UJean-Claude Romand waba ligama elibi kwiinkundla zaseFransi nakwimbali yeendaba. Icala lakhe, eliphawulwe ngoluhlu lweenkohliso ezenziwe ngokucokisekileyo kunye nesiphumo esibuhlungu, siyaqhubeka singumxholo wokuhlalutya kunye nokucamngca.. Eli nqaku ligocagoca kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakhe, ukusuka kubuxoki awabujikelayo ukuya kulwaphulo-mthetho olubi alwenzileyo kunye neziphumo eziphawula ikamva lakhe ngonaphakade.
Indoda ebangela ubuxoki
UJean-Claude Romand, phantse iminyaka engamashumi amabini, wayeyindoda eyayiqhatha wonke umntu owayemngqongileyo. Wazalwa ngoFebruwari 11, 1954 eLons-le-Saunier, eFransi, kwintsapho ethobekileyo, wayebonakala emiselwe impumelelo ngenxa yendlela awayeqhuba ngayo ezifundweni zakhe kunye nobuntu bakhe obungenamdla kodwa obuzinikeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, Oko kwaqala njengokungenziwanga okuncinane kwajika kwaba bubuxoki obumangalisayo oko bekuya kumrhuqela enzonzobileni.
Umsebenzi wobugqirha wobuxoki
IsiRomand Wangena eyunivesithi ukuze afundele ubugqirha, kodwa emva kokuba ephumelele unyaka wokuqala, akazange aqhubeke.. Ukuze athethelele ukungasebenzi kwakhe, waqalisa ukuxoka ngeziqinisekiso zonyango ezazibonisa ukuba une-lymphoma. Esi ngxengxezo samvumela ukuba agcine ifacade yokuba ngumfundi ochachayo, ubuxoki awabongeza iminyaka eli-12. Ngeli xesha, u-Romand akazange akhohlise abazali bakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe kuphela, kodwa wade wazenza ngathi ukwizifundo zonyango, efunda iitekisi ukuba abe neengxoxo ezivakalayo kunye nabafundi afunda nabo.
Umkhohlisi kwi-WHO
Emva kokuphuma eyunivesithi, uRomand akazange akhangele umsebenzi wokwenene, kodwa endaweni yoko udale ubuxoki obutsha: wabanga ukuba ngugqirha nomphandi owaziwayo kuMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi (i-WHO) e-Geneva. Phantse amashumi amabini eminyaka, wagcina i-charade, esenza ukuba usapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe bakholelwe ukuba wanikela ubomi bakhe kuphando olunxulumene nezifo zentliziyo.
Ukuqinisa ubuxoki bakhe, u-Romand wazinikela ekufundeni amaphecana kunye nopapasho lokwenyani lwezonyango oluvela kwi-WHO ukuze afunde isigama sobugcisa kwaye ngaloo ndlela akholiseke ngakumbi. Ukongeza, walinganisa uhambo oluqhelekileyo lomsebenzi kumazwe aphesheya, ngelixa eneneni wayechitha ezo ntsuku kwiihotele ezikufutshane okanye eqhuba nje.
Inkxaso yemali yobuxoki bakho
Umbuzo ophakama ngoko nangoko ngulo: uRomand wabugcina njani ubomi bakhe obutofotofo ngaphandle komsebenzi wokwenyani? Impendulo ilele kubuqhophololo kwisangqa sakho esingaphakathi. Weyisela usapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kubandakanya abazali bakhe kunye nabazala bakhe, ukuba batyale imali eninzi kwiimali ezingeyonyani awayecinga ukuba uye wakwazi ukubulela "kwisikhundla" sakhe kwi-WHO. Ngale mali waxhasa ngezimali umgangatho wokuphila ophakamileyo: izindlu, iimoto kwanemfundo yabantwana bakhe kwizikolo zabucala.
NgoJanuwari 9, 1993 amashwa
Ubomi bukaRomand baqala ukuwohloka ngasekupheleni kuka-1992, xa uninzi lwamaxhoba akhe aqala ukufuna imali yawo. Ejongene nesoyikiso esasiza kufunyanwa, uJean-Claude wenza isigqibo sokwenza uthotho lwezenzo ezimanyumnyezi.
NgoJanuwari 9, 1993, iRomand yenze uthotho lweziganeko zokubulala ezothusayo iFransi. Ngaloo mini wabulala umfazi wakhe uFlorence kwikhaya labo, embetha ngephini lokuqengqeleka. Kamva wondla isidlo sakusasa kubantwana bakhe u-Antoine, 5, noCaroline, 7, ngaphambi kokuba badubule entloko ngelixa belele.
