unganaso isidingo sokuyibonisa. -Robert Hand.
• Iingcinga zikukhokelela kwiinjongo zakho, iinjongo zakho kwizenzo zakho, izenzo zakho kwimikhwa yakho, imikhwa yakho kumlingiswa wakho, kwaye isimilo sakho simisela ikamva lakho. Cinga kakuhle. -Tyron Edwards.
• Ude uzixabise awuyi kulixabisa ixesha lakho. Ude ulixabise ixesha lakho, awuyi kwenza nto ngalo. - M. Scott Peck.
• Ukuzithanda, ukubadelela okanye ukubatyeshela abanye, kukuzicingela nokuzikhetha; ukuthanda abanye, ukuzidelela, kukuswela uthando. -UWalter Risso.
• Kukho ubungqina obukhulu bokuba ukuzithemba kwethu kukhulu, siya kuba nakho ukuphatha abanye ngcono. -Nathaniel Branden.
• Ayisiyiyo iminyaka yakho yobomi ebalulekayo, kodwa ubomi kwiminyaka yakho. -U-Abraham Lincoln
• Abona bantu bangathethekiyo esidibene nabo ngabo abo boyisileyo ukoyiswa, ukubandezeleka, umzabalazo, ilahleko, kwaye bayifumene indlela yabo enzulwini. Aba bantu banombulelo, ubuntununtunu, kunye nokuqonda kobomi obuzalisa imfesane, ubulali, kunye nenkxalabo enzulu yothando. Abantu abamangalisayo abenzeki nje. - uElizabeth Kubler-Ross.
• Akukho mntu unokukwenza uzive uphantsi ngaphandle kwemvume yakho. -U-Eleanor Roosevelt.
• Akukho mntu unokuba nembono elungileyo ngomntu ocinga kakubi ngaye. -U-Anthony Trollope.
• Kukho izinto ezimbini ezakha ukuzithemba. Omnye ngumgangatho wobudlelwane nabanye, apho uziva uthandwa kwaye wenza umahluko kubomi babanye. Enye kukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. -UJack Canfield.
• Ungazibuzi ukuba lidinga ntoni ilizwe, zibuze ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba liphile. Kwaye emva koko hamba wenze oko. Kungenxa yokuba umhlaba kufuneka uphile. Emva koko qhubeka wenze. Kungenxa yokuba umhlaba uyabadinga abantu abafuna ukuphila. -UWoward Washington Thurman.
• Ukuzithanda ngokwakho kukuvuma nokuzincoma ngomlomo. Kukuvuma ngokupheleleyo izenzo zakho. Qiniseka ngobuchule bakho. Ukuthanda umzimba wakho kunye nokubuka ubuhle bakho. - USondra Ray.
• Ukuba ukuthanda ukuthanda ukubeka ecaleni ukuthanda kwam ukuthanda kwam, ukudibana kwam nawe kuyityhefu: andikhathali. -UWalter Risso.
• Kuya kufuneka ulindele izinto kuwe ngaphambi kokuba uzenze-Michael Jordan.
• Inkolo yabo bonke abantu kufuneka ikholelwe kubo. -UJiddu Krishnamurti.
• Uluvo lwabanye abantu ngesiqu sakho akufuneki lube yinyani. -Les Brown.
• Kwaye iimodeli esizibona kwiimagazini zinqwenela ukuba zibonakale njengemifanekiso yazo. -Cheri K. Erdman.
• UThixo usinike amandla okuphupha kuba wasidala ukuba sikwazi ukufeza onke amaphupha ethu. -Héctor Tassinar.
• Yonke into oyifunayo ukoyisa imiqobo yobomi, uya kuyifumana ngaphakathi kwakho. Funda ukukhangela ngaphakathi kwentliziyo yakho. -Brian Tracy.
• Akukaze kube lixesha lokuba ube yile nto ubuya kuba yiyo. -George Eliot.
• Unamandla kakhulu ukuba nje uyazi ukuba unamandla kangakanani. -Yogi Bhajan.

Ezi zezona quotes zokuzithemba esinokuzifumana. Siyathemba ukuba uyonwabele, kunye nemifanekiso eyenziwe ngeyona inentsingiselo. Ukuba ungathanda ukufunda ezinye izithuba ezinokukunceda okanye zikuphucule, sicebisa ukuba ujonge [icandelo/ikhonkco elilandelayo]. icandelo lokucaphula ibhlogapho uya kufumana izixhobo ezingakumbi zokukhulisa ukuzithanda kwakho.

Amabinzana okunyusa ukuzithemba kunye nemimoya ngamaxesha anzima

Ubomi bunamahla-ndinyuka, ngoko asinakuhlala sonwabile okanye siphazamisekile ngokweemvakalelo. Ingakumbi ngala maxesha angemnandanga apho kufuneka sifumane awona mandla okuqhubeka, naxa sifuna inkxaso kakhulu. sizikhumbuza ukuba sixabiseke kangakanani na.

Amabinzana anokusebenza njenge ilizwi elinovelwano ngakumbi Kwaye njengama-ankile amancinci okutshintsha ugxininiso lwakho lwengqondo: iingcamango ezingalunganga ziyeka ukuba zizodwa ezidlalayo, kwaye ilizwi elinovelwano ngakumbi liyavela, likukhumbuza ukuba unakho, uxabisekile, kwaye unamandla. Unokuzisebenzisela wena okanye ukhuthaze umntu osondeleyo kuwe.

Amabinzana okukhuthaza

Ngaloo maxesha xa uziva ungathandi ukwenza nantoni na, yiloo nto abahlobo, usapho, kunye .... amagama afanelekileyoUmyalezo omfutshane kodwa onyanisekileyo unokwenza wonke umehluko kwimini yomntu ojongene nobunzima.

Ukuba kukho umntu omaziyo oye wahlukana neqabane lakhe, waphelelwa ngumsebenzi, okanye uhlala etyhubela ixesha elinzima, Kweli nqaku ungafumana ingqokelela ebanzi yawona mabinzana angcono okukhuthaza abanyekunye nengcaciso emfutshane ukunika umxholo ngamnye. Ngaphaya koko, kamva uya kufumana amacandelo athile anamabinzana abahlobo, abantwana, kunye nokukhulisa ukuzithanda, okukhuthazwa zezona ngqokelela zibalaseleyo ngesihloko.

1. Asiyonto onayo, umntu oyiyo, apho ukhoyo, okanye into oyenzayo ekwenza wonwabe okanye ungonwabi. Yinto oyicingayo ngayo.

UDale Carnegie usinika eli binzana lihle ukusikhumbuza oko ukutolikwa kokwenzekayo kuthi Ithatha isigqibo ngaphezu kwesiganeko ngokwaso. Ukutshintsha iingcinga zakho kutshintsha iimvakalelo zakho.

2 Phakamisa intloko phambi kwabanye; kuphela ngabo boyikayo ukuwa kwaye abo bafihla into bajonga phantsi.

Ngentloko yakho iphezulu kwaye uthatha izinto inyathelo elinye ngexesha, unokufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Eli binzana likhuthaza ... ukuma kwesidimanangeentsuku apho umntu eziva emncinci.

3. Hamba ngokuzithemba kwicala lamaphupha akho. Phila ubomi obubucingayo.

Ilungele loo maxesha xa silibala amaphupha ethu kwaye sivumele uloyiko lulawule indlela yethu. Kukukhuthazwa qalisa kwakhona iiprojekthi ezigciniweyo.

4. Khumbula oku kakuhle: akukho mntu uyimfuneko ebomini bethu. Mhlawumbi ucinga ngoku ukuba akukho nto iya kuze ifane ebomini bakho. Ndikholelwe, xa ungalindelanga, uya kufumana umntu ongcono kakhulu kunaye.

Xa umntu esishiya, kunokuvakala ngathi sisiphelo sehlabathi. Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba yonke into iyadlula, kwaye ukuba uyayihlakulela ukuzithanda kunye neprojekthi yakho yobomiAbantu abaza emva kwexesha nabo baya kuba sempilweni ngakumbi kuwe.

5. Sebenzisa ukucinga kwakho, kungekhona ukuzoyikisa, kodwa ukuzikhuthaza ukuba ufezekise into engenakucingelwa.

Ingqondo yethu inokuba ngumhlobo wethu omkhulu okanye utshaba lwethu olukhulu. Eli binzana likhumbuza ukuba unokujolisa umbono wakho iimeko zokukhulahayi kwiintlekele kuphela.

6. Uncumo yindlela engabizi kakhulu yokuphucula inkangeleko yakho

Isicatshulwa esihlakaniphile sikaCharles Gordy. Uncumo sisixhobo esinamandla kakhulu: aluphuculi nje indlela abanye abakubona ngayo, lukwaguqula neyakho imo yangaphakathi.

7. Iikhayithi zivukela, hayi ngomoya.

Xa izinto ziba nzima, Kufuneka siqhubeke nokulwa nalo msingaNgokufuthi, lucelomngeni kanye oluvelisa okona kulungileyo kuthi.

8. Uhambo lweekhilomitha ezingamawaka alishumi luqala ngenyathelo elinye.

Nokuba sithelekelela kangakanani na into, ukuba asithabathi manyathelo, asiyi kuyifumana. Eli binzana likumema ukuba Yenza inyathelo lokuqalanangona ungayiboni yonke indlela okwangoku.

9 Emveni kwesaqhwithi ilanga liyaphuma; kuyo yonke ingxaki kukho isisombululo kwaye umsebenzi ongenakuphikiswa womphefumlo kukuhlala usemoyeni olungileyo

Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ube nenye. ngqondweni Naxa izinto zingahambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe. Asikokukhanyela intlungu, kodwa kukukhumbula ukuba kukho indlela yokuphuma.

10. Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sikunika amandla phezu kweemeko zakho kunokuba iimeko zakho zibe namandla phezu kwakho.

