Kuhlala kukho ithuba elihle lokwenza into ezizodwa y yokuqala. Kweli nqaku, siza kuphonononga uluhlu olubanzi lwezimvo zokwenza izindululo zomtshato eziyilayo, ezisondeleleneyo kunye nezohlukileyo. Ukusuka kwizijekulo zothando nkqu neziganeko engaqhelekanga, uya kufumana Ukuphefumlelwa ukuyila isindululo sakho esigqibeleleyo. Khumbula ukuba ulwalamano ngalunye lodwa, kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba isindululo sakho sibonisa uthando kunye unxibelelwano ukuba wabelane neqabane lakho.
Indlela yokulungelelanisa isiphakamiso somtshato esingenakulibaleka?
Isiphakamiso somtshato asingombuzo nje. Lixesha eliya kuhlala lihleli kwinkumbulo yazo zombini. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukucwangcisa zonke iinkcukacha ukuze uzenze zihluke kwaye zinike umdla. Ngezantsi sinika imiba ngundoqo ngomyalelo ongalibalekiyo:
- Dibana neqabane lakho: Ngaphambi kokucwangcisa, cinga ngento oyithandayo, izinto onomdla kuzo, kunye nawona maxesha angalibalekiyo enabelane ngawo kunye.
- Khetha indawo eyiyo: Cinga ngendawo ebalulekileyo, nokuba kulapho wadibana khona, indawo yomhla wakho wokuqala okanye indawo enembonakalo entle.
- Iquka izinto ezothusayo ezizezakho: Yongeza iinkcukacha ezibhekiselele kubudlelwane bakho, njengengoma ekhethekileyo, ileta, okanye into emele imbali yakho kunye.
- Gcina ubumfihlo bakho engqondweni: Thatha isigqibo sokuba ukhetha umzuzu osondeleyo okanye ufuna ukubandakanya usapho kunye nabahlobo kumsitho.
Iziphakamiso zomtshato zokudala kunye nezakuqala
Okulandelayo, sihlolisisa izimvo ezilungelelanisa ubuntu kunye nezimbo ezahlukeneyo zezibini. Ukusuka kakhulu zothando Kwanawona madala kakhulu, qiniseka ukuba ukhetha enye ehambelana namandla obudlelwane.
Ukuzingelwa kobumntu
Uyilo a ukukhangela ubuthebi oko kuthatha iqabane lakho kwiindawo ezinentsingiselo kuni nobabini. Ingoma nganye inokuqulatha imemori okanye umyalezo zothando. Inqanaba lokugqibela lokukhangela kufuneka likuse kwindawo apho uya kwenza khona isiphakamiso. La mava awayolisi nje kuphela, kodwa abethelela iinkumbulo ekwabelwana ngazo.
Umyalezo kwindalo
Bhala "Uza kunditshata?" kwimekobume endalo njengesanti elunxwemeni, intsimi yeentyatyambo okanye nakwikhephu. Umlingo we-landscape wenza lo mzuzu ngokukodwa ongenakulibaleka. Ungalibali ukuthatha umzuzu ngeefoto ukuze ungafi.
Isindululo phantsi kweenkwenkwezi
Cwangcisa a yokuphumula ebusuku kwindawo efihlakeleyo apho banokucamngca ngesibhakabhaka esineenkwenkwezi. Yiza nengubo, umculo opholileyo, kwaye kanye ngelona xesha likhethekileyo, wothuse iqabane lakho iringi yokubandakanya. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba uhambelane neshawari yemeteor, amava aya kuba umlingo.
Isindululo esinomculo olungiselelwe wena
Qasha imvumi okanye ibhendi ukuba idlale ingoma echaza ubudlelwane bakho ngelixa uphakamisa. Unokukhetha ukucula ngokwakho ingoma ukuba unayo italente yomculo. Esi senzo senza ixesha kwaye lilenze libe ngaphezulu ngokweemvakalelo.
Iziphakamiso zomtshato kwiziganeko ezikhethekileyo
Ukuthatha ithuba iziganeko ezibalulekileyo ukwenza isindululo sakho unokongeza uchuku olongezelelweyo lweemvakalelo kunye nokumangala. Ngezantsi sikunika ezinye izimvo:
- Ngaphambi kweNyibiDyala: Yenza isindululo kanye phambi kokubetha ezinzulwini zobusuku. Ukuqala unyaka omtsha ekuzibandakanyeni kuya kuba yinkumbulo engenakucimeka.
- Usuku lokuzalwa: Yenza iqabane lakho licinge ukuba libhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa lilodwa, kwaye umothuse ngomsesane ekupheleni kosuku.
- Intlanganiso yosapho: Bandakanya abantu obathandayo ngalo mzuzu kwaye wenze umsitho okhethekileyo ngakumbi.
Iingcebiso zesindululo esigqibeleleyo
Ukucwangcisa isindululo esifanelekileyo kunokuba nexhala, kodwa ngezi ngcebiso, uya kuba ulungele ukwenza umzuzu ugqibelele:
- Ziqhelise: Ziqhelise into oza kuyithetha ukuze uzive uzithembile ngalo mzuzu.
- Cinga ngeenkcukacha: Khetha umzuzu, ukukhanya, umculo kunye nezinto eziza kudala umoya ogqibeleleyo.
- Thatha lo mzuzu: Cinga ngokuqesha umfoti okanye umfoti wevidiyo ukuba abambe impendulo yeqabane lakho.
- Yiba yinyani: Thetha ngokusuka entliziyweni kwaye uvumele iimvakalelo zakho zihambe.
Esona sindululo somtshato ngulowo umele i uthando lwenyaniso y ngokwahlukileyo phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho. Zonke iinkcukacha zibalulekile, kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zakho.