Ndihlala ndikuthanda ukugqwesa njengendlela yokuphila. Zama ukukhokelela kubomi obugqibeleleyo kodwa ngendlela yendalo. Kuyinyani ukuba oku akunakwenzeka kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kulungile ukuba uphumle kancinci kuba ubuhle buyinto yokungafezeki. Ndikushiya ngeendlela ezi-6 zokuphila ubomi obugqwesileyo:
1) Fumanisa ukuba yintoni injongo yobomi bakho.
Ubomi bethu bendalo buqala ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ubomi bethu bokwenyani, imeko yethu yobomi, iqala xa sifumanisa injongo yethu.
2) Landela ukuthanda kwakho.
Kwinqaku izolo bendithetha ngale nto kanye. Ukuba uyithanda nyhani into kwaye uyayenza kakuhle, ngokungathandabuzekiyo uya kuphuma kwabanye.
3) Yenza uluhlu lwakho lokugqibela.
Ndithetha ukuthini ngo "uluhlu lokugqibela"? Luluhlu lwezinto ofuna ukuzenza ngaphambi kokuba usweleke. Iya kuba yinkuthazo yokwenyani kunye nenkuthazo eya kuthi inike umbala ebomini bakho.
4) Yiba nabanye abacebisi ebomini bakho.
Sonke siyabethwa ngumntu ngenxa yendlela abaphila ngayo, bebona ubomi, bethetha amandla abawadlulisela kuwe. Landela emanyathelweni akhe ngokusondeleyo kwaye ufunde kuye.
5) Yeka ukukhathazeka kakhulu.
Uninzi lokoyika kwethu lukhona kuphela kwiintloko zethu. Thatha inyathelo kwaye ungabi yintlekele kangako.
6) Sondela kubazali bakho.
Uninzi lwabantu lunobudlelwane obusebenzayo kunye nabazali babo. Inkqubo kubo iyimfuneko. Abazali bethu benze konke okusemandleni ukusinceda ukuba siqhubele phambili kwaye bahlangabezana neemeko ezininzi zolonwabo nathi. Unxibelelwano esinalo nabo lukhethekileyo.
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