Ukuba ufuna ukuba yinkosi yobomi bakho, qala ngokuba nentando ucinga ukuba ulungile kunye nokukhetha impendulo yakho kwinto eyenzekayo kuwe, nokuba awukwazi ukukhetha ingxaki ngokwayo.

11. Okukhona isaqhwithi esinamandla, kokukhona sidlula ngokukhawuleza

Isicatshulwa esivela kuPaulo Coelho sisikhumbuza ukuba awona maxesha aqatha ahlala enesiphelo esicacileyo. Ukugcina i ukuzola kunye nembono uncedo lokudlula kuzo.

12 Umzuzu ngamnye unomsindo, ulahlekelwa yimizuzwana engamashumi amathandathu yolonwabo.

Ingqumbo nenzondo azisincedi nganto. Enyanisweni, ziyingozi nakwimpilo yethu. Ukufunda uku lawula iimvakalelo Yaye ukuyeka into ebuhlungu yindlela yokuzithanda.

13. Nakum ubomi abuzange bube lula, kwaye ndiyayazi indlela oziva ngayo. Kodwa ndilungile ngoku, kuba ndawalwela amaphupha am kwaye ndahlala ndinyanisekile entliziyweni yam.

Umyalezo wenkuthazo kunye nesiseko se-autobiographical. Yabelana ngaloo nto Ayiyiyo yonke into ebigqibelele. Kwaye ukuqhubela phambili kunokuba luncedo kakhulu kumntu oziva eyedwa kwintlungu yakhe.

14. Iresiphi yokuqala yolonwabo: kuphephe ukuhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo.

Kufuneka sibe kulo mzuzu. Ixesha elidluleyo lidlule, yaye ukuhlala ucinga ngalo kuphembelela ukuziva unetyala nosizi. Eli binzana liyasikhuthaza ukuba senze njalo jonga phambili.

15 Akukho mthi ungashukunyiswanga ngumoya;

Iqhalo elaziwayo elinentsingiselo ekhuthazayo: akukho mntu ubalekela ubunzima, kodwa sinokuboyisa sonke. ukufunda ukulungelelanisa ngaphandle kokuqhekeka.

16. Asiyominyaka yobomi bakho ebalwayo, bubomi kwiminyaka yakho.

UAbraham Lincoln ucaphula esikhuthaza ukuba gcwalisa ngentsingiselo sigxile kwixesha esinalo, endaweni yokuthathela ingqalelo ubuninzi.

17 Ubukhulu bakho abutyhilwa zizikhanyiso ezifika kuwe, kodwa kukukhanya okuphuma emphefumlweni wakho

Umntu kufuneka afumane oko kusentliziyweni yakhe ukuze onwabe. Ukuzithemba kokwenyani kusondele kwi... ukuyondelelana kwangaphakathi kunokuqhwatywa kwangaphandle.

18 Kufuneka siyamkele iintlungu kwaye siyitshise njengamafutha ohambo lwethu

Isicatshulwa sokuqala esivela kuKenji Miyazawa. Kufuneka soyise amaxesha amabi. ukuwajikela ekubeni ngumthombo wokufunda, kungekhona kumatyathanga asenza singashukumi.

19 Sithandwa sam, ndiyacaphukela ukukubona unje. Uqhele ukuba ngumfazi ochwayitileyo nowonwabileyo, kwaye ngoku ukhathazekile kwaye ukhathazekile. Ndiyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha sizifumana sikwiimeko ezimbi ezisenza sicinge ukuba silahlekile, kodwa singaze siyeke ukulwa. Ndiyakuthanda kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uza kuyigqiba kungekudala le nto.

Ukuzinikela ukukhuthaza umhlobo othandekayo. Idibanisa i ukuvuma intlungu yabo ngesikhumbuzo samandla abo kunye nenkxaso yakho engenamiqathango.

20. Ukuba utshintsha indlela ozijonga ngayo izinto, izinto ozijongileyo ziyatshintsha.

Ukusuka kuWayne Dyer omkhulu. Ngumahluko phakathi kokubukela i iglasi igcwele isiqingatha okanye isiqingatha singenantoNgamanye amaxesha, inyaniso ayitshintshi, kodwa indlela oyitolika ngayo iyatshintsha.

21. Awunakulindela uloyiso kwaye ucebe ukoyiswa

Xa sisenza into, kufuneka sinikele ngayo yonke into yethu kwaye singenzi izinto phakathi. Eli binzana liyasikhuthaza ukuba senze njalo Lungelelanisa ingqondo yakho nenjongo yakho endaweni yokuhamba ngehandbrake.

22 Ukuba kukho into ongayithandiyo, yitshintshe; ukuba awukwazi ukuyitshintsha, yitshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo.

Indlela esicinga ngayo inamandla amakhulu kwindlela esenza ngayo izinto. Ukwamkela into engaphaya kolawulo lwakho kwaye ugxile kwinto onokuyitshintsha ngundoqo... impilo-ntle ngokweemvakalelo.

23 Musa ukuzigweba ngokwezinto zakho zangaphambili, awusahlali khona.

Awukwazi ukutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo, ngoko ke kungcono ukuchitha amandla akho ukwakha a ikamva elihambelanayo ufuna ukuba ngubani ngoku.

24 Yonke into onokuyicinga iyinyani

Isicatshulwa esihle esivela kumculi uPablo Picasso odibanisa ubuchule kunye nenyani. Kukunqwala ukuba... umbono olungileyo njengesixhobo sokutshintsha.

25. Thatha inyathelo lakho lokuqala ngoku. Awudingi ukubona indlela yonke, thatha nje inyathelo lakho lokuqala. Okuseleyo kuya kuvela xa uhamba.

Xa sisendleleni echanekileyo, izinto zihamba ngendlela. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba ungasebenzi umzimba ulinde isiqinisekiso esipheleleyo.

26 philani ngokungathi niza kufa ngomso. Funda ngokungathi uza kuphila ngonaphakade.

Kufuneka sizinikele kangangoko sinako, kuba asiyi kuhlala sikwazi. Dibanisa i ubunzulu bokuphila ngokuthobeka ukuqhubeka nokufunda.

27 Into osukuba ugqiba ukuyenza, yenze ngamandla akho;

Into esonwabisayo kukusukela amaphupha ethu nge ukuzibophelela kunye nokuzinikelaungacingi nje ngabo. Eli binzana likhuthaza ukubandakanyeka kwangempela.

28. Kufuneka ulindele izinto kuwe phambi kokuba uzenze.

Ukuzithemba kusinceda sifezekise iinjongo zethu. Kufuneke si sizithembe phambi kokuba iziphumo zangaphandle zivele.

29. Mhlobo wam, ndicela uxolo ngayo yonke into ojongene nayo. Ndifuna wazi ukuba ungumfazi owomeleleyo kwaye onesibindi. Ingxaki elula efana nale ayizukoyisa. Ndiyazi ukuba ungadlula kuyo yonke le nto kwaye uya kukwazi ukuncuma kwakhona. Ndikuthanda ngentliziyo yam yonke sihlobo sam.

Xa umntu etyhubela ixesha elinzima, ufuna ukukhuthazwa ngakumbi. Olu hlobo lomyalezo luyadibanisa uvelwano, ithemba, kunye nokomelezwa kwesazisi (“owomeleleyo kwaye ukhaliphile”).

30. Ukungonwabi ngumkhwa; ukonwaba ngumkhwa; kwaye unokhetho.

Imikhwa eyityhefu isikhokelela kwindlela yobukrakra. Eli binzana likumema ukuba udale ingqondo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha kufutshane nolonwabo.

31. Ixhala kufuneka lisikhokelele esenzweni, hayi ukudandatheka.

Ukuba nexhala kunokusidimaza okanye kusiqhubele phambili ukuba sizithemba. Isitshixo siku... guqula inkxalabo ibe ngamanyathelo abambekayo.

32 Kobu bomi, kufuneka sife izihlandlo ezininzi ukuze sizalwe ngokutsha. Kwaye iintlekele, nangona ziyoyikeka, zisebenza ukuphelisa elinye ixesha kwaye ziqale elinye.

Amava amabi ngamathuba okukhula kunye nophuhliso. Le ngxelo iqinisekisa i intlungu yezigaba zenguqu kwaye ikhuthaza ukuzisebenzisa njengesiqalo.

33 Olona zuko lwethu lukhulu alukho ekubeni singawi, kodwa ekuphakameni ngalo lonke ixesha sisiwa.

Isicatshulwa esiyintsomi esivela kuConfuciusWonke umntu unamahla ndinyuka ebomini, kodwa into esichazayo kukukwazi ukuvuka kwakhona kwaye kwakhona.

34. Awunakukwazi ukulawula izinto ezithandwa ngabanye abantu, ngoko ke gxila ekunyanisekeni kuwe.

Ekuphela kwento esinokuyitshintsha siziqu zethu. Nabanye baya kwenza okufanayo ukuba bayafuna. Eli binzana lisibuyisela embindini: ukuyondelelana kwabantu phambi kwemvume yangaphandle.

35 Yeyakho indlela yeyakho wedwa. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka ufunde ukuhamba ngendlela yakho.

Xa ufumanisa into oyifunayo ngokwenene, ngoko unokulwela ulonwabo. Akukho ndlela ilungileyo: imalunga bhala elakho ibali.

36 Khumbulani amaphupha enu, niwalwele. Kufuneka uyazi into oyifunayo ebomini. Inye kuphela into eyenza iphupha lakho lingenzeki: uloyiko lokungaphumeleli.

Ukoyika ukungaqiniseki kunye nokungaphumeleli kukuthintela ukuba uqhubele phambili nobomi bakho kwaye ufezekise into oyifunayo. Eli binzana liyacebisa chonga kwaye ujongane nolo loyiko njengenyathelo elibalulekileyo.

