Kangangexesha elide bebengahoywa lucalucalulo lwentlalo olwaluphawula ulandelelwano lwexesha; nangona kunjalo, nangona ubunzima beendlela kunye nemida emininzi ababephantsi kwayo, abafazi abaninzi baphakamisa ilizwi labo, bahlala kwiindawo ezingavumelekanga kwaye babonakala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo apho kwakucingelwa ukuba abanakukwenza oko.
Ngenxa yabo, abafazi namhlanje bayonwabela kakhulu inkululeko, yokukhula ukwamkelwa ekuhlaleni kunye nokuninzi amathuba okwenene ukuthatha inxaxheba kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bukawonke-wonke nobabucala. Izenzo zabo zenze umahluko, zishiya uphawu olukhulu kwihlabathi kwaye zidala ilifa lempembelelo elihlala likho. Okulandelayo, Sikubonisa amabinzana awona mabhinqa adumileyo ngalo lonke ixesha, ehamba nomxholo kunye nokucamngca ukuze kusetyenziswe amandla ayo apheleleyo okuguqula izinto.
Kutheni iingcaphuno ezivela kubafazi abadumileyo zinamandla kangaka?
Amazwi angaba yinto yokwenene isixhobo sokutshintshaKuyo yonke imbali, abafazi abaninzi baye bafumana indlela yokubhala, iintetho zasesidlangalaleni, okanye amava abo uqhankqalazo, silwe y ukuxhobisaAmabinzana akhe awangomazwi amnandi nje kuphela: zizishwankathelo zamava, izimvo, kunye neemfazwe zobuqu ezikhuthaza izigidi zabantu.
Kwintsimi ye inzululwazi, i literatura, i políticaukusuka ubugcisa okanye ze amalungelo oluntuAba bafazi basebenzise amazwi abo ukuvula iingcango nokuchasa imigangatho. Kwabaninzi babo, ukubhala kwakuthetha ukungena kwindawo apho babenokugxeka khona ukungabikho kobulungisa, babelane ngembono yabo yehlabathi, kwaye bafune amathuba alinganayo.
Uncwadi, ngokukodwa, lwaba yindawo yokukhosela nesixhobo. Ababhali abaninzi abangabasetyhini baguqula isenzo sokubhala saba yindlela ukuzihlolisisa nzuluindlela yokuphonononga iimvakalelo zabo, iintlungu zabo, kunye namathemba abo. Ngeencwadi zabo, iileta, iidayari, kunye nemibongo, bashiye imiyalezo esivumela ukuba siqonde ngcono ixesha labo kunye nelethu.
Ezi ngcaphuno ezivela kubafazi abadumileyo zikwasikhumbuza ukuba inkqubela phambili ayiyonto eyenzeka ngamabona-ndenzile: emva kwayo yonke inkqubela phambili yokulingana kukho ibali ukumelana, de ukungahambelani kunye isibindiNgokuzifunda nokuziphinda-phinda, siqhagamshelana nothotho lwamazwi olusasazeka kuzo zonke izizukulwana.
Ngoko ke, le ngqokelela ayisiyongqokelela nje yeengcaphuno. Yisimemo sokuqonda ukuba bangoobani aba bafazi, babemele ntoni, kwaye iingcamango zabo zidibana njani nemizabalazo yangoku yabasetyhini, ukuqatshelwa kwamalungelo oluntu, kunye nokufuna uluntu olunobulungisa ngokwenene.
Uluhlu lwebinzana labasetyhini elidumileyo ngalo lonke ixesha
Apha ngezantsi uza kufumana abafazi abenze imbali kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo. Ecaleni kwabo, uza kubona ezinye zeengcaphuno zabo ezimele kakhulu kunye nomxholo omfutshane ukuze uqonde ngcono impembelelo yazo kwaye ufunde indlela yokuzisebenzisa ebomini bakho.
