Iincwadi ezi-5 eziPhezulu eziThengisa ngokuZinceda: Gqibezela iSikhokelo
Kwihlabathi lokuzinceda, izibizo ezithile ziye zaphawula ngaphambi nasemva kobomi bezigidi zabantu. Kolu luhlu, sibonisa i Iincwadi ezithengiswa kakhulu kwimbali yophuhliso lomntu, ethetha ngeemfundiso zayo eziphambili nempembelelo ezibe nayo kubafundi bayo. Ukusuka kubugcisa bempembelelo ukuya ekuphuculeni imikhwa kunye nokukhula komntu, fumana imisebenzi ebalulekileyo yokuguqula ubomi bakho.
1) "Indlela yokuphumelela abahlobo kunye nokuchaphazela abantu" - uDale Carnegie
Ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezili-15 zeekopi ezithengisiweyo kwihlabathi jikelele.
Yapapashwa ngowe-1937, lo ngumakhulu wazo zonke iincwadi izakhono zentlalo. Ithathwa njengeklasiki engapheliyo, uDale Carnegie unikezela ngezicwangciso ezisebenzayo zokuphucula unxibelelwano lwethu, ukuphembelela abantu ngokufanelekileyo kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo zethu ngaphandle kokubhenela kubuchule.
- Izifundo eziphambili: Funda indlela yokuvelisa uvelwano lokwenene, indlela yokuqhubana nabantu abanobunzima, nokubaluleka kokuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo.
- Impembelelo: Isetyenziswe ngabantu bezoshishino, iinkokeli kunye nabafundi ukuphucula ubudlelwane babo phakathi kwabantu.
2) "Imikhwa ye-7 yabantu abaSebenza kakhulu" - uStephen R. Covey
Ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezili-12 zeekopi ezithengisiweyo ngeelwimi ezingama-32.
UStephen R. Covey uguqule ihlabathi lophuhliso lomntu siqu ngale ncwadi yapapashwa ngo-1989. Indlela yakhe ecwangcisiweyo ivumela nabani na ukuba amkele imikhwa eyandisa iminqweno yakhe. ukusebenza kobuqu kunye nobungcali. UCovey uchaza imikhwa esixhenxe evumela abantu ukuba bafezekise impumelelo kunye nokuzaliseka.
- Imikhwa ephambili: Ukusebenza, umbono wexesha elide, ukubeka phambili oko kubalulekile kunye nentsebenziswano kubudlelwane.
- Ukubaluleka: Isetyenziswe njengesalathiso kwiinkampani ezininzi kunye neenkqubo zobunkokeli.
3) "I-Psychology entsha yothando" - M. Scott Peck
Ngaphezulu kwe-10 lezigidi zeekopi ezithengisiweyo.
Ipapashwe ngo-1978, le ncwadi ibalasele ekudibaniseni i-psychology kunye nengokomoya, inceda abafundi ukuba baqonde intsingiselo yokwenene yothando kunye nokukhula komntu. UPeck uthi ubomi bunzima kwaye ukwamkelwa kwale nyaniso yeyona nto iphambili ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya.
- Umyalezo ongundoqo: Uthando luyintlanganisela yomgudu, ukuzeyisa nokuzincama okunyanisekileyo ngenxa yempilo-ntle yomnye.
- Umda wempembelelo: Ibe yintsika kunyango lwengqondo kunye nokuzazi.
4) "Amadoda avela kuMars, abafazi bavela kwiVenus" - uJohn Grey
Ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezili-10 zeekopi ezithengisiweyo zaza zaguqulelwa kwiilwimi ezingaphezu kwama-43.
UJohn Grey wandisa ingcamango yokuba amadoda nabasetyhini banayo iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonxibelelwano kunye neemfuno zeemvakalelo. Le ncwadi iye yaba ngundoqo ekukhokeleni izibini ukuba ziphucule ubudlelwane babo kunye nokomeleza amaqhina abo.
- Iingcamango eziphambili: Ukwahluka kwengqondo phakathi kwesini kunye neengcebiso zokuphucula ukuhlalisana.
- Ukubaluleka: Ubeyireferensi kunyango lwezibini iminyaka engamashumi amathathu.
5) "Oyena Mthengisi ubalaseleyo emhlabeni" - uOg Mandino
Malunga nezigidi ezili-10 zeekopi ezithengisiweyo.
UOg Mandino wabhala le ncwadi ngomzekeliso, ebalisa ibali likaHafid, umthengisi olandela abanye. imigaqo yempumelelo equlethwe kwimisongo yamandulo. Indlela yakhe efanelekileyo ikhuthaza ingqondo yokuzimisela kunye nokunyamezela.
- Izifundo eziphambili: Ukuziphatha, isibindi kunye nothando lomsebenzi njengeentsika zempumelelo.
- Ukuthandwa: Uphembelele oosomashishini, oosomashishini kunye nabaqeqeshi abakhuthazayo.
Ukutyhubela iminyaka, ezi ncwadi ziye zayitshintsha indlela izigidi zabantu ezijonga ngayo ezazo ubudlelwane, ukukhula kwabo buqu kunye neengqondo zabo ebomini. Ukuba ujonge inkuthazo kunye nezixhobo ezisebenzayo, naluphi na olu fundo lunokuphawula inguqu kwindlela yakho yokukhula.