37. Inye kuphela into eyenza iphupha lingenakwenzeka: ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli

Ibinzana elifanayo nelidlulileyo, kodwa eli livela ku-Paulo Coelho. Ugxininisa ukuba, rhoqo, i umqobo wokwenene Akukho ngaphandle, kodwa ezingqondweni zethu.

38. Iimeko zakho zangoku azikuchazi apho uya khona; basuka nje bagqibe apho uqala khona.

Iinjongo kufuneka ziphunyezwe kancinci kancinci, inyathelo ngenyathelo. Eli binzana likhuthaza ukuba ungasebenzisi imeko yakho yangoku njenge isizathu sokungaqhubeli phambilikodwa njengesiqalo.

39 Xa ucinga ukuba ulahlekelwe yiyo yonke into, kuya kusoloko kufika abantu abaya kukunika yonke into obucinga ukuba uphulukene nayo.

Kwanawona maxesha anzima, kusoloko kukho abantu abakulungeleyo ukupha. Lo myalezo ukhomba ku... amandla enkxaso yoluntu njengenkxaso yokuzithemba.

40. Ukuba uyaluyeka uloyiko lwakho, uya kuba nendawo engakumbi yokuphila amaphupha akho.

Ukuziva usoyika ukungaqiniseki kunye nokungaphumeleli kunokukuthintela ekufezekiseni into oyifunayo kobu bomi. Imalunga dala indawo yeemvakalelo kuba ufuna ukuphilela ntoni na.

41 Zininzi izinto esizinandiphayo, yaye ixesha lethu emhlabeni lifutshane, kangangokuba ukubandezeleka kuyinkcitha-xesha. Sinekhephu lasebusika kunye neentyatyambo zasentwasahlobo zokuzonwabisa.

Ngamanye amaxesha, kuye kufuneke sikhumbuze abantu ukuba asiphili ngonaphakade. Eli binzana likumema ukuba zonwabele izinto ezilula ukubeka iingxaki kwindawo efanelekileyo.

42 Awusoze ukwazi ukuwela ulwandle de ube nesibindi sokuyeka ukubona unxweme

Ibinzana elihle elibhekiselele kwisenzo. Ngaphandle kokushukuma, asiyi kuya ndawo. Lubizo lwesenzo. shiya indawo yokuthuthuzela.

43. Okukhona ubunzima, kokukhona bukhula uzuko

Ukuzabalazela usukelo oluphakamileyo kunokukhuthaza kakhulu. Ngokuphathelele ukuzithemba, eli binzana lisebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuba Uyaqeqeshwa ngelixa ujongene nemingeni.

44. Amabhaso anikezelwa ekupheleni kokhuphiswano, kungekhona ekuqaleni. Ikomityi yophumeleleyo ifunyanwa emva komzamo omkhulu, ukubila, nokusebenza nzima.

Umhla wokuphakamisa umoya wakho ngokuchukumisa umdlalo. Qhagamshela i ingqeqesho ngokwanelisa ukuwela umgca wokugqibela.

45 Akukho mntu ungoyiswayo. Kodwa kungcono ukuphulukana namadabi athile esilwela amaphupha ethu kunokoyiswa singazi nokuba silwela ntoni.

Kungcono ukuwa kwaye uvuke ngenxa yento esiyiphuphayo kunento engasizalisekisiyo. Eli binzana liyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze njalo khetha iimfazwe ezinentsingiselo.

46 Musa ukoyika ukuncama okulungileyo, uye ngenxa yabakhulu.

Ibinzana elithi ngokusisiseko: ukuba ufuna into ethile, kufuneka uyisebenzele. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka nje. shiya into ekhululekile ukwenza indawo yento oyinqwenela ngokwenene.

47. Intanda yam, ungumhlobo omangalisayo, intombi emangalisayo, kunye nodade ongcono kakhulu. Xa uziva ngathi yonke into ayihambanga kakuhle kwaye akukho nto isengqiqweni, khumbula ukuba ungumntu onjani kwaye zonke ezo mvakwemini sizichithe sihleka kunye. Ukuhleka lelona yeza lilungileyo kuyo yonke into.

Ilungele ukuvuyisa umhlobo olungileyo, loo mntu ukhethekileyo ebomini bakho. Iyomeleza yabo isazisi esihle kwaye ivuselela iinkumbulo ezivuyisayo njengeyeza lokunyanga usizi.

48. Sebenzisa uncumo lwakho ukutshintsha ihlabathi, kwaye ungavumeli ihlabathi litshintshe uncumo lwakho.

Sinethuba lokukhetha indlela esiyifunayo ebomini bethu. Eli binzana ligxininisa eyakho amandla empembelelo entlenaxa imeko-bume ayiloncedo.

49 Zimbini kuphela iintsuku apho kungekho nto inokwenziwa: enye ibizwa ngokuba yizolo, enye ngomso. Ke namhlanje yimini yokuthanda, ukukhula, ukuziphucula, ukonwaba, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuphila.

Ngoku kuphela komzuzu obalulekileyo. Ixesha elidlulileyo lihambile kwaye ikamva alikafiki. Lo mbono ungundoqo ekuphuculeni i ukuzithemba kunye nexhalakuba ijolise kuwe kwinto onokuyenza namhlanje.

50 Ukuba akukwazi ukubhabha, baleka; ukuba awukwazi ukubaleka, hamba; ukuba awukwazi ukuhamba, khasa; kodwa nantoni na oyenzayo, qhubeka.

Ngamanye amazwi, musa ukuma ulwele amaphupha akho. Nokuba isantya sicotha, okubalulekileyo kukuba ulwalathiso nonyamezelo.

51. Iimpazamo azinamsebenzi, ukuba nje uyayazi indlela yokuzilungisa.

Ukwenza iimpazamo kuvumelekile. Into ebalulekileyo kukufunda kumava kunye nokuziqhelanisa. ndiyazisizela endaweni yokohlwaywa rhoqo.

52. Ifilosofi yam yeyokuba ubunzima buyaphela xa sijongene nabo.

Isicatshulwa esikumemayo ukuba ucamngce ngamahla ndinyuka esinokuthi sibe nawo. Ukujongana nento oyoyikayo entloko kudla ngokuba yeyona ndlela ingqalileyo ukunciphisa uloyiko.

53 Akukho nto iya kunkwantya xa uthe akwala ukoyika.

Asimele sivumele uloyiko lusilawule. Ukuba nesibindi kunye nokulwela into esiyinqwenelayo ukusuka emazantsi omphefumlo wethu sisenzo esinzulu ukuzithanda.

54 Ndiyazi ukuba ukhe waziva ungoyena mntu ungabalulekanga nolisikizi ehlabathini lonke; Nam ndiyivile. Kodwa qhubeka, kuninzi ekufuneka sikulwele. Eli lilizwe elihle, kwaye iingxaki ziyimiqobo nje esinceda sivelise okona kulungileyo kuthi. Hlala ulwa.

Ukuba nengqiqo kunokukunceda ukuqonde ngakumbi ukusikelwa kwakho umda, kodwa namandla akho. Ukwabelana ngobuthathaka kunye nethemba ngaxeshanye. idibanisa kwaye iyakhulula.

55. Ukuba usoloko usithi izinto ziza kuba mbi, unethuba elihle lokuba ngumprofeti.

Xa uzixelele ukuba izinto zihamba kakubi, isiprofeto esizizalisekisayo sinokwenzeka. Eli binzana likwazisa nge amandla amazwi akho angaphakathi.

56. Izinto ezilula kakhulu zinokuzisa ulonwabo olukhulu

Akusoloko kufuneka sicinge nzulu. Zezona zinto zilula ezinokusizalisekisa ngokwenene kwaye zisixhase. ukuzithemba kwemihla ngemihla.

57. Umnqa omangalisayo kukuba xa ndizamkela, ndinokutshintsha

Isazi ngengqondo yomntu uCarl Rogers unike le ngcamango intle. Ulwamkelo asikokurhoxa: linyathelo lokuqala elikhokelela a utshintsho olunzulu noluzinzileyo.

58 Dade, izinto azikuhambeli kakuhle mva nje. Ndifuna nje wazi ukuba unenkxaso yam kwaye ungaze ungathandabuzi ukunditsalela umnxeba xa ufuna i-hug, ingcebiso, okanye nantoni na enye. Zihlobo ngonaphakade, ungaze uyilibale loo nto. Ndiyakuthanda.

Xa udade wakho efuna ukukhuthazwa, eli binzana linokuba luncedo kakhulu. Dibanisa ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nobukho bokwenene bokuxhasa inkqubo yabo.

59. Ungaze ulibale indlela esikuthanda ngayo, indlela obaluleke ngayo kuthi, kunye nendlela esikuxabisa ngayo. Siyakuhlala silapha.

Ibinzana lokunikela ukhuthazo kunye nothando. Ukukhumbuza umntu wabo ixabiso kubomi babanye unokumxhasa xa ukuzithemba kwakhe kuncipha.

60. Bathi uqole ngamaxesha anzima kakhulu, ukuba kufuneka ufunde ukufumana uvuyo kwiziganeko ezibuhlungu zobomi ukuze womelele kwaye ufunde isifundo esibalulekileyo. Gcina loo nto engqondweni; kungekudala yonke into iya kudlula, kwaye uya kuba ulungile.

Iimeko ezinzima zisityhalela kwimida yethu, kodwa zingamathuba okukhula. Eli binzana liyasimema ukuba sibone intlungu maestrohayi nje utshaba.

61. Ulonwabo lokwenene luyonwabela ngoku, ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka kwixhala kwikamva

Abantu abangaziyo ukuba bathathe njani ithuba apha kwaye ngoku abonwabanga kangako. Ziqhelanise ne ubukho besazela Yindlela ethe ngqo yokunyamekela ukuzithemba kwakho.