UMarie Curie: Ingcali yezekhemikhali kunye nefiziksi eyaziwayo eyazalelwa ePoland eyafumanisa i-radium kunye ne-polonium, kwaye ingomnye wabantu abambalwa abafumene iMbasa yeNobel kwiindidi ezimbini. Wayengumfazi wokuqala ukuba noprofesa opheleleyo kwiYunivesithi yaseParis, ephula imiqobo emininzi. uphahla lweglasi kwicandelo lezenzululwazi.
- Akukho mfuneko yokoyika, kufuneka nje uqonde.
- Obona bomi bulungileyo ayibobude obude, kodwa obona butyebileyo kwizenzo ezilungileyo.
- Ubuntu bufuna amadoda asebenzayo awenza owona msebenzi wawo, kwaye ngubani, ngaphandle kokulibala ukulunga ngokubanzi, okhathalele iimfuno zabo. Kodwa ubuntu buyafuna namaphupha abo ukukhula kwabo ngokungazingci komnqweno wabo kuthimba kangangokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba babuyisele ingqalelo yabo kwinzuzo yabo yezinto eziphathekayo.
Amazwi kaMarie Curie agxininisa ukubaluleka ulwazi njengeyeza lokuthintela uloyiko kwaye bafuna ulungelelwano phakathi ukusebenza y umbonoZiqulathe ubizo olucacileyo lokuhlakulela ingqondo kunye nomdla kwinto esishukumisayo.
UGeorge Sand: U-Amantine Dupin, umbhali waseFransi, ukhunjulwa ngokunxiba iimpahla zamadoda nokusebenzisa igama elingelolakhe uGeorge Sand ukuze afikelele kwimibuthano yeengqondi yaseParis awayengenalungelo kuyo, njengomfazi. Iingcamango zakhe zenkululeko nokukhululwa zibonakala emazwini nakwizenzo zakhe.
- Umsebenzi wam kukuba simahla.
- Indoda nendoda bayinto enye ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba inani lokwahlula kunye nokuqiqa okungacacanga apho uluntu luthathe khona kule ngxabano akuqondakali.
- Uthando ngaphandle kokunconywa bubuhlobo.
- Ubuhle obujolise emehlweni lupela nje lomzuzu, amehlo omzimba awahlali eyomphefumlo.
KuGeorge Sand Ubume Iba sisenzo sokuvukela: isigqibo sakhe sokunxiba nokusayina njengendoda sityhila imida yoluntu yexesha lakhe kunye nesidingo sakhe senkululeko yengqondo, idabi elalwiwa ngababhali abaninzi abangabasetyhini.
UEmily Dickinson: Wayeyimbongi yaseMelika enobuntu obuzimeleyo, esaziwa ngokugcina ubuhlobo ngembalelwano. Uthathwa njengomnye wababhali abakhulu beencwadi zaseMelika kwaye luphawu lwendlela ubomi obubonakala buyimfihlo obunokuba nefuthe elikhulu ngayo. umsebenzi omkhulu.
- Ukuhamba kude, akukho nqanawa ibhetele kunencwadi.
- Asibazi ubude bethu bokwenyani de sime.
- Ukuba ndingakwazi ukuthintela intliziyo enye ekuhluphekeni, andiyi kuphila ubomi obungenamsebenzi.
- Ukufa ungafi, nokuphila ngaphandle kobomi ngoyena mmangaliso unzima ophakanyiswa lukholo.
- Ithemba yile nto ineentsiba ehleli emphefumlweni kwaye icula ngokungapheliyo.
Amabinzana kaDickinson abonisa uvakalelo olugqithisileyo malunga ingaphakathi lomntu, ixabiso le esperanza kunye nokubaluleka ulwazi kunye u kufunda njengeendlela zokungena kwamanye amazwe nakwinguquko yomntu.
