Ubomi yindlela jiko, kunzima, ngakumbi nangakumbi ukuba sizinikezela ekubeni sisidenge. Ukukhetha izimo zengqondo eziza kulawula ubomi bethu kubalulekile.
Ndikushiya le mithetho ilishumi elinesibini ibalulekileyo ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi obuzolileyo nobuzisela ulwaneliseko olungapheliyo:
1) Vumela ukuhamba kwexesha elidlulileyo.
Kwenziwe ntoni. Khumbula ukuba iintlekele kunqabile ukuba zimbi njengoko zibonakala, kwaye nokuba zikhona, zisinika ithuba lokuba somelele.
Wonke umzuzu onzima ebomini bethu ukhatshwa lithuba loku ukukhula komntu. Kodwa ukufezekisa oku kukhula, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyifundile kukuyeka izinto ezidlulileyo.
2) Chonga isifundo.
Bonke ubomi sisifundo esikhulu.
Ungaze ulibale ukwamkela isifundo, ngakumbi xa izinto zingahambi ngendlela yakho. Ukuba awufumani msebenzi owufunayo, okanye ubudlelwane abuphumeleli, kuthetha nje ukuba kukho enye into phaya ngaphandle ekulindile. Kukho ezinye iindlela onokuzivulela iingcango ezintsha ezingapheliyo.
3) Ukuphulukana nesimo sengqondo esibi.
Ukucinga okungalunganga kuvelisa iziphumo ezibi. Ukucinga okuqinisekileyo kuvelisa iziphumo ezilungileyo. Yinto elula nje leyo.
Ingcebiso nganye kweli nqaku ayinamsebenzi ukuba ingqondo yakho ibhajwe kumjelo wamanzi. Ukucinga okuhle kunxulunyaniswa nempumelelo yabantu abaninzi. Kule meko, ndincoma le audiobook: Ngethamsanqa.
4) Yamkela uxanduva ngemeko yakho yangoku.
Nguwe kuphela onoxanduva lobomi bakho. Yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe igqitywe zizenzo zakho kunye nezigqibo zakho. Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba uzilawule kwaye ukhokele ubomi bakho kwindlela elungileyo, ulungelelane neengcinga zakho.
Akululanga kuba uza kudibana nezithintelo ezininzi kodwa mandikuxelele ukuba ngaphandle kwale miqobo ubomi buya kukruqula, bakunika ithuba lokoyisa. Thatha njengomceli mngeni kwaye uyakubona indlela ubomi obuzuza ngayo iinzame zakho.
5) Gxila kwizinto onokuthi uzitshintshe.
Kukho izinto ezingaphaya kwamandla ethu, enkosi kuThixo kuba kungenjalo siya kuba noxanduva lwayo yonke into eyenzekayo macala onke kuthi. Phumla ngezinto ezingaphandle kolawulo lwakho kwaye ujonge kwezo unokukwazi ukuzilawula.
Sebenzisa italente yakho kunye namandla akho emvakalelo ukuze uqhubeke nokukhula. Uneminyaka emininzi phambi kwakho, ukuba usebenza nzima yonke imihla ubomi bakho buya kuba lula.
6) Fumana into oyifunayo ngokwenene.
Chonga uthando lwakho, into eyenza ukuba ukhule kwaye ugxile kuyo. Zama ukuba ngoyena uphambili kwinto ethile.
Sonke sinetalente ezalwa nayo kwinto ethile, ukuyifumana, kungathatha iminyaka ukuyifumana kodwa uya kuyibona xa ujongene nayo.
7) Chonga eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini.
Kobu bomi kukho inkunkuma eninzi, izinto ezingafanelekanga ukulahlekelwa ngumzuzwana. Endaweni yokuba kukho ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ezinje ngosapho, izihlobo kunye nomsebenzi wakho. Le miba lithuba lokukhula.
8) Gxila ingqalelo yakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha iingqondo zethu zigcwele ziingcinga ezikhanyayo ezisikhubazayo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuyiphumlisa ingqondo yakho kwaye ujonge ingqalelo yakho kwinto enye kuphela. Xa uhlamba izitya, jolisa kuyo… uya kuqala ukonwabela owona msebenzi ungathandekiyo.
9) Yiba esebenzayo.
Ngabafileyo kuphela abangasebenziyo. Sukuba ngongafunekiyo, ulwe nalo, wenze izinto, wenze umthambo, udibane nabahlobo, funda ... nantoni na ethi qatha engqondweni, kodwa wenze into (ungabukeli umabonwakude kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuba yinto ekuzisela into elungileyo).
10) Gcina isiqhelo.
Ingavakala iyadika kodwa kuphela kwendlela yokufezekisa izinto ezinkulu: ngokuba noqeqesho.
11) Gcina ukuzeyisa.
Le ngcebiso inxulumene kakhulu nenombolo 8: jolisa ingqalelo yakho. Ukuba siyayazi yonke into esiyenzayo, siya kulawula iingqondo zethu kunye nezenzo zethu. Shiya into yokuphuculwa nayo kodwa ungaze uphulukane nolawulo.
12) Ulibale malunga nokubonisa abantu.
Ubomi bakho bobakho kuphela kwaye izenzo zakho zigqitywe nguwe ngokukhululekileyo, kufuneka zikhululeke kumaqhina anjengokuchukumisa abanye.
Amanqaku anomdla kuwo wonke umntu ngokubanzi.