62. Yonke into engaphumeleliyo ifundisa indoda into ebekufuneka iyifunde

Inkcazo enzulu nguCharles Dickens. Ibinzana elikhuthazayo lokukunceda ukuba uxolelanise neempazamo zakho kwaye uzibone njenge inxalenye yendlela.

63. Unesibindi asinguye lowo ujongene nengxaki, isibindi ngulowo ongavumeli nayiphi na ingxaki ukuba imoyise.

Ukungabikho kweengxaki akunakwenzeka. Undoqo kukwenza umgudu wokuzisombulula kwaye unganikezeli, ngaloo ndlela womeleza yakho isazisi somntu onobuchule.

64 Ukuba uthe wawa kalishumi, vuka ngeshumi elinanye;

Akukhathaliseki nokuba usilele kangaphi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukunganikezeli. Libinzana elilula nelinamandla le khumbula ukomelela kwakho.

65. Akukho zimfihlo zempumelelo. Ifumaneka ngokulungiselela, ukusebenza nzima, nokufunda ekungaphumeleliyo.

Kwabaninzi, umgudu nokuzingisa zizitshixo zempumelelo. Eli binzana likwaqaqambisa ukubaluleka kwe lungisa impazamo.

66. Eyona mpindezelo inkulu kukuphumeza oko abanye bathi awukwazi ukukwenza

Iqhelekile into yokuba abantu abangafuniyo ukulwela amaphupha abo bakuxelele ukuba awakho akanakwenzeka. Zibonakalise ziphosakele ukubheja kuwe.

67. Yomelela, kuba amaxesha amabi aya kukunceda uluxabise ulonwabo lokuphila

Indlela yokuxabisa into esinayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, kukuwa kwethu okusifundisa ukuba... ukonwabele uzinzo xa ifika.

68 Ndiyazidla ngentliziyo yam; liyaqhawuka, liyaphilisa, liphinde liqhawuke lingaphulukani namandla alo othando.

Isicatshulwa esikhuthazayo kwabo basandul 'ukuphelisa ubudlelwane. Bhiyozela i amandla okuqhubeka nothando nangona imivumbo.

69 Uyazi kakuhle ukuba unqabisekile kum; uyakuhlala unenkxaso yam engenamiqathango, sihlobo esithandekayo

Ukuzinikela ukuphakamisa umoya womhlobo ozinikeleyo. Xa umntu eziva exhaswa, yabo ukuzithemba kuvakala kubuthathaka.

70. Abafazi bomelele ngendalo, kwaye ungomnye wabo banamandla endakha ndabazi. Wena ubusoloko unam, undiphakamisa ekuweni kwam; ngoku lithuba lam lokuba ndenze okufanayo nakuwe.

Amagama ambalwa enkxaso yowesifazane ofuna i-push eyongezelelweyo. Iyamomeleza isazisi somfazi owomeleleyo kwaye ulungelelanisa izikali zenkathalo.

71. Ndingathanda ukunixelela izinto eziliwaka, kodwa ndiyazi mhlawumbi eli asiloxesha lilungileyo. Zikhuphe zonke iinyembezi ozifunayo; igxalaba lam liya kuhlala lilapha kuwe.

Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uyeke ukukhungatheka ukuze uqale isahluko esitsha. Nikela a indawo ekhuselekileyo yokukhala Kwakhona luhlobo oluthile lothando.

72. Ndihlala ndiqaphela ukuba naphi na apho uya khona, uncumo lwakho lubonakalisa ulonwabo. Ukubona unje kundenza buhlungu nam. Nceda uzame ukukhumbula awona maxesha okonwaba ebomini bakho; Ndiqinisekile ukuba ukuba wenza njalo, baya kulubuyisa olo ncumo ndirhalela ukulubona.

Ubomi bunamaxesha amnandi kunye namaxesha amabi. Sifanele sizame ukwenza amaxesha amnandi rhoqo ebomini bethu, kwaye eli binzana liyasikhuthaza ukuba senze njalo dibanisa nezo nkumbulo.

73. Ubaluleke ngakumbi kwaye ukhethekile kunokuba ucinga. Ungumhlobo wam osenyongweni. Namhlanje ndinokubuza into enye kuni, yaye kukuba niphinde nibe novuyo lwenu ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Kuphantse ukuba yimfuneko ukuhlala unesimo sengqondo esikhuthazayo ebomini. Xa umntu okukhumbuza ngoku ingumntu omthandayo, umyalezo womeleza isimo sakho sengqondo esifanelekileyo. ukuziva uxabisekile.

74. Ubusoloko ukho kum, yinto endihlala ndinayo kwaye ndiya kuhlala ndiyayenza. Undenze ndazibona iziphoso zam ndingaziboni, nam namhlanje ndifuna ukwenza okufanayo nakuwe mhlobo wam osenyongweni.

Ukunceda umntu osweleyo kuyimfuneko xa sele ekuncedile. Eli binzana liyomeleza i ibhondi yokubuyelana kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo.

75. Ubomi buyaqhubeka, kwaye ndikucebisa ngamandla ukuba uqhubeke nentloko yakho iphezulu. Akukho nto ilungileyo ivela ngokuba buhlungu. Gcoba, mhlobo wam!

Ukuba nembono engalunganga ngobomi kuyonakalisa ulonwabo. Oku kubalulekile ukukhumbula, kodwa rhoqo ngokubambisana ... uvelwano kwintlungu yomnye umntu.

76. Sihlobo sam esithandekayo, ndiyazi ukuba awuziva kakuhle kwaye ukhetha ukuba wedwa ngoku. Xa uziva ngcono, ungalibazisi ukuqhagamshelana nam. Uyayazi ndiyakuhlala ndikhona ukukuxhasa.

Indlela entle yokuxelela loo mntu ukuba akayedwa. Ukuhlonipha imfuno yabo yendawo ngelixa benikezela ukufumaneka okuchaphazelekayo Isempilweni kakhulu.

77 Ndicebisa ukuba uhlale uzolile; khumbula ukuba emva kwesiphango, ilanga lihlala liphuma. Xa ucango olunye luvalwa, kuvulwa elinye iwaka. Ndithembe.

Xa indlela ilahlekile, kukho ezinye iindlela ezinokulandelwa. Eli binzana linceda ukugcina i ithemba elisebenzayo.

78. Imingeni yiyo eyenza ubomi bube mnandi, kwaye ukoyisa kuko okwenza ubomi bube nentsingiselo.

Sifunda lukhulu kwiimpazamo esizenzayo. Ukuzoyisa kukukhula, kwaye le ngcamango ivuselela a ukuzithemba okusekelwe ekomeleleni.

79 Womelele ngokuba ubuthathaka; Awoyiki kuba ubusoyika kakade. Udlule ebubini, kwaye unokuyoyisa nale nto.

Uba ngumntu ongcono ukusuka kwelona xesha libi. Kufuneka woyise iimeko ezinzima ukuze ukhule. Eli binzana linika intsingiselo entsha ebomini bakho amanxeba njengomthombo wamandla.

80. Njengomhlobo wakho, ndikucebisa ukuba ubone icala elihle lento eyenzekayo kuwe. Yiloo nto ubomi obumalunga nayo: ukufumana eyona nto ingcono kuyo yonke imeko.

Indlela esiyitolika ngayo into eyenzekayo kuthi kunye nendlela esimelana ngayo nayo ibalulekile ekufundeni kumava amabi. Eli binzana likhuthaza a imbono eyakhayo.

81. Cinga ngendlela obuya kuvuya ngayo ukuba unokuphulukana nayo yonke into onayo ngoku, uze uyifumane.

Umntu uyixabisile into angenayo kwaye akayixabisi into anayo. Lo mbono unceda ukuvusa i mbulelo.

82. Ukhathazeke ngantoni? Ukuba wenze konke okusemandleni akho, ukuxhalaba akusombululi nto.

Into ebalulekileyo kukuba sizame ukuyisombulula, nangona ingeyiyo yonke into exhomekeke kuthi. Eli binzana licebisa ukusuka ukuncuma ngelixa esenza okanye emva kokwamkelwa.

83 Yonke into ibonakala ingwevu ngoku, kodwa hlala ukhumbula ukuba unomntu kum okuthandayo kwaye okuxabisayo. Ungaze ulibale ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndilapha ngenxa yakho.

Kuyamangalisa ukuba nabantu obaziyo ukuba baya kuba lapho kuwe ebunzimeni nasebubini. Loo nkxaso yangaphandle iyakomeleza ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwangaphakathi.

84. Ngomzuzu ngamnye ulusizi, unomsindo, okanye ukhathazekile, ulahlekelwa yimizuzwana engama-60 yolonwabo.

Ngaphandle kokukudimaza, isimo sengqondo esingafanelekanga sikwenza ube ngumntu olusizi. Ayikokukhanyela iimvakalelo, kodwa malunga nokungabanjwa kuzo kunye nokukhuthaza a ukujonga okuhle.

85. Ungumntu owomeleleyo kwaye ubusoloko ungowokuqala ukundikhuthaza ukuze ndingancami. Ngoku lixesha lam lokuba ndikuncede uphume kule meko ukuyo, ndiyakuthanda kakhulu kwaye andifuni kukubona unxunguphele.

Ukuba umntu akazange akulahle xa ubujongene nobunzima, ufanele wenze okufanayo nakuye. Eli binzana ligxininisa i amandla angaphambili omhlobo wakho ukuze ayikhumbule.

86. Ubomi busoloko bunamahla-ndinyuka abo; ama-ups asinika ulonwabo, kwaye ukuhla kusinika ezona zifundo zibalaseleyo. Namhlanje ndifuna wazi mhlobo wam ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndilapha ngenxa yakho kuyo yomibini imizuzwana yobomi bakho.

Akunakwenzeka ukuba uhlale unobomi obufezekileyo. Kodwa sinako ukufunda kumaxesha amabi neempazamo. Eli binzana liyomeleza i ukungabi namiqathango yenkampani yakho.