UMargaret Thatcher: INkulumbuso yase-United Kingdom, eyaziwayo Umfazi wensimbi Wayengumntu osebenze ixesha elide kweso sikhundla sezopolitiko kwilizwe lakhe, kwaye wayengumfazi wokuqala ukubamba eso sikhundla. Imigaqo-nkqubo yakhe yokulondoloza izithethe yayibizwa ngokuba yi-"Thatcherism," kwaye izicatshulwa zakhe ezidumileyo zaziwa kwihlabathi liphela.
- Ukuba ufuna into ekuthiwa yibuze endodeni, ukuba ufuna yenziwe, cela umntu wasetyhini.
- Indlu kufuneka ibe liziko, kodwa hayi umda, wobomi bomfazi.
- Akukho nkululeko ngaphandle kokuba kukho inkululeko kwezoqoqosho.
- Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uvumelane nomngeneleli ukuze afumane ulwimi olufanayo naye.
Nangona umfanekiso wakhe udala ingxoxo-mpikiswano, amazwi akhe abonisa umbono ocacileyo malunga amandla okwenza yabasetyhini, ukubaluleka kokubakho kwabo kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke kunye nemfuneko yokuba bangapheleli nje kwimisebenzi yesintu.
UGabrielle "Coco" Chanel: Wayengumyili wefashoni waseFransi owazisa ixesha elitsha kwimfashini, apho ubulula kunye nobuhle babulawula khona. Ethathwa njengomnye wabantu abanempembelelo kakhulu kwinkulungwane yakhe, ubomi bakhe obuphumelelayo buyaqhubeka nokukhuthaza abo bafuna ukuqhekeza umfuziselo ngobuchule.
- Isenzo esomeleleyo kukuzicingela, kwaye wenze ngokuvakalayo.
- Amaxesha anzima avusa umnqweno ongapheliyo wobunyani.
- Ukuba ulusizi, beka ilipstick kwaye uhlasele!
- Ubuhle buqala mzuzu apho uthatha isigqibo sokuba nguwe.
- Umfazi bubudala obumfaneleyo.
UCoco Chanel ukhuthaze uhlobo lobufazi ezizimeleyo y eyiyoapho umfanekiso wawungengobuhle nje kuphela, kodwa wawubonakalisa isimo sengqondo somntu ngobomi.
UVirginia Woolf: Umbhali waseBritane, othathwa njengomntu ophambili kwi-feminism yamazwe ngamazwe. Uthethe ngezihloko ezazingakhange ziqwalaselwe ngelo xesha, ezinje... i-neurosis, Las iimfazwe zeklasi kunye noxinzelelo lwangaphakathi kuluntu lwaseBritane. Umsebenzi wakhe wokubhala iincoko ubalulekile ekuqondeni ingcinga yanamhlanje yobufazi.
- Akukho sithintelo okanye isitshixo onokuthi usibeke kwinkululeko yengqondo.
- Ubomi liphupha, ukuvuka yinto ebulalayo.
- Uthando luyinto engekhoyo, ibali umntu alwakhayo engqondweni yakhe, esazi ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba ayinyani, kwaye ke ngenkathalo iyathathwa ukuze ingatshabalalisi inkohliso.
- Kuyacaca ukuba amaxabiso abasetyhini ahlala ahluka kwixabiso elenziwe lelinye isini, kodwa ngamaxabiso endoda ahamba phambili.
- Abasetyhini baphila zonke ezi nkulungwane njengabafazi, benamandla omlingo kunye nencasa yokubonisa ubume bendoda, iphindwe kabini ubukhulu bayo bendalo.
Ingcinga yakhe ngendima yabasetyhini kwinkcubeko kunye nesidingo sokuba indawo yakho — kungekuphela nje ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa nangomfuziselo—kusasoloko kubhekisa ekucingeni ngokulingana namhlanje.
UAudrey Hepburn: Ebonwa ngabaninzi njengobuhle bendalo balo lonke ixesha, wayengafani nje kuphela nobuso bakhe kunye netalente yakhe yokudlala, kodwa nangomsebenzi wakhe omangalisayo njengo inxusa lenceba eAfrika, apho wayesebenza khona nzima nabantwana abasengozini.
