Abantwana banobuchule obukhethekileyo bokusothusa ngabo ukungabi nangqondo, ingqiqo yayo engazange ihlolwe kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, iziganeko zayo ezibangela ukuba sihleke. Eli nqaku lizisa kunye ingqokelela ebanzi ye amabinzana abantwana ahlekisayo, abo babonakalisa zabo umbono omsulwa, kwaye ihlala ihlekisa, ihlabathi. Lungiselela ukuhleka ngala ma-anecdotes abantwana kunye nemiboniso esikhumbuza ukuba uburharha bunokuba yinto ezenzekelayo kwaye ecocekileyo.
Awona mabinzana ahlekisayo asuka ebantwaneni: ukuhlanganiswa ukuze uhlale uhleka
Ngubani ongazange wahleka ngexesha elithile enkosi kwi amabinzana azenzekelayo lomntwana? Ukusuka kwingqwalasela yentanda-bulumko ukuya ekungaqondani okuhlekisayo, abantwana banembono eyahlukileyo ngehlabathi. Ngezantsi, sibonisa uluhlu olwahlukeneyo oluxuba amabinzana oqobo kunye nezandiso ze amacandelo aphawuleka kakhulu.
Amabinzana malunga nobomi bemihla ngemihla
- "Kunzima kakhulu ukuba yintombazana" - uYvone, oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala.
- "Amandla aphuma kwaye umama, ngesandi esothusayo, wabuza: 'Kwaye ngoku, senze ntoni?' 'Khanyisa ukukhanya kwethemba,' waphendula uLaura, oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala.
- “Ngoxa wayetsala nzima ngenxa yokuba engakwazi ukunxiba isihlangu, waqhankqalaza esithi: ‘Phezu koko, ndineenyawo ezimbini.’” – uTomás, oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala.
- "Umama wam akanangeniso" - uMaría, iminyaka eyi-6.
- "Iilekese ezintlanu zimbalwa, kodwa iminyaka emihlanu mininzi" - uMia, iminyaka emi-5 ubudala.
- Umama wachaza ukuba oomalume bakhe basandul’ ukuqhawula umtshato. “Asibobomi obo,” waphendula ngelitshoyo. "Kwaye bunjani ubomi?" wabuza umama. “Sisonke,” uqukumbele watsho uInés, oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala.
Ezi nkcazo zisenza sicinge ngendlela abantwana, kunye nabo ukuvuselela, bazitolika ngokutsha iimeko zemihla ngemihla. Ngaphezu koko, yakhe ukuzimela Ayisiyonto eyonwabisayo kuphela, kodwa ikwasebenza njengesikhumbuzo se ukulula kunye nobunyulu behlabathi labo.
Imibuzo ekhoyo kunye nokucamngca kwabantwana
Abantwana nabo banayo a ubuchule obumangalisayo ukuphakamisa imibuzo enzulu ethi ngamanye amaxesha isibambe singalindelanga ngenxa yabo ingqiqo engenantlonipho. La mathandabuzo akhoyo angumzekelo ogqibeleleyo:
- "Amapolisa akakhe ahlambe kuba ehlala enxiba iimpahla ezifanayo?" -UJuliet, oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala.
- "Mama, kutheni wonke umntu ebona ubuso bam kwaye andikwazi?" – Toti, 5 iminyaka ubudala.
- "Isithunzi sam sineminyaka emingaphi?" – UJimmy, 6 iminyaka ubudala.
- "Mama, emva kolu suku, izakuba ngomso?" – Clara, 4 iminyaka ubudala.
Imibuzo yabo isenza sicinge ngendlela esisoloko singabuzi ngayo okanye siyihlalutye Iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla, into eyenziwa ngumntwana ngayo yemvelo.
Izehlo ezinxulumene nezilwanyana
- "Mama, izinja zihlala ze?" – Emilia, 4 iminyaka ubudala.
- “Mama! Kutheni iinkawu zingebantu xa zinezandla njengathi? -UVeronica, iminyaka emi-2 ubudala.
- “Namhlanje luSuku lweColumbus, yiyo loo nto ndiza kubhiyozela nenja yam, eludidi lwembethi manqindi. -UMarcelo, oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala.
Izilwanyana kunye nezenzo zabantu yenza uhlobo oluthile lwentsokolo kubantwana, abasakha zabo iimodeli zengqondo malunga nendlela umhlaba "ngengqiqo" kufuneka ube ngayo. Kubo, akukho mqobo phakathi kwezinto ezinokwenzeka nezingenakwenzeka.
Imibono yekamva ngokuchukumisa komdlalo ohlekisayo
La ukucinga yabancinci ayinamida, kwaye amabinzana akhe malunga nekamva abonisa oku:
- “Ndiza kuba namakhwenkwe amaninzi, kodwa andizukutshata. "Ngumsebenzi omninzi." – Martina, 6 iminyaka ubudala.
- "Xa ndikhulile, ndifuna ukuba ngumpheki kwaye, xa ndiyinja, ndifuna ukutya amatye ..." - Joaquín, iminyaka emi-2 ubudala.
- "Mama, uyityile?" - UBenjamín, oneminyaka emi-3 ubudala (ekufumaniseni ukuba uya kuba nomntakwabo omncinci).
La magama abonisa indlela abantwana abaxuba ngayo amaphupha, iminqweno kunye nemibono yehlabathi yabantu abadala ngengqiqo enomtsalane.
Ukubaluleka kokuqokelela amabinzana abantwana
Ukuba ungumzali, utitshala okanye umntu nje owonwabileyo ezihlekisayo kunye nokuzenzekela, ukubhala phantsi amabinzana abantwana kwijenali kunokuba ngumbono omkhulu. Xa bekhula, la mabinzana akayi kuba ngumthombo wokuhleka kuphela, kodwa kunye nesikhumbuzo sombono ababenawo ngehlabathi kunye nokuba babenjani ebuntwaneni babo.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, siphonononge amabinzana azenzekelayo, kodwa sinokukukhuthaza ukuba usebenzise ibinzana elikhuthaza ezikhuthaza uphuhliso lwabo. Ndwendwela icandelo lethu amabinzana athambileyo ukufumana eminye imizekelo ekukhuthazayo ukuba uthethe nomntwana wakho ngayo amaxabiso abalulekileyo.
Nakweyona ndlela ilula yokucinga, abantwana bayakwazi ukwenza izivakalisi eziqaqambisa zabo ubuchule bendalo. Ungaphoswa lithuba lokonwabela kunye nabo!