87. Hlala ukhumbula ukuba unesibindi kunokuba ukholelwa, unamandla kunokuba ubonakala, uhlakaniphile kunokuba ucinga, kwaye umhle kabini njengoko ucinga.

Ngamanye amazwi, musa ukucinga ngeempazamo zakho kwaye uqhubeke ulandela amaphupha akho. Gxininisa imiba ephambili ye ukuzithemba kwihlabathi: isibindi, amandla, ubukrelekrele kunye nobuhle.

88. Zomisa ezo nyembezi kwaye ubonise ihlabathi ukuba ungumfazi oqinileyo. Sihlobo esithandekayo, sonke esikwaziyo siyayazi into owakhiwe ngayo; iinyembezi ozokuphalaza ngomso ziya kuba ziinyembezi zovuyo nentsini.

Izinto zisenokuba namafu. Ngezo zihlandlo, ilizwi elimnandi lokukhuthaza linokukunceda kakhulu.Oku kudibanisa ukuqinisekiswa kokukhala kunye nokujonga kwikamva.

89 Xa kukho into embi eyenzeka kuwe, unokhetho olu-3: mayikuphawule, ikutshabalalise, okanye mayikomeleze.

Sigqiba kwelokuba sifuna ukuhlala sibandezelekile okanye sisibalekele. Eli binzana lisikhuthaza ukuba sikhethe ukhetho olo Khulisa ukukhula kwakho.

90 Ukuba ukhetha ithemba, yonke into iya kwenzeka

Ithemba yinto yokugqibela ukufa, yaye asifanele sililahle. Kwinqanaba lezengqondo, ithemba liyatshisa... inkuthazo yokwenza.

91 Imbandezelo isoloko isifundisa okuthile; ayilolize.

Akukho meko ilusizi engasenza silumke ngakumbi. Lo mbono wenza kube lula ukwamkela i intlungu njengenxalenye engenakuphepheka yobomingaphandle kokutshabalalisa ukuzithemba kwakho.

92. Amaxesha amabi angcono kwinkampani: unokuthembela kum.

Indlela yobuhobe yokunika inkuthazo. Ukukhumbula ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphathe yonke into uwedwa kunciphisa umthwalo weemvakalelo.

93. Akukho ngxaki ingasombululeki ebomini

Yonke into eyenzekayo sisaphila inendlela yokuphuma. Isenokungafezeki, kodwa ikho indlela yokuphuma. Ugcina ingqondo evulekile.

94 Amalungu osapho lwakho akhona ngenxa yakho

Imekobume yentsapho esempilweni isoloko ithomalalisa izithonga. Eli binzana liqinisa olwakho umnatha wenkxaso njengomthombo wokwenene.

95 Ngamaxesha athile kungcono ukushiya izinto zokuphumla

Ukujonga izinto ezimbi ngalo lonke ixesha akulunganga. Ngamanye amaxesha esona sigqibo silungileyo sokuzithemba kwakho kukuba... phumla kwaye uwukhathalele umzimba wakho.

96. Ukumka ukuze ufumane amandla ayisosono

Kufuneka wazi ixesha lokuyeka kwaye uchache. Ukubeka umgama phakathi kwakho nabantu okanye iimeko ezikukhathazayo sisenzo sokuzikhathalela. ukuzikhusela okunempilo.

97. Ukufumana amandla kwakhona kuyasinceda ukuba sijongane nemingeni kwakhona

Ukwazi ixesha lokuyeka asikokusilela, yaye kusinceda senze inkqubela. Ukuyiqonda imida yakho komeleza ukuzithemba kwakho. Ukuzixabisa ngokufanelekileyo.

98. Ungathembela egxalabeni lam ukulila ngalo lonke ixesha ulifuna.

Ingxelo egcweleyo ubuhlobo, ubudlelwane kunye nobudlelwaneUkunika imvume yokulila ikwayindlela yokuqinisekisa iimvakalelo.

99 Iinyembezi eziphalalayo kwimeko enje zithetheleleka ngokupheleleyo.

Kukho izizathu ezivakalayo zokulila. Eli binzana lilwa nombono wokuba ukukhala kubuthathaka kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, kubonisa njenge impendulo esemthethweni.

100. Ungazikhathazi ngento ezayo, ukhathazeke ngokuchacha nokuphumla.

Kufuneka sihlaziyeke ngokwasengqondweni ukuze sibe yeyona nguqulelo yethu. Ngamanye amaxesha isenzo sokwenyani sokuzithanda... Yehlisa isantya.

101. Usuku lunokuba luhle okanye lube lubi, kuxhomekeke kuwe.

Eli binzana liluncedo ekuxhaseni umntu onosuku olubi, kodwa alikhuthazwa xa kujongwe iintlekele zokwenyani okanye ilahleko emandla. Kwiimeko ezifanelekileyo, khumbula i amandla okugxila.

102. IRoma ayakhiwanga ngosuku olunye

Izinto ezinkulu zithatha ixesha. Lubizo oluya... yiba nomonde kuwe kunye neenkqubo zakho zotshintsho.

103. Unamandla ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga

Xa siwazi ngokwenene amandla ethu, asinakuthintelwa. Eli binzana liyakhuthaza Jonga emva kwimbali yakho kwaye uvume impumelelo yakho.

104. Yonke into enexabiso ixabisa imali.

Ibinzana elikhuthaza kakhulu elisifundisa ukubaluleka komgudu. Ngokuphathelele ukuzithemba, iyakuvuma oko Into yokuba inzima ayithethi ukuba awukwazi.kodwa ufanele umsebenzi.

105. Ubomi buqala kwakhona rhoqo ngemizuzu emi-5

Sisoloko sinethuba elitsha lokuba ngolona guqulelo lungcono lwethu. Lo mbono wenza i Ukufuna ngokwakhoUngasoloko uzama kwakhona.

106. Namhlanje yimini yokuqala yobomi bakho bonke

Usuku ngalunye olutsha lusinika ithuba lokuphucula kunye noku chaza kwakhona ukuba sifuna ukuba ngubani.

107. Ukuwa kuvumelekile, ukuphakama kunyanzelekile

Ibinzana elifanelekileyo kakhulu lokunikezela kwabo bahamba ngexesha elinzima. Iyavuma impazamo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye yomeleza uxanduva kuye.

108 Ukuba uhamba esihogweni, musa ukuyeka, qhubeka uhamba

Abo batyhubela kumaxesha anzima kufuneka baqhubeke besilwa ukuze baphumelele. Umbono ngulo ungahlali ubambekile kwintlungu.

109 Kukho into ngawe efunwa lihlabathi.

Ibinzana elikhuthazayo kakhulu lokunceda umntu abone okulungileyo abanako ngaphakathi. Yomeleza imvakalelo ye injongo yomntu.

110. Emva kwesaqhwithi kusoloko kufika ukuzola

Ngomzamo kunye nokunyamezela, siya kufezekisa amaxesha amnandi emva kokoyisa ukusilela. Sisikhumbuzo sakudala se esperanza.

111 Ubusuku buhlala bubumnyama nje ngaphambi kokusa

Ibinzana elinombongo kakhulu elithetha nathi ngethemba kunye nokusebenza nzima ngamaxesha obunzima. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa yonke into ibonakala imbi kakhulu, kungenxa yokuba ... malunga nokutsiba.

112. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ucotha kangakanani na, ukuba nje ungayeki.

Ibinzana elikhuthazayo kakhulu kumntu ofuna ukukhuthazwa. Isantya sinokutshintsha, kodwa into egcina ukuzithemba kwakho kuku ukunyanzelwa.

113. Sihamba kancinci kuba sisiya kude

Sonke simele sikhumbule ukuba umgudu oqhubekayo usoloko uvelisa imiphumo emihle. Betha kuyo. umbono wexesha elide.

114. Ukuzithemba kwimpumelelo ngumba wokuphumelela

Kungokuzithemba kuphela siya kuphumeza yonke into ebesizimisele ukuyenza. Ukholo kwiziphiwo zakho zinefuthe lakho izigqibo kunye nokuziphatha.

115. Nali icebiso endakha ndaliva omnye umfana elinikela: “Ngalo lonke ixesha yenza oko ukoyikayo ukukwenza.”

Ifilosofi uRalph Waldo wabelane ngeendidi ezininzi zeengcaphuno ezikhuthazayo ukuze asikhuthaze kwaye asincede siphucule. Le iyakukhuthaza ukuba jongana noloyiko lwakho ukwandisa ubomi bakho.

116. Phambi kokuba unikezele, khumbula ukuba kwakutheni ukuze uqale.

Ngamanye amaxesha siyakuphepha ukunikezela xa sikhumbula iinjongo zethu. Qhagamshelana neyakho intshukumisa enzulu ivuselela amandla.

117. Akukaze kube mva kakhulu ukutshintsha ubomi bakho

Sonke singaphucula yonke imihla, kwaye awukhe ukhule kakhulu ukuba wenze njalo. Eli binzana lichasene ne inkolelo yokuba sele kusemva kwexesha kakhulu.

118. Konke ukungaphumeleli sesinye isahluko ebomini bethu kwaye sisifundo esisinceda ukuba sikhule

Akukho nto isifundisa ngakumbi ngobomi kunye noloyiso kunokusilela. Jika yonke into yokuwa imathiriyeli yokufunda Kukomeleza kakhulu ukuzithemba kwakho.

119 Oyena mkhulu asinguye ongasileliyo, kodwa ngulowo unganikezeliyo.

Zimbalwa iimpawu eziqinisekisa ukuba impumelelo isondele njengokungaguquguquki. Eli binzana ligxininisa i ukuxhathisa ngokweemvakalelohayi kwimfezeko.