- Kutheni utshintsha nje? Wonke umntu unesitayile sakhe, wakuba usifumene esakho kufuneka unamathele kuso.
- Ndikhe ndafunda: "Ukonwaba yimpilo kunye nenkumbulo encinci." Bekufanele ndiyenzile kuba iyinyani.
- Uthando alunanto yakwenza nento ofuna ukuyiphumeza, kuphela into onethemba lokuyinika; Oko kukuthi, yonke into.
- Ukuba ulandela yonke imigaqo, uphoswa lulonwabo.
- Abafazi abaqhelekileyo bazi ngakumbi ngamadoda kunabafazi abahle. Kodwa abafazi abahle abadingi kwazi ngamadoda, ngamadoda ekufuneka enolwazi ngabafazi abahle.
Izivakalisi zakhe ziyadibana ezihlekisayo, ubulumko bemihla ngemihla kunye nombono wothando olugxile Dar ngaphezu kokwamkela, okusikhumbuza ukuba ububele luhlobo oluphezulu lobuhle.
UDiana wase Wales: Eyaziwa ngokuba yiNkosazana yabantu, wayila ngokutsha ingcamango yobukhosi baseBritane ngenkalipho yakhe, efikelela iintliziyo zabantu bakhe kwaye ebonisa ubukhulu becala. uvelwano kunye nabo basweleyo kakhulu.
- Ukuba ufumana umntu omthandayo ebomini bakho, bambelela kolo thando.
- Andiyilandeli incwadi enemigaqo, ndikhokelwa yintliziyo yam nentloko.
- Ukunceda abo banesidingo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bam, luhlobo lwesiphelo.
- Ukuwolana kunokwenza lukhulu, ngakumbi ebantwaneni.
UDiana usishiyela ilifa ukusondela kunye nokukhuselwa kwe isidima somntuUkukhumbula ukuba izenzo ezilula, njengokumanga, zinokutshintsha ubomi bomntu.
UJuana Inés de la Cruz:
Wayengunongendi ongumKatolika we-Order of Saint Jerome, omnye wabantu abaphambili kwi-Spanish Golden Age eMelika. Imisebenzi yakhe yayingaqwalaselwanga ngexesha lakhe, kodwa uninzi lweengcamango zakhe zaba ziingcaphuno ezidumileyo ezasinda ekuhlolweni nasekugxekweni. ukungalingani kwengqondo phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi.
- Ngaphandle kokucaca akukho lizwi lobulumko.
- Andifundanga ukuze ndazi ngakumbi, kodwa ngoyaba kancinci.
- Ukuqaqamba kweembonakalo kunokugubungela ezona zinto zingcolileyo kwizinto eziyinyani.
- Ndixelele umoyisi oyindlavini, woyisiwe kukunyamezela kwam. Kufunyenwe ntoni ukuzikhukhumeza kwakho kokuphazamisa uxolo lwam oluqinileyo?
- Le ntuthumbo yothando inokubonwa entliziyweni yam, ndiyayazi indlela endiziva ngayo, kodwa andazi ukuba kutheni ndiziva.
Ukuzikhusela kwakhe ilungelo lokufunda kwaye ukugxeka kwakhe ubukrelekrele bentlalo kumenza abe ngumzekelo kwabo bakholelwa kumandla olwazi akhululayo.
UDoris Ukufunda: Umbhali waseBritane oneempawu ezicacileyo zobufazi, isitayile sakhe sasiphawulwa ngamava akhe eAfrika kunye nokuphoxeka kwakhe. Uphumelele iMbasa yeNobel kwiNcwadi kwaye wacingisisa kakhulu nge ukutshatyalaliswa, i talente kunye xanduva lo loluntu yombhali.
- Izinto ezincinci zihlekisa iingqondo ezincinci.
- Kodwa kufuneka wenze ntoni? Ukufa kukhona, kuya kuza, akunakuphepheka.
