Kuhambo lobomi Sonke sijongene nemingeni ethile ekufuneka sijongane nayo. Ngamanye amaxesha le miceli mngeni siyayenza, ngelixa ngamanye amaxesha inyanzeliswa kuthi ziimeko zobomi.
Nazi iintshaba ezintlanu eziyimpumelelo zokuphepha ngazo zonke iindleko:
1. Ububi bokungakhathali.
Ukwaneliseka yenye yeentshaba ezinkulu zempumelelo ekufuneka zithintelwe ngazo zonke iindleko. Ngamanye amaxesha sihlala kwinto esele sinayo kwaye sihlale kwindawo yethu yokuthuthuzela. Nangona kunjalo, impumelelo luhambo, hayi indawo ekuyiwa kuyo. Ijongeka njengolonwabo, ikwaluhambo, hayi indawo ekuyiwa kuyo.
Ungazifezekisa iinjongo kunye neenjongo zakho, kodwa Ungaze ulibale ukuba kusoloko kukho iintaba ezinkulu ezinyukayo kunye neminye imiqobo ekunzima ukujongana nayo.
Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi abaqondi ukuba singasoloko senza okungakumbi. Bacinga ukuba ukufezekiswa kokuqala kwezibonelelo ezibonakalayo, oko kukuthi, imali okanye amandla, kwanele ukubomeleza ubomi babo bonke.
Kuhlala kukho umntu oza kuza emva kwakho uzimisele ukusebenza ngakumbi kunomvuzo omncinci. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uzame ukuba ngoyena uphambili kwinto oyenzayo kwaye ungaze uzinze.
Kuya kufuneka ugcine umlilo uphila ukuba ufuna ukuhlala kwikhondo eliyimpumelelo.
"Ixesha elililo lihlala lingoku", UCasey Neistat.
2. Ukunqongophala kwezixhobo.
Uninzi lwabantu abaphumeleleyo bajongene neengxaki ezinkulu ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, banazo izixhobo zengqondo zokumelana nazo. Ngokuchasene noko, abanye abantu bakhalaza ukuba ukusilela kwabo sisiphumo sokungabikho kwezixhobo ezibonakalayo ezinje ngemali.
Ubukho okanye ukungabikho kwezixhobo ezibonakalayo akuyiyo eyona nto iphambili ekuphumeleleni. Ingenuity sisixhobo esibalulekileyo esahlula abaphumeleleyo kubaphulukene. Isakhono sokwenza okona kulungileyo unayo kwaye ulawule iimeko kunye neemeko eziluncedo lwakho yinto ebalulekileyo yempumelelo. Ingenuity sisakhono esifundwayo.
3. Ewe.
I-ego yakho lolunye utshaba olunamandla olunokuthintela inkqubela phambili kunye nempumelelo ebomini. Ukukholelwa ekubeni awunasiphoso okanye ungenakoyiswa emva kokuba uphumelele ebamba abantu abaninzi.
Ingxaki nge-ego ekhulayo kukuba, ngelixesha uyayiqonda, liphelile ixesha. Incwadi kaRyan Holiday «I-ego lutshaba«, Ngaba malunga nendlela "i-ego" ikhokelele ekusileleni nasekutshatyalalisweni kwamadoda nabafazi abaninzi kwimbali.
Ingxaki ephambili kwi-ego yakho kukuba ayikuvumeli ukuba ubone ngaphaya kweemeko zakho kwangoko. I-ego ayizukuvumela ukuba ubone wonke umfanekiso, kwaye ke ngoko yonyusa amathuba okusilela. Ngokuyeka ubuzwilakhe be-ego, izinto zinokubonwa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zokujonga ndize nezisombululo ezi-pragmatic.
Zine. Ukuphulukana noxinzelelo
Xa uninzi lwabantu luphumelela, baba ngumona woontanga babo. Ngelo xesha, uninzi luthatha isigqibo sokwandisa kunye nokutshintsha izinto abanomdla kuzo kunye nemisebenzi. Ngenxa yoku kusasazeka, abantu abaninzi abakwazi ukwenza naliphi na ifuthe elibalulekileyo kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi. Le yingxaki enkulu kubantu abaninzi abaphumeleleyo.
Ukuthintela oku, kuyimfuneko uhlale ucacile kwaye uzinikele kwimisebenzi eyenza utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho.
5. Ukoyika into engaziwayo.
Emva kokuphumelela, abanye abantu bayakuphepha ukuthatha umngcipheko omkhulu. Bayaziqhelanisa nemeko yabo entsha kwaye benze indawo yentuthuzelo apho bangazibeki emngciphekweni.
Inyani yile yokuba wonke umntu uyoyika kwaye uyazithandabuza amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kuyinxalenye yobomi.
Ilizwi elincinci entlokweni yakho likuxelela lonto "Umkile ngokwaneleyo, sukushukuma okanye ungaphulukana nayo yonke into". Elo lilizwi lokoyika. Iingcebiso ezincinci zengqondo ezikwenza uthandabuze. Wonke umntu ulivile elo lizwi ngaxesha lithile.
Nangona kunjalo, isenzo sakha ukuthembana kwaye sibulala uloyiko. Ekuphela kwendlela yokuthula ilizwi loloyiko kunye nokuthandabuza ebomini bakho kukwenza ngokuzithemba kwaye uthembe umoya wakho.