120. Xa ubomi bukuwisa, zama ukuhlala ngomqolo wakho. Kuba ukuba unokukhangela phezulu, ungaphinda uvuke.

Isicatshulwa esihle malunga nokoyisa ubunzima obuya kukhuthaza ngokungathandabuzekiyo nabani na ofuna amazwi enkxaso. Ishwankathela ingcamango ukuba nje ugcina ithemba elithileUngabuyela ngeenyawo zakho.

121. Amandla oyisa bonke ubunzima

Into ekufuneka siyikhumbule ngamaxesha onke, nanini na xa kuvela ubunzima: ukudibanisa amandla kunye ukuzikhathalela kunye nenkxaso Yifomula enamandla.

122 Kukho into ngawe efunwa lihlabathi.

Ibinzana elixhasayo nelithuthuzelayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo liya kukhuthaza abaninzi. Ukuxabisa igalelo lakho elilodwa Kukonyusa kakhulu ukuzithemba.

123. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ucotha kangakanani na, ukuba nje ungayeki.

Ukunyamezela nokunganikezeli kumlo zezona zinto zimbini zinokusinceda sifezekise yonke into ebesizimisele ukuyenza, sisomeleza ukholo lwethu. ukuzithemba kwangaphakathi.

124. Kutheni sisiwa nje? Ukufunda indlela yokubuyela umva

Oko, kwaye akukho nto yimbi, yiyo kuphela iresiphi yempumelelo. Eli binzana liyasikhuthaza ukuba sibone ukuwa ngakunye njengethuba. inxalenye yoqeqesho.

125. Nali icebiso endakha ndaliva omnye umfana elinikela: “Ngalo lonke ixesha yenza oko ukoyikayo ukukwenza

Esi sicatshulwa sikaRalph Waldo Emerson sikhuthaza ukuba sijongane noloyiko lwethu kwaye silusebenzise njengekhampasi. ukukhula komntu.

126 Ubusuku buhlala bubumnyama nje ngaphambi kokusa

Ibinzana elinokuthi lisikhuthaze kwaye lisincede siqonde ukuba akufuneki silahle ithemba. Inamandla amakhulu xa uziva ukuba awusenakuyithatha kwakhona.

127 Ngamanye amaxesha awuwaqondi amandla akho de ujongane nobona buthathaka bakho

Ukuzazi kakuhle linyathelo lokuqala lempumelelo ebomini. Ukuzixabisa okukhulileyo kuvela ekwamkeleni amandla akho kunye nobuthathaka bakho. izibane njengethunzi lakho.

128 Apho kukho umyolelo, kukho indlela

Ukuthanda komntu kunokusinceda senze izinto esingenakuzicingela. Eli binzana lilula lisikhumbuza ngendima ka... umnqweno onzulu kutshintsho.

129. Iyamangalisa indlela amandla anamandla okwakha ngayo iindonga

Amandla atshabalalisa i-taboos kunye ne-complexes. Ukwalathisa amandla akho kwi Zikhathalele ngundoqo.

130. Awungolahleki de uncame

Kubalulekile ukukhumbuza nabani na onokuba phakathi komzabalazo onzima woku. Okoko uqhubeka uzama, yakho Ibali alikapheli..

131 Ndingumthetheli wekamva lam, Ndingumthetheli womphefumlo wam

Esi sicatshulwa sikaNelson Mandela, owaphila ubomi obuzele bubunzima, singasinceda ukuba siveze eyona nto ilungileyo kuthi ngokusikhumbuza ukuba inkululeko yangaphakathi naphantsi kweemeko ezinzima.

132. Amandla awaveli ekuphumeleleni. Imizabalazo yakho ikhulisa amandla akho. Xa ujongene nobunzima kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokunganikezeli, ngamandla lawo.

Ukunyamezela sesinye sezitshixo zokufumana impumelelo. Eli binzana lichaza ngokutsha... amandla njengenkqubokungekhona njengokungabikho kokuwa.

133 NguThixo owenzela amagorha akhe anzima

Ibinzana lenkuthazo elinokunceda abahlobo bethu abakholwayo baphinde batolike ubunzima njenge imisebenzi yokukhula.

134 Vuka rhoqo kusasa kwaye uzixelele ukuba ungayenza

Kungale ndlela kuphela esiya kufezekisa amaphupha ethu. Qala usuku nge isiqinisekiso esilungileyo Itshintsha ithoni yayo yonke enye into.

135 Amandla akuwe;

Umgaqo onokusinceda sifezekise nantoni na esiyinqwenelayo. Sisikhumbuzo sokuba wena umthombo wamandla Ayiphumanga.

136 Zonke iimpumelelo ezinkulu ziqala ngamandla

Ibinzana esinokulinikezela kumntu ohamba ngexesha elinzima ukubakhumbuza ukuba, nokuba abaziva bekwazi ngoku, isigqibo sangaphakathi Linyathelo lokuqala.

137 Unamandla phezu kwengqondo yakho, kungekhona phezu kweziganeko. Qaphela oku kwaye uya kufumana amandla.

Xa siqonda amandla esinawo, asinakuthintelwa. Eli binzana lidibana nombono we uxanduva lweemvakalelo.

138 Kwanako oku kuya kudlula

Njengamanye amaxesha amaninzi anzima ekusenokwenzeka ukuba siye sajamelana nawo, ukukhumbula ukuba yonke into yeyokwexeshana kusinceda sinyamezele esperanza.

139 Onke amaphupha ethu anokuzaliseka ukuba sinenkalipho yokuwasukela.

Umgaqo awayephila ngawo uWalt Disney, kwaye wafumana impumelelo ebomini bakhe. Idibanisa iphupha kunye nesenzo.

140. Imfihlelo yenkuthazo yobuqu inokushwankathelwa kwii-Cs ezine: ukufuna ukwazi, ukuzithemba, inkalipho, nokuzingisa.

Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, iresiphi eluncedo ngokwenene ebomini. Bonke bondla i ukuzithemba okusempilweni.

141 Yonke into ibonakala ingenakwenzeka de yenzekile. (uNelson Mandela)

Kusikhumbuza ukuba izinto ezininzi zibonakala zingenakufikeleleka, kodwa ngomgudu nokuzimisela zifikelelwa ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva. Iyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze njalo Ungathintelwa yimbonakalo yokuqala.

142. Ukungaphumeleli lithuba kuphela lokuqala kwakhona ngobukrelekrele ngakumbi. (UHenry Ford)

Umyalezo osikhuthazayo ukuba sibone iimpazamo njengamathuba okuphucula nokuya phambili, ukomeleza ukuzithemba kubuchule bakho bokufunda.

143. Ungavumeli uloyiko lokusilela kukuthintele ekudlaleni umdlalo (Babe Ruth)

Lo mdlali webhola ekhatywayo udumileyo uyasikhuthaza ukuba singavumeli uloyiko lokungaphumeleli lusitheze amandla, kodwa siqhubeke sizama. Lukhuselo lwe nobuganga.

144. Ukuba ungayiphupha, ungayifumana (Walt Disney)

Umyalezo okhuthazayo wokukholelwa kumaphupha ethu kwaye siwasebenzele, ukuqinisa kubonwa ukuzimela.

145. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ucotha kangakanani na, ukuba nje ungayeki. (Confucius)

Ibalaselisa ukubaluleka kokunyamezela nokuzimisela, kwanaxa inkqubela icotha. Ukuzithemba kukhula ngakumbi ngenyathelo ngalinye. inkqubela encinci.

146 Ekuphela komda wokuzaliseka kwethu ngomso ngamathandabuzo ethu namhlanje. (uFranklin D. Roosevelt)

Kusikhuthaza ukuba siyeke ukuthandabuza nokungaqiniseki, ekubeni ezi kuphela kwezinto ezisibuyisela umva kwindlela yethu esa empumelelweni. Ukusebenzela incoko yangaphakathi Ibalulekile.

147. Kholelwa ukuba unako kwaye uya kuba sesiqingatha sendlela apho. (Theodore Roosevelt)

Ubethelela ukuba ukuzithemba linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokufikelela usukelo. Ukukholelwa kuyadala ukukulungela ukwenza.

148. Ubomi buyi-10% into eyenzekayo kuwe kunye ne-90% indlela osabela ngayo kubo (Charles R. Swindoll)

Kusikhumbuza ukuba isimo sethu sengqondo malunga neenkxwaleko sibaluleke ngakumbi kunenkxwaleko ngokwayo, isomeleza ukholo lwethu. uxanduva lweemvakalelo.

149. Xa yonke into ibonakala ichasene nawe, khumbula ukuba inqwelomoya isuka emoyeni, hayi nawo. (UHenry Ford)

Isafobe esisikhuthaza ukuba siqhubeke nokuba iimeko zibonakala zimbi. Inxalenye enzima ingaba yi impembelelo yokuqala ufuna ntoni

150. Impumelelo sisimbuku semizamo emincinci ephindaphindwayo imihla ngemihla (Robert Collier)

Igxininisa ukubaluleka kokungaguquguquki kunye nomzamo wemihla ngemihla wokufumana impumelelo kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi. Zonke izenzo zihambelana nokuzikhathalela kwakho. khulisa ukuzithemba kwakho.

151 Inkalipho ayisoloko igquma. Ngamanye amaxesha lilizwi elincinci ekupheleni kosuku elithi, "Ndiza kuphinda ndizame ngomso." (UMary Anne Radmacher)

Umfanekiso omhle osifundisa ukuba inkalipho yokwenene ikwafumaneka ekuzingiseni, kungekuphela nje kwizenzo ezizukileyo nezibonakalayo.

152 Nakubeni namhlanje yonke into ibonakala imnyama, khumbula ukuba nobona busuku bude buphela ngokusa (Isaci)

Isafobe esilula kodwa esinamandla ukusikhumbuza ukuba intlungu ayihlali ngonaphakade. Yiiankile ye esperanza ngamaxesha obunzima.