- Ubugcisa sisipili seenjongo zethu zokungcatshwa.
- Unokufunda kuphela ukuba ngumbhali ngokubhala.
ULessing ugxininisa ukuba umsebenzi wokubhala Ifundwa ngokuziqhelanisa, kwaye ubugcisa bunomsebenzi wokusibonisa oko sikungcatshileyo njengoluntu, sibonisa oko singathanda ukukufihla.
UAnna Frank: Edume kwihlabathi liphela ngokubhala idayari eyashukumisa ihlabathi, le ntombazana yaseJamani enemvelaphi yobuJuda yashiya uphawu lwayo ngokubalisa amava ayo ngelixa yayizimele ngexesha leMfazwe Yehlabathi yesiBini. Iliso layo elimsulwa nelicacileyo libubungqina obuchukumisayo boku intshutshiso kunye esperanza.
- Logama nje ungajonga isibhakabhaka ngaphandle koloyiko, uyazi ukuba ucocekile ngaphakathi kwaye nokuba yintoni eyenzekayo uyakuvuya kwakhona.
- Ethubeni, esona sixhobo sibukhali ngumoya onobubele nothozamileyo.
- Andicingi ngobuhlungu, kodwa ngobuhle obuseyam.
- Kuyamangalisa ukuba kungabikho mntu ulinda umzuzwana ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukuphucula umhlaba!
- Ndinoluvo lokuba yintaka evaliweyo, enamaphiko aqhawulwe ngogonyamelo, kwaye kweyona ndawo imnyama kakhulu, iyangqubana nemivalo kwindlwana yayo emxinwa xa ifuna ukubhabha.
Izivakalisi zakhe zibonisa ubuchule bakhe bokugcina ukholo ebantwini nokuba kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, kunye nesimemo esihlala sihleli sokuba yenza ngoku ukuphucula ihlabathi.
UEmilly Brönte: Upapashe umsebenzi wakhe wobugcisa, "Wuthering Heights," phantsi kwegama elingelolakhe elingu-Ellis Bell, njengabanye ababhali abangamabhinqa abazifihlayo ngamagama amadoda ukuze athathwe nzulu. Kwiminyaka edlulileyo, uye waqatshelwa njengophawu oluphambili loncwadi lwesiNgesi.
- Ubuqhophololo nogonyamelo kukuzibeka esichengeni sokusebenzisa isixhobo esintlangothi-mbini esinokwenzakala kwangalo mntu usiphetheyo.
- Ndingabushwankathela ubukho bam ngezivakalisi ezibini: ukugwetywa kunye nokufa.
- Andazi ukuba yenziwe ngantoni imiphefumlo, kodwa eyakho kunye neyam yinto enye.
- Xa kungekho nto ithethwayo, kwaye akukho kwaziwa, akukho nkampani.
Amazwi akhe ahlola ubunzulu beemvakalelo yobudlelwane babantu, ukuzitshabalalisa okubangelwa lugonyamelo, kunye nokukhangela unxibelelwano lomphefumlo oludlula yonke imiqobo.
UFrida Kahlo: Lo mzobi waseMexico waba luphawu lwamalungelo abafazi ngenxa yobomi bakhe bokubandezeleka, obuphawulwa ziziganeko ezahlukeneyo ezingathandekiyo ezifana nokugula neengozi. Nangona kunjalo, wabonakaliswa ngokuphuhlisa umbono olungileyo nonyanisekileyo, apho ishwangusha lingathinteli izenzo zakhe okanye ubuchule bakhe.
- Iinyawo, kutheni ndizifuna, ukuba ndinamaphiko okubhabha?
- Apho ungenako ukuthanda, musa ukulibazisa.
- Nangona sendithe "ndiyabathanda uninzi lwenu", ndaye ndathandana, ndanga abanye, ezantsi ndikuthandile qha.
