Ndikucebisa ukuba le ngqungquthela iqulunqwe kumjikelo wamaphepha abhaliweyo "Ukulawula abantwana". Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana ngaphezulu kokuhleka kube kanye. Ngaphezulu kwesifundo kujongeka ngathi ngumntu omnye kwiKlabhu yamahlaya.
UCarles Capdevila ngunjingalwazi wezonxibelelwano kwiYunivesithi yaseBarcelona kunye notata wabantwana abane: intombi eneminyaka eli-19 ubudala, unyana oneminyaka eli-18 ubudala, oneminyaka eli-13 ubudala kunye no-6. Usixelela ngendlela ehlekisayo umahluko phakathi kwabantwana bakhe abadala kunye nabanye abantwana ababini abancinci.
Usixelela umahluko phakathi kwabantwana abadala ababini kunye nabanye ababini abancinci. Umzekelo, xa efika ekhaya, kukho ababini abamthiayo kwaye abanye aba 2 abenzi oku:
Ezinye iiparele uCarles usishiya:
1) «Xa ndenza isiqhulo ekhaya, ababini bahleka kwaye ababini bathi andihlekisi; Andiqondi ngoba kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo nabo bahleka ».
2) "Xa unyana wam oneminyaka emi-6 endanga kwaye yeyona nto intle kakhulu inokwenzeka kuwe, ndithi kuye: 'Ungandiwogi kakhulu kuba ndiyazi ukuba uyakuba njani, ndihambile ndaya kwikamva ".
3) “Eneneni, xa unyana wakho oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala esanga wena, ayikunyamezeleki into yokuba ngenye imini uza kwahlukana naye. Xa efikelela kwi-18, umbono wokuba ngenye imini uza kwahlukana naye ubonakala unomdla ... nangxamisekileyo ».
4) “Ngomntwana wokuqala, sasibulala iintsholongwane ngalo lonke ixesha kubonakala ngathi kungenzeka ukuba ichukumisile emhlabeni. Ngomzuzwana, ukuba sibona ukuba i-pacifier iwele kwindawo emdaka, sayigqitha ngempompo. Ngomnye wesithathu sele sigqibe ekubeni ukuba i-pacifier iwele kwindawo emdaka kakhulu kwaye bekukho amangqina ama-3, ubuncinci siza kuyisula kwihempe. Umntwana wesine akazange alahle i-pacifier ».