153 Anizizo iimpazamo zenu, ningezizo iintsilelo zenu;

Ilungele abo baziva bonganyelwe ziimpazamo zangaphambili. Ukukhula kuvela ekuqhubeleni phambili. imfesane ngakuwe.

154. Usizi alulophawu lobuthathaka, kodwa luyinxalenye yendlela eya empilweni (Anonymous)

Ukwamkela iimvakalelo zethu linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokuzoyisa nokomelela. Ukuqinisekisa i usizi njengenxalenye yenkqubo Ikhusela ukuzithemba.

155. Xa ungakwazi ukubaleka, hamba. Xa ungakwazi ukuhamba, yima. Kodwa ungaze urhoxe. (Ongaziwayo)

Ibinzana elisikhumbuza ngokubaluleka kokuhlala kwikhosi, nokuba inkqubela encinci. Inyaniso elula ye Yima Oko sele kuyimpumelelo.

156. Uyakwazi ukunyamezela ngaphezu kokuba ukholelwa, kwaye ufanelwe kakhulu kunokuba ucinga. (Ongaziwayo)

Umyalezo wokukhulisa ukuzithemba kwaye ukukhumbuze ngexabiso lakho lobuqu xa ukudinga kakhulu. Iyakumema ukuba banzi umfanekiso onawo ngawe.

157. Ayiyiyo yonke into eqhekekileyo etshatyalaliswayo: ngamanye amaxesha iphinda yakhiwe yomelele kwaye ibe ntle ngakumbi (Inspired by kintsugi)

Ingcamango edlulisela ukuba namanxeba angakhokelela kwinguqulelo epheleleyo yethu, njengodongwe olulungiswe ngegolide.

158. Nezona ntyatyambo zintle zikhule emva kobusika obunzima (Akuchazwanga)

Isifaniso esigqibeleleyo kumntu ohamba ngexesha elinzima kwaye kufuneka akhumbule ukuba intwasahlobo ngokweemvakalelo iza kufika.

159. Ungaze ube neentloni ukuqala ngokutsha. Ngamanye amaxesha, yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana indlela yakho yokwenyani. (Ongaziwayo)

Isimemo sokujonga ukuqalisa kwakhona njenge mathubahayi njengokusilela, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuzithemba kwabantu abadala.

160. Sukulinda ukuba yonke into igqibelele phambi kokuba uqalise. Ngamanye amaxesha, inyathelo lokuqala lithathwa ngoloyiko, kwaye oko kulungile. (uBertrand Regader)

Ibinzana elisikhumbuza ukuba ukukhula komntu akuqali xa iingxaki ziphela, kodwa xa sithatha isigqibo jongana nabo ngenkalipho.

Yintoni inkuthazo kwaye inxulumene njani nokuzithemba?

Ukukhuthaza Kuthetha ukuzama ukuphembelela isimo sengqondo somntu, okanye esakhe, ukwenza ngendlela ethile, ukufeza usukelo oluthile, okanye ukuphucula indlela asebenza ngayo. Inkuthazo ngamandla aqhubayo, kunye nokuzithemba, kusiqhubela ukuba siphume ebhedini, sijongane nemingeni, siqale iiprojekthi, kwaye sizikhathalele.

Kwakhona siyakhuthaza ngenjongo yokuvuselela, ukukhuthaza, okanye ukuvuselela umdla othile. Ngamanye amaxesha, ibinzana elinye linokuthi livuthe intlantsi elisikhumbuza ukuba singoobani kwaye yintoni esikwaziyo ukuyenza.

Ukufezekisa oku, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa a ibinzana lenkuthazo ifanele le njongo siyisukelayo: akufani nokukhuthaza umntu ongaphumelelanga kwiimviwo njengomntu okwixesha lokuzila, okanye ibinzana elithi emntwaneni alifani nelomntu omdala osengxakini yobomi.

Amabinzana akhuthazayo: yintoni na kwaye asetyenziswe nini

Sizisebenzisa ngenjongo yokuphembelela isimo sengqondo somnye umntu, izigqibo, okanye izenzo, okanye indlela esivakalelwa ngayo, isimo sengqondo nozimiselo lwethu. Ibinzana elifundwayo ngexesha elifanelekileyo linokuba luhlobo "iiankile yengqondo"esibuyela kuyo xa izinto ziba nzima."

La ibinzana lenkuthazo Uhlobo lomyalezo esiwusebenzisayo luya kuxhomekeka ekubeni ngowabani na, umxholo kunye nenjongo yethu kanye. Yiyo loo nto eli nqaku libandakanya amacandelo athile malunga nokuzithemba, ukuzithanda, abahlobo, abantwana, umsebenzi, ukwenza izigqibo, kunye nokunye.

Imizekelo yamabinzana akhuthazayo ngokwenjongo

Kukho iimeko apho kufuneka sicele uxolo, iimeko apho kufuneka sithi enkosi, namaxesha apho sifuna ukukhumbuza umntu ngendlela esimkhumbula ngayo okanye indlela esimthanda ngayo. Kukwanjalo nakwinkuthazo: umxholo ngamnye ufuna inkuthazo ethile. amagama ahlukeneyo kunye nama-nuances.

Zininzi iimeko esinokuzifumana kuzo sifuna ukukhuthaza ezethu okanye intshukumisa zabanye. Nangona zininzi iinketho kunye namabinzana anokwenzeka, sinokwahlula amabinzana akhuthazayo ngokwamaqela amathathu aphambili:

• Amabinzana amafutshane akhuthazayo: ilungele imiyalezo ekhawulezayo, amanani, izikhumbuzo zemihla ngemihla.
• Amabinzana akhuthazayo ukuphucula ukuzithemba: igxile kwixabiso lomntu, ukuzamkela, kunye nokuzithemba.
• Amabinzana akhuthazayo omsebenzi okanye iinjongo: igxile kumzamo, ukukhula, kunye neenjongo zobungcali okanye imfundo.

Le eminye yemizekelo ye ibinzana elikhuthaza onokuyisebenzisa ukuba ufuna ukukhuthaza umhlobo ngomyalezo omfutshane, ukuba ufuna ukukhulisa ukuzithemba komntu, okanye ukuba ufuna ukukhuthaza umntu osebenza naye.

Amabinzana amafutshane akhuthazayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla

Kuninzi kunokuthethwa ngamagama ambalwa. Ukuba sifuna ukukhuthaza okanye ukukhuthaza umntu ngomyalezo omfutshane, amabinzana amafutshane afanelekile kuwo. khumbula nangaliphi na ixesha kunye nokusetyenziswa njengemantra yobuqu.

• "Uyamangalisa njengoko uzivumela ukuba ube."
• "Uyazi ngaphezu kokuba ucinga ukuba uyazi."
• "Yinyanisekile kwinto ekhoyo ngaphakathi kwakho."
• "Yiba ligorha lobomi bakho, hayi ixhoba."
• "Ukhethekile, kwaye oko kukwenza umangalise."
• "Yintoni eyenza ukuba uhluke ikwenza ube mhle."
• "Yile nto uyenzayo, hayi le uthi uya kuyenza."
• "Yonke into ifanelekile ukuba ikwenza uncume."
• "Nguwe kuphela ukhuphiswano lwakho."
• "Isitshixo sokuphumelela ebomini kukukholelwa kuwe."

Ezi ngcamango zimfutshane zilula ukudibanisa njenge iziqinisekiso zemihla ngemihlaUnokuzibhala kumanqaku e-post-it, uwabeke njengemvelaphi yefowuni yakho, okanye uwacengceleze rhoqo kusasa phambi kwesipili.

Amabinzana akhuthazayo ukuphucula ukuzithemba

Zininzi iindlela zokuzama ukuphucula ukuzithemba kwethu kunye nokuzithanda. Enye yazo kukukhathalela incoko yethu yangaphakathi: ukuyeka ukuthetha nathi ngokugxeka kabukhali kwaye siqale ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluqondayo ngakumbi, olukhuthazayo kunye nolwenyani.

Obunye ubuchule bubandakanya ukuzikhumbuza ngezinto esiziphumezileyo, ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, nokuzikhuthaza ngamabinzana asinceda sifumane inkuthazo nenkxaso. Nantsi eminye imizekelo ye amabinzana afanelekileyo osincedayo ukuba someleze ukuqonda kwethu.

• "Wanele njengoko unjalo; awudingi mvume yamntu ukuba ukhanye."
• "Oyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho nguwe, hlala uzinyamekela kwaye uzihloniphe."
• "Musa ukuzithelekisa nabanye, ukhuphiswano lwakho kuphela nguwe."
• "Yonke imihla yithuba elitsha lokukuthanda ngakumbi nangcono."
• "Musa ukufuna ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle, ulonwabo lokwenene luzalwa ngaphakathi kwakho."
• "Zithande nangeentsuku zakho ezinzima kakhulu; ufanelwe uthando nentlonipho."
• "Akudingeki ukuba ufezeke ukuze ube nexabiso, sele unjengoko unjalo."
• "Funda ukuthi 'hayi' ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala; ukuzinyamekela nako yinto ephambili."
• "Ilizwi lakho, izimvo zakho, kunye nobukho bakho zibalulekile, ungaze uyilibale loo nto."
• "Ukuzithemba kwakhiwa yonke imihla kunye nezenzo ezincinci zokuzithanda."

Ukuba uzisebenzisa yonke imihla njengoko uqinisekisoBanokukunceda ukuba uthabathel’ indawo iingcinga ezizenzekelayo eziyingozi uze ucinge ngezokwenene nezinovelwano.