- Bendihlala ndicinga ukuba ndingoyena mntu ubalaseleyo emhlabeni, kodwa ke ndaye ndacinga ukuba, baninzi abantu emhlabeni, kufuneka kubekho umntu onjengam, oziva engaqhelekanga kwaye onakele, indlela endiziva ngayo. Ndiyamcinga, kwaye ndiyacinga ukuba inoba ulapha ecinga ngam naye.
- Gqirha, ukuba ungandivumela ukuba ndibe nale tequila, ndiyathembisa ukuba andizukusela emngcwabeni wam.
UFrida wamjikela idola Kwizinto zobugcisa kunye nehlaya, waphinda wabonakalisa ubuntu bakhe umahluko kunye nayo ubunye kwaye wakhusela ingcamango yokuba, nokuba ubandezelekile, kunokwenzeka ukusebenzisa inkululeko yokuba nguwe.
Isabel AllendeUmbhali waseChile owanyanzeleka ukuba abaleke ilizwe lakhe ngexesha lolawulo lobuzwilakhe kuba wayengumbaleki wezopolitiko. Uphumelele iHans Christian Andersen Award, kwaye amabali akhe athande abafundi kwihlabathi liphela. Uninzi lweembongo zakhe zibhekiswe kubafazi kwaye zithetha... imemori, elubhacweni e Ubume.
- Ukufa akukho, abantu bafa kuphela xa belibele; Ukuba ungandikhumbula, ndiya kuhlala ndinawe.
- Ndifunde kwangoko ukuba xa ufuduka uphulukana neentonga ezisebenze njengenkxaso kude kube lelo xesha, kuya kufuneka uqale ekuqaleni, kuba elidlulileyo liyacinywa ngesibetho, kwaye akukho mntu ukhathalayo ukuba uvelaphi okanye wenze ntoni ngaphambili.
- Ndibe ngumda wobomi bam bonke, imeko endiyamkeleyo kuba andinayo enye indlela.
- Ndiyazisola ngendlela enditya ngayo, izitya ezimnandi ezaliwe zingento yanto, njengoko ndizisolayo ngeziganeko zokwenza uthando endiluphosileyo ngenxa yokwenza, okanye ubuhle be puritanical.
Ngamazwi akhe kukho ukhuselo olucacileyo Yonwabela ubomi, ukuvuma intlungu ukuncothula kunye nokubheja kwi ndiyakhumbula njengendlela yokugcina abo bangasekhoyo bephila.
UAlfonsina Storni: Imbongi yaseArgentina enemvelaphi yaseSwitzerland, eyaziwa ngemibongo yayo yeprozi kunye neyokulwela amalungelo oluntu. Yazibulala eMar del Plata ngenxa yokudandatheka okukhulu okwabangelwa, phakathi kwezinye izinto, kukuxilongwa kwayo ngumhlaza webele. Imibongo yayo yothando kunye nelizwi layo elivukelayo lathimba ihlabathi.
- Khange ndimbulale ngezixhobo, ndimnike ukufa okungaphezulu: Ndimncamise kakuhle kwaye ndophula intliziyo yakhe.
- Namhlanje inyanga ijonge kum, mhlophe kwaye ayinakulinganiswa. Kuyafana nobusuku bokugqibela, kuyafana nangomso.
- Yeyiphi imihlaba endinayo ngaphakathi komphefumlo wam ebendiyicela ixesha elide ukuba indize?
- Ndacela iinkwenkwezi iilwimi ezicacileyo, amagama amnandi ngakumbi. Iinkwenkwezi ezimnandi zindinike ubomi bakho, kwaye ndafumana inyani elahlekileyo emehlweni akho.
Imibongo yakhe ihlola umnqweno, la u lonwabo kunye nesidingo solwimi lwabo oluvumela abafazi ukuba baveze oko bavakalelwa kuko ngaphandle kokucwangciswa.