Indyikitya yokufa isaqhubeka
Uloyiko aluzange luphelele apho. Ngosuku olulandelayo, uRomand Waya endlwini yabazali bakhe, apho wababulala bobabini ngompu wakhe., ngaphezu kokudubula inja yentsapho. Kamva, wazama ukubulala isithandwa sakhe, kodwa wakwazi ukubaleka emva komzabalazo onzima.
Iinzame zokuzibulala nokubamba
Ukugqiba isicwangciso sakhe, Utshise indlu yakhe emva kokuhambisa ipetroli kumagumbi neepilisi ngenjongo yokuzibulala. Noko ke, abacimi-mlilo bamhlangula ngaphambi kokuba amadangatye amtshise ngokupheleleyo. Wasinda kwilinge lokumbulala, kodwa ekubuyeleni kwakhe ezingqondweni, wabanjwa waza wasiwa ematyaleni.
Iziphumo zomthetho nezengqondo
Ityala likaJean-Claude Romand laqala ngoJuni 1996 kwaye latsala usasazo olukhulu lweendaba. Ugwetywe ubomi entolongweni ngezityholo zokubulala ezihlanu, kungekho maninzi amathuba okuba angaphononongwa. Ngexesha lenkqubo yokugweba, Oogqirha bengqondo bafumanisa ukuba u-Romand une-narcissistic personality disorder, nto leyo esikhanyisela ngamandla akhe okugcina i-façade enobugocigoci phantse iminyaka engamashumi amabini.
Eli tyala likwaphefumlele imisebenzi yobugcisa emininzi, njengeyona ncwadi ithengiswa kakhulu "Utshaba" nguEmmanuel Carrère, ehlalutya ubuxoki bukaRomand kunye nefuthe labo ngokweemvakalelo kwabo basondeleyo kuye. Lo msebenzi wenziwa ifilimu ngo-2002.
Ityala likaJean-Claude Romand ayisiyiyo kuphela imizekelo eyothusayo yendlela i-narcisism kunye nobuxoki obunokukhokelela kwintshabalalo, kodwa kwakhona. iphakamisa imibuzo enzulu ngendalo yomntu. Yintoni ekhokelela umntu ekubeni akhe ubomi obusekelwe ngokupheleleyo kubuxoki? Umntu unokufikelela kude kangakanani ukugcina inkohliso?
U-Romand uchithe ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-26 entolongweni ngaphambi kokukhululwa ngengqawule ngo-2019.. Okwangoku uhlala ngasese kwi-abbey yaseBenedictine, kude neliso loluntu, kodwa ibali lakhe lisaqhubeka livakala njengesikhumbuzo esothusayo sobubuxoki obutshabalalisayo.
Kuyo nayiphi na intsebenziswano, ukunyaniseka kunye nokuthembeka kubalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwane kunye nokuthembana. Ishwangusha likaRomand lisisikhumbuzo semiphumo emibi enokuvela xa ezi mpawu zintle zilahlwa.
Ndiyibonile ifilimu eyenziwe eFrance ebizwa ngokuba yi-ADVERSARY, kwaye ndihleli ndingathethi, akukho namnye, nokuba umntu okrelekrele kakhulu wayenokukrokrela ubuntu bokwenene balo mntu. Ndandisoyika kakhulu xa ndabona imovie ethi, njengesiqhelo, intsebenzo yomdlali weFrance ibalasele. Ndiza kubona amaxwebhu… ..
Ndikwabona umboniso bhanyabhanya odlalwa ngumdlali weqonga ongumFrentshi uDaniel Auteuil, kwaye umntu wothukile kwaye woyika ukuba umntu angathetha inyani ngobomi bakhe kwaye akukho mntu unokumkrokrela, kanye le nto yenzekileyo ibangela uloyiko olukhulu. Iminyaka eyi-18 yale ndoda ilusizi kwaye ilahlekile ebomini, iyagula, iphambene, izele luloyiko lokujongana nenyani, ityala kunye nendlela eliphele ngayo linoburhalarhume, ndiyacebisa ukuba ifilimu iyothusa, kwelinye icala iveza iinyani njengoko zisenzeka kubomi bokwenyani, ngaphandle kokuzama ukutshintsha ikhosi okanye ukuzama ukubonisa iinyani ezimbi ngakumbi.
Ibali ngaphandle kwentsomi kaJean Claude Romand uxelelwe apha ayisiyiyo eyokwenyani: Funda incwadi Umchasi nguEmmanuelle Carrere, umbhali waseFrance owathi, emva kophando olunzulu, udliwanondlebe kunye nembalelwano nombulali, wabhala ubunyani benyani.
Kutheni usungula ubuxoki kwibali eliyinyani!