Amabinzana okunyusa ukuzithemba komhlobo

Ngaba kufuneka umxhase umhlobo wakho osenyongweni? Ngaba iqabane lakho liziva liphantsi emva kokuba kukho into ecaphukisayo? Kule meko, iimpawu kufuneka zihambelane. uvelwano, ukuncoma, kunye nethembaEminye imibono ephefumlelwe luqulunqo olukhethekileyo:

• "Uyamangalisa, unamandla, kwaye uyamangalisa; abanye mababone yonke into oyixabisayo."
• "Ziqhelanise nokuzibona unothando olufanayo nolo ujonga ngalo abantu obathandayo."
• "Akukho mntu ubalulekileyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba achithe ubomi bakho."
• "Vuka, uncume ebomini kwaye uqhubeke nendlela yakho; ayiloxesha lokulila, lixesha lokuya phambili kwaye wonwabe."
• "Ncuma, yazisa wonke umntu ukuba namhlanje unamandla kunayizolo."
• "Kusoloko kukho umntu okuthandayo kanye ngale ndlela uyiyo. Ngamanye amaxesha akufanelekanga ukutshintsha."
• "Ukuba yinyani kuthetha ukungadingi mvume yabanye ukuze uzive ulungile ngento oyenzayo."
• "Funda ukuzithanda kwaye akukho mntu uya kuze akwazi ukukwenzakalisa."
• "Tyala yonke into onokuyenza kuwe. Khumbula ukuba eyona projekthi yakho ibalulekileyo nguwe."
• "Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngumntu okhethekileyo? Yiba nguwe."

Ukongeza kokuthumela la mabinzana, kubalulekile ukuba umhlobo wakho azive engakwazi thetha ungagwetywaelixabisa ixesha lakho kwaye awuzami ukungxamela inkqubo yabo, kodwa ukhaphe.

Amabinzana okuphucula ukuzithemba komntwana

Abantwana bakwafuna amazwi enkxaso nokhuthazo ukuze bakhule bonwabile. Amabinzana kubo afanele acace, alula, kwaye abe nentsingiselo. umyalezo okhuthazayo ngokubaluleka kwawo, amandla awo, nelungelo lawo lokwenza iimpazamo.

• "Musa ukuzithelekisa nabani na, uhlukile."
• "Ungafika naphi na apho ufuna khona."
• "Awusoze wazi into onokuyenza ukuba awuzami."
• "Ukuba udiniwe, funda ukuphumla, ungayeki."
• "Ubomi buya kuphosa imiqobo endleleni yakho, kodwa uya kuhlala ubeka imida yakho."
• "Jonga kwisibuko kwaye uqaphele indlela omangalisa ngayo."
• "Ubusuku ngabunye ndathetha la mazwi mabini: 'Ndiyoyikeka.'
• "Unamandla amakhulu."
• "Mamela intliziyo yakho; inokuninzi okanye ngaphezulu yokukuxelela kunentloko yakho."
• "Ndiyakuthemba njengoko ungazithemba."

Ukudibanisa la mabinzana kubomi bemihla ngemihla (ngexesha lokulala, xa befumana ibakala elihle, xa benza umgudu nokuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle) ukuzithemba ngamandla ebuntwaneni.

Ukuzithanda kunye nokuzithemba ucaphula ukuphilisa intliziyo

Xa sithetha ngokuzithemba, akunakwenzeka ukuba singathethi ukuzithandaAkunjalo nje ngokuthanda oko sikubona esipilini, kodwa nangokuziva mnandi ngobuntu bethu, ukuziphatha kwethu, kunye nemilinganiselo yethu.

Zonke iinkalo zakho, nokuba zibonakala zincinci kangakanani, ziyinxalenye yokuba ungubani, kwaye loo mntu uya kuba nawe ubomi bakho bonke. Ibalulekile. khulisa ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye ube ngoyena mntu ungconoKwaye ngenxa yoko, amabinzana azithandayo anokuba sisikhumbuzo esihle.

• "Ukuzithanda kungumthombo walo lonke uthando."
• "Zithande wena, ngobomi. Kwaye ke nabani na ofuna."
• "Ukuzithanda akuzicingeli, izinto zokuqala kuqala."
• "Kufuneka uzithande ukuze uzithande, uzihloniphe ukuze uzihloniphe, uzixabise ukuze uzixabise, uzamkele ukuze ukwamkele."
• "Ndimninzi, ndixabiseke kakhulu, kwaye ndifanelwe kakhulu."
• "Andingomfazi wobomi bakho, ndingumfazi wam."
• "Umzimba wam ngowam ndedwa: ndiyawukhusela kwaye ndiyawonwabela."
• "Xa ndisusa umntu ebomini bam, akuthethi ukuba ndiyamcaphukela, oko kuthetha ukuba ndiyazihlonela."
• "Indlela ozithanda ngayo yindlela ofundisa ngayo abanye ukuba bakuthande."
• "Ibhalansi malunga nokungavumeli nabani na ukuba akuthande ngaphantsi kokuba uzithanda wena."

La mabinzana aluncedo ngakumbi emva kokwahlukana, ngamaxesha apho uziva ukuba uzilibele ngokubeka phambili abanye abantu, okanye xa uzifumana usamkela. ubudlelwane okonakalisa ukuzixabisa kwakho.

Amabinzana okukholelwa kuwe kwaye wenze izigqibo ngokuzithemba

Ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba kunxulumene ngokusondeleyo: xa uzixabisa, ukholelwa kuwe kunye nobuchule bakho. Kodwa ukuzithemba komelezwa zizenzo: okukhona unesibindi sokuthatha isigqibo kunye nokwenza, kokukhona ufumana ukuzithemba. Ungqina kwingqondo yakho ukuba uyakwazi.

Nanga amanye amabinzana ayilelwe ngokukodwa ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye akuncede wenze izigqibo ezizithembileyo:

• "Kholelwa kuwe nakuko konke okuko. Yazi ukuba kukho into engaphakathi kuwe enkulu kunawo nawuphi na umqobo."
• "Ukuzithemba kuyimfihlelo yokuqala yempumelelo."
• "Kufuneka ulindele izinto kuwe ngaphambi kokuba uzenze."
• "Yenza ngathi into oyenzayo yenza umahluko.
• "Ukuzithemba akuveli ngokuhlala kulungile, kodwa ekubeni ungoyiki ukungalunganga."
• "Akukho sigqibo sigqibeleleyo, kodwa kukho esigqibeleleyo kuwe."
• "Ukukwazi kwakho ukwenza isigqibo kunamandla ngakumbi kunakuphi na ukuthandabuza."
• "Awudingi siqinisekiso esipheleleyo sokuthatha inyathelo eliqinileyo."
• "Zonke izigqibo ozenzayo yingxelo yokuba ufuna ukuba ngubani."
• "Ukwenza isigqibo ngenxa yokwesaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ukwenza oko ngesibindi kuguqula."

Ezi ngcamango zinokuphinda-phinda phambi kodliwano-ndlebe, incoko enzima, utshintsho lomsebenzi, okanye nayiphi na imeko ovakalelwa kukuba yakho ilizwi langaphakathi lizalisa amathandabuzo.

Izicwangciso ezisebenzayo zokuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokwenza uninzi lwamabinzana

Ukufunda amabinzana amnandi kuyancedaKodwa utshintsho lokwenyani luza xa i dibanisa kwindlela yakho kwaye ubakhapha ngezenzo. Ukuba uziva ukuzithemba kwakho kuphantsi, unokudibanisa amabinzana akweli nqaku kunye amaqhinga abambekayo:

• Qaphela incoko yakho yangaphakathi: qaphela xa uthetha rhabaxa kwaye ubeke elinye lamabinzana azithandayo owafundileyo.
• Yenza ijenali yokuzithandaBusuku ngabunye, bhala ibinzana eliye lakuchukumisa uze ubhale phantsi imeko ethile ukususela kusuku onokulisebenzisa ngalo.
• Zijikeleze ngabantu abakuphakamisayo.Hlala usondele kwabo bakuxhasayo kwaye uzikhwebule kwabo bathoba ixabiso lakho.
• bhiyozela impumelelo yakho: uyaliqonda kwaye alixabise inyathelo ngalinye elincinane eliya phambili, nokuba libonakala lingabalulekanga kangakanani na.
• ziqhelise ukuzikhathalelaUkutya kakuhle, ukulala ngokwaneleyo, nokwenza umthambo kuyayiphucula impilo yakho yeemvakalelo, kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuzithemba kwakho.
• Misela imida efanelekileyoFunda ukuthi "hayi" ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala kwaye ubeke phambili impilo-ntle yakho yeemvakalelo.
• Zamkele iimpazamo zakho njengenxalenye yokufunda.Akukho mntu ufezekileyo, yonke impazamo lithuba lokukhula.
• Cela umngeni uloyiko lwakhoPhuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kancinci kancinci kwaye uya kubona indlela ukuzithemba kwakho kunyuka ngayo.
• Funda into entshaUkuziva uphumelele kunye nokukhula komntu kuqinisa ukuzithemba.
• Funa uncedo lwengcali ukuba uyalufunaIngcali yezengqondo okanye ingcali yokunyanga inokukukhokela ngendlela eyeyakho.

Amabinzana owafundileyo anokusebenza njenge qalisa ukucamngca Kwisicwangciso ngasinye kwezi: khetha enye ehambelana nomkhwa ofuna ukusebenza kuwo kwaye uyisebenzise njengesaci sakho ngelixa usiphumeza.

Ukuzithemba ngamandla aqhubayo asinika amandla okukholelwa kuthi kwaye sijongane nobomi ngokuzithemba. Amabinzana akweli nqaku enzelwe ukukukhapha kolu hambo: ukukukhumbuza ukubaluleka kwakho xa ulibele, ukukomeleza xa usokola ukuqalisa, nokunceda ukuba uthethe nawe ngobubele obungakumbi suku ngalunye. Zigcine, wabelane ngazo, kwaye ngaphezu kwakho konke, ziqhelise kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla Isenokuba sisiqalo solwalamano olusempilweni, olunentlonipho ngakumbi, nolunothando nawe.