ULouise Hay: Umbhali odumileyo waseMelika okwiqela le-New Age. Iincwadi zakhe zaba negalelo elikhulu kwiindlela zokucinga ezakhayo kunye ukuzithembaukunceda izigidi zabantu ukuphucula ubudlelwane babo nabo.
- Ukuba abazali bakho bebengayazi indlela yokuzithanda, ngekungenakwenzeka ukuba bakufundise indlela yokuzithanda. Benza konke okusemandleni abo nabo babefundiswe besengabantwana.
- Amandla ahlala ekulo mzuzu wangoku.
- Ukuba ndifuna ukwamkelwa njengoko ndinjalo, kufuneka ndikulungele ukwamkela abanye njengabo.
- Funda kwithuba elidlulileyo kwaye uliyeke lihambe, phila kumzuzu wangoku.
- Xa kukho ingxaki, akukho nto yokwenza, kukho into oyaziyo.
ULouise Hay usimema ukuba sicinge ukuba uxanduva lothando ngobomi bomntu, ukuyeka ukugxeka ixesha elidlulileyo nokugxila kwinto enokuguqulwa ukusuka apha kwaye ngoku.
Iingcaphuno ezivela kubabhali basetyhini: umbono obanzi
Ngaphandle kwababhali abasele bekhankanyiwe, kukho nabanye ababhali abaninzi abangabafazi abamagama abo abe ziimpawu ezibalaseleyo. ukuxhotyiswa, imbonakalo y ubuchuleAmazwi akhe andisa ukuqonda kwethu ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumfazi, ukubhala, nokuphila ubomi bokwenyani kwihlabathi elisagcwele ukungalingani.
Uninzi lwabo lusebenzisa uncwadi njengendlela khalaza kwaye njengendawo yenkululeko. Ukubhala kuye kwabavumela ukuba bacinge ngobuwena babo, bagxeke ubundlobongela, babuze imibuzo ngendima yesini, baze batyhile iinyani eziye zavalwa umlomo.
Phakathi kwababhali abanempembelelo enkulu sifumana ababhali abafana no USimone de iBeauvoir, UMary Wollstonecraft, UJane Austen, I-Anaïs Nin, Agatha Christie, Isabel Allende o UChimamanda Ngozi Adichiephakathi kwezinye ezininzi. Nganye, ngokwemeko yayo, inegalelo elikhethekileyo kwimbono yenkululeko, uthando, uloyiko, umsebenzi, kunye nokulingana.
La mabinzana asifundisa ukuba ubufazi Asikuko ukudlula nje, kodwa yindlela yokujonga ihlabathi ebuza ngokungabikho kobulungisa kwaye ifuna ilungelo lobomi obunesidima kubo bonke abantu, nokuba bangobani na ngokwesini. Ngokuzifunda, asifundi nje kuphela ngeengcinga zabo, kodwa sifumana nezixhobo zokuhlalutya inyani yethu.
Iingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo nezikhuthazayo ezivela kubafazi abakhulu
Kumaxesha ahlukeneyo, abafazi abavela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo bashiye amabinzana abe ziziqubulo ubufazi kunye ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhiniAyingobabhali nje kuphela, kodwa ikwangabosopolitiki, abalwela amalungelo abantu, izazinzulu, amagcisa, kunye nabantu abacinga ngokulingana abajolise kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo.
La mabinzana asebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuba umzabalazo Amalungelo abasetyhini Isebenza ngoku: ngokuchasene nobundlobongela besini, imitshato enyanzeliswayo, ukunqongophala kwemivuzo, ukungalingani kwabasebenzi, ukuthengiswa kwabasetyhini namantombazana, kunye nokukhutshelwa ngaphandle kwiindawo zokwenza izigqibo kunye namandla.
Ezinye zeengcinga eziphambili ezishiywe ngabantu abadumileyo abangabasetyhini zezi:
- USimone de iBeauvoir Ugxininise ukuba “asizalwa singabafazi, kodwa siba banye,” egxininisa ukuba isini sakhiwa ngemigaqo yoluntu kunye nolindelo.
