Ukuthi HAYI kukwanceda abantwana ukuba bakhule: ukuphonononga, amanqaku aphambili kunye nezikhokelo ezisebenzayo zeentsapho nabahlohli

  • Le ncwadi icebisa imida, imithetho, nezikhokelo ezizinzileyo ezilungelelaniswe nomntwana ngamnye.
  • Inika indlela ecacileyo enemizekelo esebenzayo ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuya ebudaleni.
  • Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo zibonakaliswe kwaye ngokukhawuleza imithetho esebenzayo inikezelwa.
  • U-Álava Reyes uzisa ubuchule obuchwephesha kunye nemisebenzi enefuthe eliphezulu.
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"HAYI iyanceda ukukhula: indlela yokoyisa amaxesha anzima abantwana kunye nokukhuthaza imfundo yabo kunye nophuhliso" Yincwadi kaMª Jesús Álava Reyes.

Incwadi ezinikeleyo kubo bonke abazali abanayo iingxaki zomntwana wakho ngenxa yokuziphatha kwale.

Mva nje, amatyala obundlobongela ngabantwana kubazali ayanda. Abayihloneli imida ebekwe ngabazali kwaye bagqibela ngokujongana nabo ngogonyamelo.

Oku kudala ukungavisisani okukhulu kwiintsapho. Bobabini abazali nabantwana baphela befumana ixesha elibi kakhulu. Le ncwadi ikufundisa phinda uthumele ezi meko kwaye ufundise abantwana ngendlela ekrelekrele.

UMnu Jesús Álava Reyes yingcali yezonyango efundileyo efundise abantwana nabazali ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-20 indlela yokuzihambisa kwakhona ezi meko zinzima. Isifundisa izikhokelo zemfundo emasizilandele kwaye isinceda ukuba siqonde ngcono ukuba kutheni abantwana besenza ngolu hlobo.

Incwadi ezinikeleyo bobabini abazali kunye nootitshala ukuba ukufunda ukukhokela abantwana kude kube nokuvuthwa kwayo okufanelekileyo.

Ukuba ungumzali okanye umfundisi ophelelwe lithemba, Le ncwadi iya kusindisa ubomi..

Le ncwadi icebisa ntoni ngokwenene?

Umsebenzi unikeza a indlela ecacileyo kunye nesibindi ukuqonda indlela abantwana abacinga ngayo nabavakalelwa ngayo, ukuchonga iingxabano rhoqo ekuphuhlisweni kwazo kwaye zisombulule ngokufanelekileyo. Iqala kwisiseko esibalulekileyo: wonke umntwana wahlukileKodwa wonke umntu uyakufuna imida, imithetho nezikhokelo ezibonelela uzinzo, ukuzola, nokhuseleko kuwo onke amanqanaba abo.

  • Ukuqonda ngokweemvakalelo: qinisa uvelwano lwabantu abadala ukutolika indlela yokuziphatha, iimpendulo kunye nokungathobeli.
  • Imithetho kunye nemida: Yila imigaqo engaguqukiyo egcinwa ixesha elide ngaphandle kokukhwaza okanye ukohlwaya ngokugqithisileyo.
  • Iimpazamo zokuthintela: ukudiliza ii-clichés ezichaseneyo kunye imikhwa yemfundo engasebenziyo nto leyo eyenza ingxaki ibe mandundu.
  • Inyathelo elisebenzayoizikhokelo kunye imithetho ethile ukwenza xa kubonakala ngathi yonke into sele izanyiwe.

Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo ezenza mbi ngakumbi iingxabano

  • Ukungangqinelani Imithetho ayihambelani: namhlanje ewe, ngomso hayi. Ukungazinzi kuphembelela inkcaso.
  • Iileyibhile ezingalunganga ("umbi", "uyavila"): zonakalisa ukuzithemba kwaye zomeleza ukuziphatha kwengxaki.
  • Ukuncama okanye ukusabela ngokugqithisileyo: ukuyekelela kunye nolawulo-melo olugqithisileyo babangela uxinzelelo olungakumbi.
  • Ukunqongophala kwezivumelwano Phakathi kwabantu abadala: imiyalezo ephikisanayo ithintela ukufunda komntwana.

