Kubonakala ngathi sonke Ilinde into ethile ukuze siqhubeke ebomini:
"Ndilinde ukufumana imali eninzi ngaphambi kokuqala ishishini lam."
"Yima kude kube ngumhla wokuthatha umhlala-phantsi ukuze ndibonwabele ubomi."
Yonke into "yokulinda" sisizathu enokudlula namhlanje.
Intsomi yokuba kufuneka silinde into ethile ngaphambi kokuba sithathe elinye inyathelo ibonakala iphazamisa ubomi bomntu wonke. Esi simo sengqondo sisikhokelela kumjikelo othe rhoqo wokuzibekela amangomso izinto: wonk’ ubani ubonakala elindele ingomso, yaye xa kufika ingomso, elinye ingomso liya kusilinda. Awunakulitshintsha ikamva lakho ngaphandle kokuba utshintshe izolo, kwaye ekuphela kwendlela yokutshintsha izolo utshintsho namhlanje.
Kutheni ungenzi namhlanje uvelise ingomso?
Izizathu ezi-4 eziquka "ukulinda"
1) Ukulinda ulwazi oluninzi
Abantu abaninzi babonakala belindele ukuba babe iingcali kwinto phambi kokuba baqhubeke nobomi babo. Balindele ukufumana ulwazi olungakumbi: ngokubhala incwadi, ukufunda ulwimi olutsha, okanye ukwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ngomsebenzi.
Sifunda ngokwenza. Okukhona sisenza, kokukhona siya kufunda ngakumbi ekuhambeni kwexesha. Sijongene neemeko zokwenyani ezisinyanzela ukuba sibuze imibuzo engcono.
Ewe kunjalo, kukho izinto ezingafaniyo kwiingcali ezifuna izatifikethi ezithile, ezinje ngeyeza okanye ubunjineli. Nangona kunjalo, kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi, ungaqala ngaphandle kokuba yingcali.
Ukuba sihlala silindile de sifumane “lonke ulwazi,” asisayi kuze sihambele phambili okanye sibe namava okwenene.
2) Ukulinda imali eninzi
“Ndifuna imali eyongezelelekileyo ukuze ndiqalise ishishini lam,” “Ukuhambahamba ehlabathini kuya kuba kuludwe lwam xa ndinengeniso engakumbi,” ngamabinzana esikhe saweva okanye sawathetha sonke ngaxa lithile.
Ngaba ngokwenene kuyimfuneko ukulinda? Impendulo igxininisa ukuba hayi. Ungaqalisa ukufumana into oyifunayo ngale nto unayo ngoku. Umzekelo:
- Unokufumana amava okuqhuba iFerrari ngokurenta enye ngee-euro ezingama-900, endaweni yokuthenga enye.
- Ukuhamba kunye nokufumanisa ihlabathi akufuni izigidi. Iinqwelo-moya eziphantsi kwexabiso eliphantsi kunye namaqonga okuhlalisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali zenza ukuba zifikeleleke ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga.
- Umsebenzi wokuzithandela? Awudingi ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho; Nokuba ukunikezela ngeentsuku ezimbalwa ngenyanga kunokutshintsha ubomi (kubandakanywa nobakho).
Enyanisweni, ngamava, akusoloko sinawo, asinika ulwaneliseko.
3) Ukulinda ixesha elingakumbi
"Ixesha yimali," kwaye kunjalo abaninzi bethu bayayichitha ngethemba "lokuba nexesha elingakumbi." Ukuba ukhe wathi kuwe, "Andinalo ixesha lokuzilolonga," zibuze lo mbuzo:
Ukuba umntu ebekuphathele umpu entloko aze akuxelele ukuba ufumane ixesha laloo msebenzi, ngaba ubuya kuyenza loo nto?
Kanjalo. Enyanisweni, ingxaki asikokungabikho kwexesha, kodwa kukunqongophala kubaluleka ukuba sinikela kwimisebenzi ethile. Nyaniseka kuwe kwaye ubeke izinto ezibalulekileyo kwindawo yokuqala. Umzekelo, ukuzibophelela kumsebenzi kunye nokwabelana ngenkqubela yakho nomntu omthembileyo kunokukukhuthaza ukuba uwufezekise.
Le ndlela isinceda ukuba siyiqonde ngakumbi indlela esilisebenzisa ngayo ixesha lethu kwaye siphile ngendlela enemveliso.
4) Ukulinda ukukholelwa kum
Ukunciphisa iinkolelo ezinjengokuthi “Andilunganga” okanye “Andikulungelanga” kuhlala kusithintela. Ezi ngcamango zisisiphumo seminyaka yokuqokelela "ubungqina" bokubuqinisa.
Kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ungaqala ukukhangela ubungqina obuchasene noko? Umzekelo, ukuba ucinga ukuba awulunganga kwiimeko zokuhlalisana, zama ukukhumbula amaxesha apho uqhube kakuhle. Kancinci kancinci, umbono wakho uya kutshintsha.
Ukuzithemba akuveli kwimithombo yangaphandle, kodwa kwingxelo yangaphakathi eyakhayo. Cela umngeni kwezo nkolelo zinciphisa kwaye ufake ezintsha ezikuqhubayo. Oku kufuna ixesha nokuzinikela, kodwa kuwufanele umgudu.
Ukwaphula umjikelo "wokulinda"
Ipateni "yokulinda" iqhubekisela phambili ukubekel' amangomso. Nazi iindlela zokuyichasa:
- Zigqale izizathu zakho: Nyaniseka kuwe malunga "nokulinda" kwakho.
- Zibekele usukelo oluncinane: Qala ngemisebenzi emincinci, elawulekayo.
- Vuyisa uloyiso lwakho: Yiqonde inkqubela, nokuba incinane kangakanani na.
Ukuphumeza ezi zenzo kunokukunceda uhlukane nomkhwa wokulinda kwaye uqale ukwenza. Ukuyeka ukulinda kuvula ilizwe lamathuba. Ngokuthatha inyathelo ngoku, unokwakha ikamva elizalisekileyo nelizaliswe nenjongo.