- UMary Wollstonecraft Uphikisa ngelithi into ebalulekileyo asikokuba abafazi banamandla phezu kwamadoda, kodwa ngaboOko kukuthi, malunga nezigqibo zabo kunye nekamva labo.
- Isabel Allende Ugxininise ukuba ukunika amandla abasetyhini kubandakanya bathembele kubuchule babo, kwitalente yabo nakwilungelo labo lokuba nezikhundla zoxanduva.
- I-Virginia Woolf Ukhumbule ukuba akukho mqobo unokuthi uvale inkululeko yengqondo, isimemo sokuba uzicingele nangona imeko-bume ingakuxhasi.
Onke la mabinzana adibana nomyalezo ofanayo: abafazi abafuni ukuba "ngcono" kunamadoda, kodwa bafuna ukuba amathuba afanayoUkuqatshelwa okufanayo kunye nentlonipho efanayo. Ubufeministi, njengoko uninzi lwaba babhali bebonisa, asikokuthiya amadoda, kodwa kukuzinikela ukulingana ngokwenene kunye isidima esabelwana ngaso.
Indlela yokusebenzisa ezi ngcaphuno ezivela kubafazi abadumileyo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla
Ngaphaya kobuhle bazo boncwadi, la mabinzana anokuba zizixhobo ezisebenzayo ukukhula komntu kunye ukuxhotyiswa Ezinye zeengcinga zokuzibandakanya kwimisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla zezi:
- Khetha ibinzana elihambelana nemeko yakho yangoku kwaye ulisebenzise njenge mantra Okanye isikhumbuzo. Umzekelo, ingcamango ka-Emily Dickinson malunga nokufumanisa ubude bethu bokwenyani ngokuma inokukunceda ujongane nomngeni omtsha.
- Bhala phantsi kwincwadi yencwadana izicatshulwa ezikukhuthazayo uze wongeze izimvo malunga nendlela ezihambelana ngayo namava akho. Lo msebenzi we ukubhala okucingisisiweyo Iya kukuvumela ukuba uhlolisise nzulu intsingiselo yayo.
- Yabelana ngamanye ala mabinzana nabantu abakungqongileyo, nokuba kusezingxoxweni, kumajelo akho eendaba ezentlalo, okanye kwiintetho. Ngale ndlela, unegalelo ku ukukhuthaza abantu ababhinqileyo abangumzekelo ukuze babonise igalelo labo.
- Sebenzisa la mazwi acatshulwayo njengesiqalo sokufunda ngakumbi ngobomi baba bafazi: iibhayografi zabo, iinoveli, izincoko, okanye iidayari. Ngale ndlela, uya kuguqula amazwi alula abe... umnyango wangaphambili kwindalo yakhe yonke.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ayikokugxila nje kwibinzana elingahambelaniyo nomxholo, kodwa kukuqonda ibali elipheleleyo oko kusemva kwayo yonke intombazana. Xa usazi ubunzima bayo, uloyiko lwayo, kunye nempumelelo yayo, amazwi ayo afumana amandla amakhulu kwaye abe yimpembelelo ebomini bakho.
Onke la mazwi angamabhinqa, ukusuka kuMarie Curie ukuya kuFrida Kahlo, kuquka uVirginia Woolf, uSor Juana Inés de la Cruz, uIsabel Allende, uCoco Chanel, uAnne Frank, kunye noLouise Hay, enza ikwayala enamandla eqhubeka ikhula kwisizukulwana ngasinye. Amazwi abo asikhumbuza ukuba ukuzicingela, ukuthanda ngesisa, ukuhlakulela ingqondo, ukukhathalela umzimba, kunye nokuthetha ngokuchasene nokungabikho kobulungisa azizozenzo ezizodwa, kodwa ziyinxalenye yembali efanayo esiqhubela phambili kuluntu olukhululekileyo, oluqondayo, nolunobuntu ngakumbi.