Amatyala asebenzayo ngokwamanqanaba

  • Iinyanga zokuqala kunye nobuntwana bokuqala: ukucaphuka, ukulala kunye nokutya rhoqo, ukufunda malunga nemida ngaphandle kobundlobongela.
  • Ubuntwana: imithetho ekhaya nasesikolweni, ukungathobeli nokuphendulaintsebenziswano kwimisebenzi.
  • Ukukhula kwangaphambili kunye nokufikisa: umngeni kwigunyaImithetho yeteknoloji, izifundo kunye nokuzonwabisa; indlela yokugcina "hayi" ngaphandle kokuqhawula ibhondi.
  • IJuventud: uxanduva, ukuzimela okuqhubekayo kunye nezivumelwano eziyinyani kwiishedyuli kunye neenjongo.

Izikhokelo ezinokuthi zisetyenziswe ukuqala namhlanje

  1. Chaza 3-5 imithetho ephambili uze uncokole nabo ngokuzolileyo, echaza isizathu.
  2. Lindela kwangaphambili kumaxesha anzima (imisebenzi, izikrini, ukulala) kunye nezithethe ezizinzileyo.
  3. Gxininisa oko kusebenzayo: qaphela inkqubela encinci, engatshintshiyo.
  4. Iziphumo ezilinganayongoko nangoko kwaye kwaziwa, akunakuze kuthotywe.
  5. Ulungelelanisa iqela labantu abadala: umyalezo ofanayo, umda ofanayo, ithoni efanayo.

Iluncedo kubani ngokukhethekileyo?

Abazali kunye nabafundisi abaziva ngathi amabinzana "Asikwazi ukumelana naye", ukuba babone umngeni wezithetheukungathobeli rhoqo okanye ukungahloneli ekhaya nasesikolweni, kwaye bafuna izixhobo zokwenyani ukubuyisela ukuphilisana.

Malunga nombhali

UMaría Jesus Álava ReyesIsazi ngengqondo yezemfundo kunye neklinikhi, uphumelele kwiYunivesithi yaseComplutense, ingcali kwiPsychotherapy yi-EFPA, ngoqeqesho kwi. iSebe lezabasebenzi, IPsychology yeMfundo y PsychodiagnosticsUyalela i Álava Reyes Psychology Centre, i Iziko lezeNgqondo nezeNtlalo kwaye yongamela Apertia Consulting kunye IYunivesithi iSiseko soPhuhliso lwePsychology kunye noPhandoUhlala enegalelo kwimithombo yeendaba kwaye ungumbhali wezihloko ezinempembelelo ephezulu njenge Kukuncedwa kokubandezeleka (kunye amakhulu amawaka eekopi ithengisiwe), Sebenza ngaphandle kokubandezeleka, Buyisa inkohliso, Iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu, Ukuthanda ngaphandle kokubandezeleka, Izitshixo ezithathu zolonwabo, Eyona nto ilungileyo ngobomi bakho nguwe, Inyaniso yobuxoki, Busebenzise kangangoko ubomi bakho, Unyaka wobomi bakho, Isimilo esihle y Ipsychology esinceda siphile.

Ukongeza kumsebenzi wakhe odumileyo, uye waba evunyiweyo phakathi kweenkokeli zabasetyhini ibhentshi eSpain kwaye yanikezelwa ngenxa yayo umsebenzi wokufikelela ngokwengqondo, ibethelela igunya layo kwinkalo yemfundo yentsapho.

Umfanekiso obonisa ukusuka kumsebenzi kaM.ª Jesús Álava Reyes.

Ndikushiya ne i vidiyo Ukusuka kumbhali ukuze ubazi ubuso bakhe, indlela azichaza ngayo kwaye aqonde indlela acinga ngayo:

Isikhokelo soku yenza ngaphandle kokuphuculaukubuyisela ubunkokeli bezemfundo kwaye unike "hayi" i ixabiso lemfundo ezifunwa ngabantwana ukususela kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi de babe badala.