Zingaphi iintsilelo oye wazifumana ebomini bakho? Zininzi? Zimbalwa? Akukho namnye? Andikholelwa kule mpendulo yokugqibela. Ndikuxelela into ibenye: Ukungaphumeleli kuyinxalenye yobomi. Ngubani omnye osileleyo ebomini kwaye ndikuxelela into ibenye: akukho nto yenzekayo. Ufunda ngokusilela kwaye ngaphandle kokungaphumeleli awuyi kufumana mpu melelo.
Nangona kunjalo, baninzi abantu abathi xa bejamelene nokusilela okuthile, ukusilela okukhulu, bawe kwaye bashiyeke befile besaphila. Esi simo sengqondo ngokwenene kukusilela (ngoonobumba abakhulu). Akufuneki uvumele nantoni na okanye nabani na ukuba arhaxise amandla ethu sonke ngaphakathi kwethu.
Lixesha lokuba sihlaziye ngokutsha iibhetri zethu kunye nobomi bobuso iintloko zethu ziphakanyisiwe. Ukuba uyasilela, ayinamsebenzi! Phakama uzame kwakhona. Yiya ngendlela yakho ngentumekelelo nangakumbi nethemba lokuphila. Ukusilela makube sisikhuthazo sokuhlaselwa ngomdla ongakumbi ebomini.
Ukusilela okuthile uyakufuna uncedo kwabanye. Kukho abantu abangenazo izixhobo zengqondo zokujongana noqhawulo mtshato, ukudendwa emsebenzini, ukonakala kobuhlobo ... Ngabantu aba kufuneka bafune inkxaso kwabo babathandayo. Umthwalo ekwabelwana ngawo awunzima kakhulu.
Musa ukoyika ukusilela
Ndikushiya imibono emi-3 enokukunceda ujongane nokusilela kweyona ndlela ibalaseleyo:
1) Okokuqala, kufuneka ube ngumntu oqinisekileyo, onethemba. Oku kubalulekile. Ukuba ungumntu othanda ukubona izinto ezimnyama, uyakrokra ngayo yonke into, awuthandi wonke umntu, uzihlukanisa nabantu ... kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kuwe ukujongana nentonga enzima ekunika ubomi.
Kuya kufuneka uqale ngokugcwalisa uphawu. Ngelixa kungekho mimangaliso, kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe isimilo kancinci kancinci. Ndicebisa eli nqaku: iimvakalelo ezi-6 ekufuneka uzihlakulele.
2) Qonda ukuba xa kuvalwa omnye umnyango uvula omnye. Amawakawaka amathuba anokuvela kukusilela. Ukuba ugxothiwe emsebenzini, unokugqibela ngokusebenzela into ebhetele okanye ufumane abalingane abatsha, abathandekayo. Ukuba uqhawule umtshato, sukujonga kwizinto ezidlulileyo. Jonga kwikamva: ubomi obutsha obunamawaka omothuko buvula phambi kwakho.
I-3) Iparadigm yokusilela imelwe kungabikho ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kukaThomas Edison: kuye igama ukusilela alikho. Ngaphambi kokuyila ibhalbhu yesibane, wayenokusilela okungama-10.000 10.000. Uye wathi: “Khange ndisilele izihlandlo ezili-10.000 10.000. Ndifumene iindlela ezili-XNUMX XNUMX zokungenzi ibhalbhu yokukhanyisa. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, uEdison wayeyindoda eyayinethamsanqa lokusilela amaxesha ayi-XNUMX XNUMX ukuyila ibhalbhu yesibane.
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